Family & Relationships - 13 December 2006

and could you back your answers with reasons too? thanks.

i'm undecided whether i should have children or not. truthfully it's more on the negative, but i'm going to get engaged next year and i am thinking about my boyfriend (we both love children, but i had a sucky childhood and i don't want to go through childbirth pains because i feel it's so unrewarding) so i was thinking... what makes us ladies decide whether we should have children or not...

your answers are greatly appreciated :)

2006-12-13 18:27:09 · 12 answers · asked by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 in Family

my ex just showed up in our driveway, my husband isnt home. I havent seen him for 3 yrs. I go to see what he wants and tell him if my husband was here this wouldnt be a good place to be! He tried to get me to go with him but I said no and not to come back. After that he left. I called my husband right away and told him what had happened and He is interrregating me and not believing anything I say and even allowing his 19 yr old son to talk crap to me also. He says I knew that he was coming and have been talking to him for 2 months! Is he wrong for calling me liar and integgrating me and putting me down and allowing his son in our business? or do I deserve it?

2006-12-13 18:23:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Here is the deal, my lady have a 3 y/o grandson who calls her "na-na". I'm not his biological g-father and I'll be dam if he calles me grandpa, pa-pa or that other crap.

Other than Mr.___, my lady thinks something more personal should be used.

Help me come up with something besides the above please. What do they call you?

btw, as&hole is NOT an option..lol.

2006-12-13 18:22:53 · 16 answers · asked by Belize69 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i trusted him and beleived. he told me not to date any other guys except him. he wants me to be loyal and i did. its been a month ago since we didnt go out but last week he asked me when we can be out again and answered anytime coz its the truth. he will look for his work schedule he said. and i beleived that he is really busy. but one night when i was in the taxi i saw him with a chick holding each others hands. it hurted me. i didnt speak to him. he makes me feel stupid. we might see on friday in a party. what will i do?

2006-12-13 18:21:33 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im looking for some advice from some women me and my fiance have had a rough time lately and ive been under alot of stress she was 16 when we got together and i was 17 and she had had no previous relationship experience. we were just 3 weeks away from moving in togethjer when we had a huge arguement and she told me she had to see if this was right for her. while ive been under stress ive been easily agitated and have been having many fights how do i prove to her that things will get better she still wants to go on a date once a week but still b able 2 see other guys 2 see if this is right. i know i love her i have had a few long term relationships that ive been hurt in and io dopnt want to lose the last goodthing i have in my life.

2006-12-13 18:21:17 · 6 answers · asked by Jon K 1 in Singles & Dating

or something of any quarrelling nature. Except that we were in a long distance relationship of about 500km but we had 2 and a half years of sheer happiness and than one day BAAM! he decided he didn't want the relationship anymore. I haven't been able to reach him since then. I can't cry for him until I know his reasons. What do you think went wrong?

2006-12-13 18:20:55 · 18 answers · asked by myyus4cedl 2 in Singles & Dating

Whenever I call my boyfriend, he either has to go or is goin to sleep.I normally call him around 9pm cause it gives him a whole day to goof around and I only need probably 10-20 min. to talk to him a night, if not every other day.
He lives far from me...like maybe 20-30 miles. Its long cause neither of us can drive, regardless that he's 22. He goes clubbing sometimes at night which I don't mind.
Supposedly, he's sick right now. I wouldn't be surprised, since he owns an apartment with his uncle, his friend w/ girlfriend and kid.
He wants to come see me and I'm all for it, but because he was sick this week he couldn't. Normally he goes to bed at 10.
Tonight I saw him on his IM messenger n I immediately IMed him cause I didn't get to talk to him 2 days...he was too busy yesterday and I fell asleep early. So anyways he signed off as soon as I IMed him. I emailed him and told him how much it hurt me.
I was also looking at his myspace not long ago. (continued....)

2006-12-13 18:20:47 · 7 answers · asked by cattys_cats 3 in Singles & Dating

I would rather be in the presence of murderers and thieves than be with a cheater or adulterer. I find it disgusting. I haven't had any particular experiences with cheating but my opinion from what I see is that they only care about themselves and noone else......they are the lowest forms of human beings in my mind. They ruin peoples' lives.

2006-12-13 18:19:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why wont he leave me alone? Any thoughts? He is the one who left. He will call and want to talk to me and not the children. Is this sick or what? Any good advice? I really feel sorry for his wife.

2006-12-13 18:17:39 · 17 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Wanted to tell someone you love them SOOO bad,but you just can't because of the response you might get or the trouble it might cause??.How did you deal??

2006-12-13 18:17:06 · 7 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm losing the man i love,this is the lowest ive ever felt. He blows hot and cold but doesnt seem to have the balls to tell me it's over. I cant concentrate on anything but him,i try keeping busy but it doesnt work. I havent seen him in ages now and we even talked marriage. All i want to do is sleep,i slept about 12 hours the other day,the only time i'm not thinking of him is when i'm asleep.

2006-12-13 18:16:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Which foods do you miss from your home country? I'm back in Aus where I grew up for a visit after years living in the UK. I miss Chocolate milk, twisties, red rooster chicken, dim sims, red skins, jaffas, snakes alive, bright orange fanta, full fat yoghurt, potato gems. So many great but fattening foods!

2006-12-13 18:15:32 · 8 answers · asked by Skippy 4 in Singles & Dating

there's this girl i've been courting... i was serious with her but can't feel any appreciation from her... everything i do seems nothing to her... then, i decided to quit and stop courting her.. but now, she's the one sending me messages... she's the one talking first of which she never did while iwas still couting her... what do you think i'd do? i need help... does that mean she likes me already?

2006-12-13 18:14:22 · 18 answers · asked by ajsavior 3 in Singles & Dating

Just Curious To See If Anyone Here Knows The Reason As To Why Women Have A Hymen And Men Don't Have Something Like That For Their Penis'

2006-12-13 18:13:29 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

What is ur most heartbreaking moments & also ur happinest moments?

2006-12-13 18:11:49 · 9 answers · asked by Joeann 2 in Singles & Dating

After a girl gave me her phone number -- for better or worse -- I called and left a message today. The message said, "Would you like to attend a movie and dinner Friday or Sunday night? You seem like a cool person; I think you're a cool person; but I'd like to get to know you better. Blah Blah call me back."

Is there a waiting period for the reply?

Just curious. Either way I'm laughing my *** off...oh that's what lmao means ....

2006-12-13 18:11:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is there anything you would want to fix? Anything you want to take back? Or is there anything you would want to do all over again?

2006-12-13 18:10:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband passed away in May 06'......There was an age difference, but we loved eachother......Now Im having trouble with his daughter wanting our things from our home.........Ive been through 5 atty's , and they are NO help......They take my money, and go full force........Then BAM NOTHING ! Ive lost my home, my car, my insurance (through my husband)...EVERYTHING ! I was pregnant with twins, and due to stress (his daughter) I had a miscarriage...... She just wont stop ! Any suggestions ?

2006-12-13 18:08:37 · 7 answers · asked by Missy 4 in Family

hi i am 27 years old business man, but not much income,
but my parent want i get married hurry,
please suggest me what can i do,

2006-12-13 18:08:33 · 24 answers · asked by dharmendra s 1 in Weddings

i made the first move and i know he wont cause he is shy!
but the problem is that im too scared to go and make any other moves because im not sure if he likes me plus im shy too and dont know what to do without making myself look stupid!~

2006-12-13 18:07:26 · 7 answers · asked by LanaL0V3 2 in Singles & Dating

I really love her and I would like to spend my life with her but she doesn't want to tell her parents we sleeping together. Should I be suspicious or are there others?

2006-12-13 18:05:17 · 22 answers · asked by blixerb 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-13 18:04:21 · 14 answers · asked by fordfourx44 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How did you feel? What was she/he like? etc.

2006-12-13 18:03:32 · 21 answers · asked by 5ive 2 in Singles & Dating

Last night I met this girl and we had together a couple of drinks. She was a 28 years old brunette with dark green eyes. Nothing you would call gorgeous but a decent girl anyway. We decided to sleep together and so we did. Again, it was a one night stand without something special to mention. In the middle of the night I woke up because I was thirsty and I touched Sylvia. That was her name. In horror I realized she was not breathing. I swear she was dead. Although I was panicked, I realized that I had this huge erection. Before calling the paramedics I had intercourse with her dead body. Four times!!! I hadn’t scored four times in one hour since I was a teenager...

2006-12-13 18:03:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Money issue?
me and my boyfriend are both students in university, i work part time and make money but he doesnt. His parents give him a lil money every month to spend. It is barely enough for gas and main stuff. I feel like he should get a job because his classes r relatively easy ( he's doin political science) and only has 4 classes i have 5 classes and im studying math and comp science so its harder on me. Any ways whenever we go out i pay for dinner and stuff , i usually suggest it because if it was up to him he'll jus go home and eat. I dont mind paying at all i make enough money but i just feel like he should get a job n get money so we can go out n have fun . I mentioned to him in a nice way to get a job for himself so he doesnt depend on his parents but he doesnt seem to want to . n he does pay sometimes but usually he makes it clear he's broke so i offer to pay.. ! am i expecting too much of him???

2006-12-13 18:02:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I believe sept elevleth was an inside job, and this is what happened...

I believe the planes were under remote control, I believe a missle hit the pentagon. I believe bombs were in the towers. I believe Flight 93 was shot down.

I believe this was done as a pretext to form world governemnt

I believe this world government will be a one world powerful Evil. I am against it. I believe you will have to show your support for this by taking an RFID Chip in ur right hand or forehead.

If you dont you will be arrested and esxcuted,

I also believe Bush is a devil worshipper, and thats what the NWO Is all about.

My myspace page is my screen name

2006-12-13 18:02:02 · 8 answers · asked by Myspace.com/conspiracyalert 1 in Singles & Dating

where is northwest arkansas can i have a dinner that is affordable?

2006-12-13 17:58:50 · 4 answers · asked by avery's mommy 3 in Weddings

what should i do?
(the video game)

2006-12-13 17:56:52 · 19 answers · asked by Lovely 1 in Singles & Dating

i dye my hair blonde. my husband says he prefers brunettes.

2006-12-13 17:56:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

GUYS-

Why do you poke girls??

These guys I work with will poke me in the sides, back or stomach and I am thin so I don't know if they are poking/pinching for extra skin or what but it kinda makes me self-conscious. How should I take this??


Thanks!! :)

2006-12-13 17:55:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating