Family & Relationships - 16 December 2006

... it is about you they want?

2006-12-16 23:59:19 · 6 answers · asked by gotalife 7 in Family

this is so confusing.

2006-12-16 23:58:52 · 3 answers · asked by likechoco8 1 in Friends

I've known this girl for at least 2 months now and we talk and we've been out to parties and gatherings. She never calls me by name, but instead calls me my nickname because she thinks its cute. I liked someone before but found they didnt respond to me after a while, and this friend caught me with her a fortnight ago. She said she was upset that i was 'too busy socialising' to notice her but after that she said that i'm forgiven and that i owe her lunch to make up. I agreed to invite her to lunch this week. We havent seen each other since the party but i send her flirty messages on msn (for instance, i told my friend that i needed a darker tan, she said she didnt need hers and would give her tan over if she could and i replied with, how about you try rub it onto me and see if it comes off) and she laughs at them. One day, she had a long day of work but we talked through sms until 3 in the morning. She tells me random stuff or asks how my day was, hows work and when am i busy or working

2006-12-16 23:58:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

seriously

2006-12-16 23:58:12 · 5 answers · asked by angela 2 in Singles & Dating

but I will need lots of practice any offers?

2006-12-16 23:54:57 · 27 answers · asked by t00t5 2 in Singles & Dating

I am going to give my guy friend a christmas card tomorrow and as i give him it i really want to give him a kiss on the cheek but don't know if i should. I have known him for six months and i have more than friendship feelings for him but i don't know what he feels for me. I only wanted to kiss him on the cheek cos thats sort of what friends do but how do i go about it? We get on really well but we've never kind of touched or kissed eachother before. He's never really had much affection shown to him from family etc and i don't want him thinking i'm either feeling sorry for him or trying it on!! How can i do it without making him feel uncomfortable? Just a friendly kiss on the cheek?

2006-12-16 23:54:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

so ok, i see him everyday after school because we ride the same school bus. but see sometimes he talk to me sometime he don't, that's because he sometime listen to his ipot, and that go same thing with me. but sometime i just want to talk to him, but there is nothing much to say. but he doesn't really talk to me anymore unless he have some question to ask, or something to say...but most likely after weekend he ask me how is my weekend, but then he asked me if i wanted to go to the party...i dont know what he want. and i dont know what he's thinking.

2006-12-16 23:52:30 · 4 answers · asked by eva d 1 in Singles & Dating

please, i need help.

2006-12-16 23:51:04 · 9 answers · asked by likechoco8 1 in Friends

why do we fall in love and get goosebumps and shivers whenever we think about our loved one?

2006-12-16 23:50:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

so a girl and i met, based on our love for poetry, hung out, had feelings but she chose to be with someone else, bc she knows him better and i am moving 8 hours away. we agreed to be friends but then she told me something really scary that is happening to her, (her mom's missing) so i was worried and did two things: sent her the following poem and found her on campus just to hug her. to me, those things were done as a friend but the line is so blurry i messed up.
how can you offer home
to a stranger unknown
with no map to find
the peaks of the mind
and valleys of the heart
where do you start
to glow and ascend
will purity transcend
when the concrete invades
and an abstraction fades
depression was a season
before she gave me reason
to keep connection
in this human collection
Now, I intellectualize
feelings that have no eyes
can a gift stay alive
can kindness still thrive
on the end of this vine
nothing to be mine
but only for once see
filtered eyes set free

2006-12-16 23:50:28 · 2 answers · asked by the w 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 23:49:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this guy I know at college that's become a good friend over the last couple of months. Trouble is, I've developed a crush on him and I don't think he feels the same way. I know he's single, but I don't think he's over his ex, as he talks about her a lot. He obviously likes me, but just as a friend, and I don't want to spoil our friendship by letting him know how I feel.

So the problem is, how do I get over these feelings while still seeing this guy every day and being his friend?

2006-12-16 23:47:07 · 24 answers · asked by Phil 4 in Singles & Dating

he went into town with his friends and someone asked him to look at his phone ,which was a bit silly has this guy was a lot older then him ,he got a knife out at him,and told him to go else he do something to him

2006-12-16 23:45:15 · 8 answers · asked by susanrad10 2 in Friends

2006-12-16 23:45:07 · 11 answers · asked by welhungaswel 2 in Singles & Dating

My cousin keeps asking me this question about what the hell are guys thinking when a friend shouts to the world that you are crushing on this guy who was sitting next to you and is acting tense? "Does he like me back?" she says.

2006-12-16 23:44:06 · 1 answers · asked by SatAza 3 in Singles & Dating

sound like he liked me then just stopped. He just ignores me. could he still like me? Thnak you 4 the help :)

2006-12-16 23:43:05 · 5 answers · asked by Incredible 3 in Singles & Dating

If its allowed, where do i get it?

2006-12-16 23:41:05 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 2.5 yrs my wife is very possesive, jealous and it's affecting my relations with my family as she hates them for no reason other than that I love them dearly ( probably jealous as well ) for instance I help out my mother a bit and my wife wants to know how much I give her and the less the better even tho she buys presents for her family with my money
However, she also wants to control the financial side of the household even though I am working and she isn't - she's a doctor so she won't have problems finding a job - so whatever she says we buy and vice versa....finally she screams and crys if I refuse to follow her ( wants to save and I don't - wants to spend and I don't -makes a decision and I don't agree etc)
several ppl have told me to be firm but I am simply very emotional and find it very difficult to resist her crying - so what do I do? I don't want a divorce as we've got kids whom I'm very attached to.
Any help would be greatly appreciat

2006-12-16 23:40:39 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Kids are wathcing a movie, the missus is cleaning the house again, 2nd time today....., the kittens are beating up the Christmas tree and the dog is beating up the kittens. Any thoughts what I can do?

2006-12-16 23:40:38 · 15 answers · asked by Steve D 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

last nite i went to xmas dance and took my fiance with me,well we danced of cousre..but for a while i kept asking him but not a whole lot to fast dance with me.. he never had an anwser..so i couldtell he didnt want too.. it made me upset so my friend grab me and danced with me,then i sat back down and we spoke and waited it made me really upset,so we just went home.i really wanted to stay and dance and wanted hjim at least try..last yr my Ex did the same thing and it hurt to see it repeat but with a new guy (my fiance) as my fiance said sry to me i yelled at him and got even more upset.. what do i do? why wont guys try to fast dance? :(

2006-12-16 23:39:43 · 4 answers · asked by Andrea 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 23:38:31 · 5 answers · asked by Inessa K 1 in Singles & Dating

I just need to let off steam.
I have seven siblings who never help my father and seldom give any money. It is not that they earn little, in fact quite a few earned more than 6 thousands. At home staying is one of other sibling who never contribute any money. My father at the age of 76 still wash my brother clothes. I had to give money 500 dollar every month, pay the bills, do the housework and pay the 2 holiday trips to China for my father and other holiday this year. I hate being emotional blackmail by father who express wishes to visit China. He knows none of my other sibling would fulfill his needs. At time I feel like ending my life. Some of brothers express willness to contribute but mostly are empty words.

2006-12-16 23:37:24 · 11 answers · asked by y y111a 1 in Family

2006-12-16 23:36:46 · 3 answers · asked by SG 4 in Friends

2006-12-16 23:36:39 · 6 answers · asked by joe d 1 in Family

2006-12-16 23:36:27 · 22 answers · asked by Sy_LvEsTeR 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Heart is many work .But love's is very sweet & good work.

2006-12-16 23:35:08 · 4 answers · asked by bds_mohit 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 23:33:39 · 9 answers · asked by Inessa K 1 in Singles & Dating

Mine has lasted 25 years so far

2006-12-16 23:33:28 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you do when your first love is an unrequited one? It's like the saddest thing in the world.........

2006-12-16 23:27:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Leonard Johnson and I went to the Tournabout together at Horace Mann High School in Gary. I wonder what happened to him. My mother would not permit me to see him anymore after the Turnabout because she thought that we were too young to be getting so serious. The time period would have been around 1968-1970. He was such a nice guy. Just wanted to make sure that he is doing okay.

2006-12-16 23:27:37 · 5 answers · asked by Ardessa S 2 in Friends