I have been seeing a guy for a short time but have several other guys that I date as well. He is the only one that I see myself having a relationship with out of all of the guys taht I talk to although he has some baggage. I know he is totally infatuated with me, it could be because it is still "new". Should I consider myself "attached" and send the others packing or hold on a little while longer to see where this is going to go. I don't want him to catch on to the fact that I see other guys- that would totally send him running...?????
2007-01-03 01:16:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when he starts liking another girl
2007-01-03 01:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys have commitment issues!!! so don't call him your boyfriend, until he says the infamous words, "will you be my girlfriend?" this means that you should send the other boys packing either just wait a little longer & see what he says. However don't just settle for scrap that he might throw your way.
good luck
2007-01-03 09:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by Julz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
infatutation doesnt mean anything until both of you consider yourselfs to be bf/gf. And if you are just seeing him, that means you two are not exclusive and will allow you to still date with other people. If you feel like you want to be exclusive, discuss it with him and see how he feels. Just make sure you two like the idea or else the relationship wont last.
2007-01-03 09:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel there is something there betwen the two of yous then why don't you try telling him your true feelings but make sure you let him know your not ready for any commitments at the time being. You will get an ideal where things are going. Good luck....
2007-01-04 11:22:24 · answer #4 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One question for you:have you discussed with him the possibility of taking your relationship to the next level? If you have and he is open to the challenge, let go of all the others and see what happens.
2007-01-03 09:22:53 · answer #5 · answered by destinyminded28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to have a conversation with him and find out if he is ready for a relationship. Sounds like to me you might be, but got others on the side so if it doesn't work you always have something to fall back on.....that right there says to me that you ain't ready for a serious relationship, because you want your cake and eat it too.....
2007-01-03 09:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by appleblossom1228 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont cut the other ones loose just yet. Just see where you two are heading first and then if it gets serious and he talks about a relationship then cut the other ones loose! :)
2007-01-03 09:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Mizz.Purdy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not sleeping around and in danger of catching a STD then I would continue to have friends ( dates ) and not worry about settling down,
2007-01-03 09:18:31 · answer #8 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait till he come to u & talk to u
2007-01-03 09:21:38 · answer #9 · answered by simple girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋