hi i am 27 years old business man, but not much income,
but my parent want i get married hurry,
please suggest me what can i do,
2006-12-13 18:08:33 · 24 answers · asked by dharmendra s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You sound like you can get marriage from a shop.
Get married when you are ready and that means both in heart and in mind. Love is the foundation of all relationships.
With regards to income, it is practical that you have a stable job and sufficient savings before you get married. You don't want to put your family in hunger.
Be practical. Tell your parents that you need time to find that someone and secure a well-paying job.
2006-12-13 18:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by nomamalin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, hopefully a wedding is a good time regardless of what the life before or afterwards consists of. The wedding is supposed to be a good time. Its a celebration.
MARRIAGE on the other hand, has little to do with how fun the wedding was. As Americans, we tend to believe that you should marry someone that you love instead of someone picked out for you. I have heard that in other countries where the children's mates are picked for them and love has nothing to do with the match, that these couples tend to stick together.
If you are in America, I suggest you don't let your parents pressure you into marriage. Don't let ANYONE pressure you into marriage for that matter. The concept of marrying for and being in love is too strong here.
On that note, maturity of both persons has a lot to do with whether or not your marriage is successful. Maturity includes understanding finances and income. If your finances are small, will she also be working and contributing money, or will you be supporting her? Maturity means knowing and respecting each other's values and expectations from marriage.
Maturity includes loving one another in a realistic way. It means trust without jealousy. It has to be a love that goes beyond physical attraction. So many people here get married because they are "in love" and they think that love will somehow manage to magically make things better. That is a huge sign of immaturity and one of the main reasons marriage doesn't last.
I suggest you wait until you feel that you are ready for marriage and have found the right person to be married to.
2006-12-14 02:25:03 · answer #2 · answered by slaughter114 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mature is the only best option.
****** Don't do it just because somebody else is asking you do.
****** Even after marriage you must love then alone the life will be happy, then it will mean that love is not a criteria for marriage
****** You are a business man, so you will have ups and downs in business, this month your might earn 10000 or 20000, next month may be you get only 3000. What will you do? Divorce your wife? Money is needed for running a life but it is not the only thing that is required.
Maturity, is the only thing. Think for yourself.
'N' number of people will give you 'N' suggestion in Yahoo Answers, but if you suffer in future nobody will come (even me).
If you feel, "If I have a girl who understands me then well I will come up in life. We will be happy". Then go ahead.
If you feel "No, let us wait for some time", then do wisely.
Keep all these suggestions which people are giving you in mind. MAKE YOUR OWN DECISION.
All the best (both before and after marriage) !
2006-12-14 02:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no good time for wedding or you mature or when u earn enough money or u get a good lover.
You will have to get married at the instance of your mother's choice if they are orthodox, or if they are matured enough you can get a lover of your choice. Much income is what you think, there are person who are much lower than your income status. So dont wait for enough money, if you wait you may lose your age or a good lover and most important your age too.
so you can get married or if you think u hv not much income, most probably you can wait till and until you the age of 29yrs.
2006-12-14 02:32:58 · answer #4 · answered by rs satish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not get married unless u feel that u r financially independeant and can very well handle sitautions, u also need to be a mature person by your mind
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2006-12-14 02:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by Alexander R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are earning enough of an income.let your parents understand that you dont earn enough yet to support a wife and that you will marry when you do.
also marry because you are in love not for any other reason.
if you marry due to presssure you may regret it later in life.
i think age 30 is about right though.
good luck
2006-12-14 03:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by modee m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to get married just now? If so then, begin looking for a suitable wife. Otherwise just smile when your parents nag you about marriage and say. when I'm ready you'll be one of the first to know.
2006-12-14 04:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best time to get married is when you are ready for it. Of course, out of four different 'whens', all are important in a way or the other. So try if all these are there in case of your marriage.
GOOD LUCK.
2006-12-14 02:44:55 · answer #8 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry when you want to and for love. The divorce rate is too high to marry just because someone tells you to.
2006-12-14 02:11:32 · answer #9 · answered by nicnspeedy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hi! your ? is itself your answer .
when all this 4 things are clubbed in 1 u should marry.
but think wise becoz after u married u are going to take a responsibility of 1 person who mite not be knowing u much better & u are not knowing her much better so think for both of your future.
well its much better if u hear your parents becoz they never can be wrong.
2006-12-14 02:44:44 · answer #10 · answered by vasanti gholap 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋