We have not talked at all, I went by the house this morning to pick up some stuff after she went to work, and I noticed that the ring was no longer in the box with her other jewelery, leading me to believe she must be wearing it again (even though she still wont call me, she said she would call when she was ready). The house is a mess (which is normally very tidy) and a note that I wrote to her was lying in the bed. What should I make of this, does this mean she still wants to be together? How do I procede from here?
2007-01-03 00:59:20 · 9 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Would it be ok to leave a single rose in her mail box on friday, no note or anything, just the rose
2007-01-03 01:03:36 · update #1
Having been married for 15 years I would say that all is not lost. We have been at the point of divorce on a couple of occasions only to bounce back. I would not give up hope...sounds like she is wearing the ring and still loves and misses you. Just hurt and anger right now. Give her some space and when she is ready to talk get together and stay as calm as possible. Learn to pick your battles carefully. Two minds operating as one can often be pretty challening but possible! Counseling often helps too! However choose carefully some counselors are actually to quick to recommend that your part ways. Having experienced everything that there is to experience in a marriage on the tough side I say "you can do it". DON"T give up! Just give a little space for now. Trust me......she still loves you!
2007-01-03 01:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by The Red Princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if she has been reading the note again (good sign) i would not approach her yet (i don't know how bad the argument was or what was said) but she just needs time to deal with what all happened between the 2 of you, if you rush her into confrontation right now then she may make a hasty decision. let her call you and i think things will work out for you.
2007-01-03 01:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-29 21:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by barn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely wait for her to call you. She may need space still & if you crowd her too soon, she may back off again.
EDIT: The rose would be a great idea. Good luck.
2007-01-03 01:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by IMHO 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
many factors are not displayed in your question... mostly your age and hers... however.. Yes.. I believe a nice gesture would lighten things up... but not just a rose.. try to make a funny situation... roses to work?? delivery I mean?? then call her as Prince charming and tell her (with a cocky tone) that you decided to give her the chance of a life time to have dinner with you that evening... she'll laugh... and then take her out to a nice dinner (doesn't have to be expensive)... and CHARM her. :)
good luck
2007-01-03 01:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by Maximus 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You give her time. Obviously, her life is in turmoil right now, as seen in the condition of your house. She is missing you, thats why she wears the ring. She's trying to decide if this BIG decision is the right one. She will talk to you in time, but you cant pressure her. Best of Luck.
p.s. sounds to me that she'll come back to you.
2007-01-03 01:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by ber439_0116 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah she really wants to be with you. to procede with that . call her or come by the house when she is there with flowers and tell her. I Love You. and i know you want me back. i want to be with you i love u sooo much.
2007-01-03 01:06:55 · answer #7 · answered by gangsteababiboo25 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give her a some space and then go talk to her.
If she still doesn't want to talk then go on with your life.
She just may need time to think or she was just looking for a reason to leave.
Good luck
2007-01-03 01:03:25 · answer #8 · answered by Stephie 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds she 's left you forever and as she's taken the jewellery she seems she was after your money.Maybe she must have found someone else.
2007-01-03 01:03:46 · answer #9 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋