I invited him to my single mom's house so that he could ask for my hand. However, after that meeting, he seduced my mom and now both are married to each other. I am totally devastated. what should I do?
2007-01-03 01:06:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is a tough, tough way to find out something that you really needed to know about these two people who were the most important in your life. While only time will ease this pain, THANK GOD you didn't devote your life to this jerk. I guess we now know WHY your mom was single. Now.......through the pain, hear this: "If it is to be, it's up to me" From this point on, this is a wake-up call of monumental proportions that your future life and your future happiness will be due to your efforts and not theirs. They must live with a lifetime of guilt at betraying a daughter and future wife. Your conscience is clear. If I had to walk a mile in anybodies shoes, it would be yours not theirs. Remember: "time wounds all heels"! Good Luck.
2007-01-03 01:33:54 · answer #1 · answered by Jim N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hopefully now "thinking of getting married" is out of the question. Dump his loser a** and move on. As for the mom talk to her and tell her how this all made you feel. Move on with your life and forget those two.
2007-01-03 01:09:36 · answer #2 · answered by laney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Angel it incredibly is a typical and familiar actuality that ladies human beings mature quicker than adult adult males. you're purely approximately 25 and he's purely approximately 23 so as meaning he's quite purely approximately 19 in "guy years". of direction he's no longer waiting to get married. i does not propose to him or ask him to pass in with you, that equates to the comparable factor. in spite of the incontrovertible fact that in case you concern with regard to the area breaking up the courting (and it incredibly is a valid concern) then talk with him approximately a minimum of starting to be engaged yet having a protracted engagement. If he's no longer will to try this, and you're no longer desiring a protracted engagement, then it looks you're getting in 2 diverse instructions. certainly one of you will the two would desire to offer in (and honey, believe me that it's going to no longer be him), go on with issues they way they are and "wish for the suited" or pass on. If being engaged and getting married is what you like (and it does not unavoidably would desire to be to him) then you definately would desire to discover somebody older or somebody who's on the degree in his life the place he's waiting to make that style of dedication. it is not honest which you will aim and alter him or stress him into some thing he's no longer waiting for. reliable success.
2016-10-29 21:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by barn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should move on,it is obvious that if u had gotten married to him he would leave u the same way he dump u for your mom and your mom is really a little slut,i wouldn't have anything to do with her and worst i would keep my man far from her , introduce them unless u want to loose them, all the best.
2007-01-03 01:36:25 · answer #4 · answered by leecy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know don't know urself what u r talking
its all rubbish
wish u could have been more clear in asking ur question
2007-01-03 01:13:43 · answer #5 · answered by Oh My God! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date his father
2007-01-03 01:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant believe your own mother would do this to you. that is crazy.
2007-01-03 01:12:43 · answer #7 · answered by HoneyZ2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋