I find myself being used for sex in almost eery relationship I've been in. Why? My current bf told me I'm naive in relationships...
2007-01-03 00:57:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can I show these men I am not naive and gullable? How? I admit to having alil low self-esteem, but these men don't see I do
2007-01-03 01:02:27 · update #1
I made my current bf wait 15mths for sex
2007-01-03 01:03:43 · update #2
I think its cuz I've been described as beautiful/gorgeous by alot of people including girls/ and have a nice figure. Do you think that's the reason too?
2007-01-03 01:08:38 · update #3
If your current bf waited 15 months for sex, that is an extraordinarily long time for a man to pursue a woman solely for sex unless he's got a whole string of ladies he rotates.
Maybe it's a perceptual thing for you.
If you have low self esteem, work on that inner stuff first. That will help a lot of the outer stuff sort itself out and give you a better base to make decisions about relationship from.
2007-01-03 02:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think women who have a low self esteem tend to draw such people like a magnet. The best way to avoid being used for sex is to put the brakes on make them wait. If they wont wait, it means they want to use you. But if they will wait, it means they respect you and care about your feelings, and want to be with you for the sake of being with you, and not just for sex alone. Hope this helps. Ness
2007-01-03 09:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by Lochie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's about right, the mentally Superior of the relationship will always come out on top. Don't promote yourself as an easy gal and stop letting guys take advantage of you. Set a goal for how many dates you go on before you put out. Once word gets around you're not easy, you filter the group for those quality guys.
2007-01-03 09:02:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Needy, submissive and low self esteem. My grandma always used to say "Why buy the cow when the milk is free." Why don't you save the sex for someone who shows you respect? Get to know them mentally before getting physical.
2007-01-03 09:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by sharon_misspriss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naive girls with low self-esteem.
2007-01-03 09:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch, damn those kind of men.
Maybe its not the type of woman but rather the type of man you should worry about. Ive seen sickos target for any girl, its like a lottery for em - keep trying till you finally hit something. Unfortunately, they dont get broke and get kicked out in this casino life of theirs.
2007-01-03 09:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by Dabidu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So dont have sex right away, then men wont use you for your body and will in turn appreciate your mind if u dont screw em as soon as u meet em. You have to gain respect, its not automatic. Men dont respect women unless we give them a reason to. NOT sleeping with them is a great reason.
2007-01-03 09:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by ber439_0116 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Low self esteem ones
2) The bitchy type that you never take seriously
3) The desperate ones that NEED someone
4) The gold diggers that make you feel you have to be 'paid back'
2007-01-03 09:14:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gullible women and also women who are really just looking for someone to really love. They are more likely to be a target because they aren't quiet as causious. They tend to be more of a romantic at heart instead.
2007-01-03 09:01:43 · answer #9 · answered by seretazandrae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl that need to be control by there BF are the one that get take advantage of. stop letting it happen take control of your life and do what most Lady's do use sex as a way to get what you wont. control us men. good luck
2007-01-03 09:01:34 · answer #10 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋