Family & Relationships - 16 December 2006

It drives me nuts! He is always way ahead of me everytime we go somewhere....I always feel like he is being disrespectful.....like I am an Iraqi women or something. I am pretty tall and have long legs so it is not that I go super slow or anything. Am I being petty?

2006-12-16 00:57:58 · 32 answers · asked by Courtney 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-16 00:57:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 00:57:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we're talking to each other all the time, but the problem is, he talks to a lot of girls (but he's not the playa type-he's just friendly), and I dont know if he likes me as a friend or otherwise. I'm the only girl in the class that he actually speaks to-does that mean something?
my other problem is, he's white. most of my friends are black and they would (well, not all of them) expect me to like a black guy. and I'm afraid that if they find out, they'll be like "eeew" or make fun of me or something. but I really really like him, he's so much fun to talk to. what should I do?

2006-12-16 00:56:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you know... today someone ramdom asked about my X'mas plan but which kind of hitted me!! He asked "hey man, it is Christman... who are you going to spend your Christman with?"

I was like "er... properbly just go to the City and hit some club...?"

Then he asked curiously "don't you going to celebrate with one in particular or family??"

Then I was like... "er... er... oh huh... what about you?? must be heaps of plans hey ~~~" well... at this point I was just trying to get away...

SO, what about you?? tell me your exciting X'mas plan here~~~ Marry X'mas~~ cheers ~~

2006-12-16 00:55:22 · 5 answers · asked by Johnmissing 1 in Singles & Dating

i have told him that i like him but one time i post on my blog that i was affected on everthting he does, he made an unexpected reaction blah blah as if he was thinking that i am waiting for him to like me too but i was not... i justy wrote on my blog my feelings for the day and when he read my posts, that he comments on his blog and not to comment on my post...

2006-12-16 00:53:55 · 10 answers · asked by khazy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 00:53:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am an average looking person. My height 5'4', athletic body. I have a car, a bike.

2006-12-16 00:51:06 · 15 answers · asked by thiru 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband is constantly hurting my feelings. He had an affair, he isn't always around when I need him to be, he makes me feel like he doesn't love me. We try to have fun together and are working on our relationship.

This morning we got into a disagreement and he couldn't understand it. I have been trying to be nice to him despite everything he has done to me. I try to give him his space and don't pressure him to be with me 100% of the time. He constantly wants attention and likes affection from me, and I give it to him.

The problem is, he doesn't always reciprocate. This morning, I woke up happy to be with him. I gave him a massage and scratched his back. He didn't respond and jumped out of bed to check his work phone messages.

Later on, he wanted me to massage his feet. I told him that he had hurt my feelings and he couldn't understand why. Why expect affection if you can't return it?

2006-12-16 00:46:45 · 18 answers · asked by blue eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Does that make me a Schizophrenic with split personalities?

2006-12-16 00:46:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 26 and met someone on Match.com and we are having our first date tonight. I have never been on a date in my life. Seriously, and I'm nervous as heck. My friend said I should get some Dickens Cider. Do you know where in NJ is can buy Dickens Cider? Is it liquor? I don't think will be appropriate for a first date to get her drinking. Advise?

2006-12-16 00:44:54 · 11 answers · asked by peckyrotfatguy 1 in Singles & Dating

last night i went to a promnight with my bestfriend... two of us went together as a couple(b'coz her boyfriend was not in town i have to company her)...suddenly i feel that i starting to like her...but she have a boyfriend...the boy is my own friend.....

2006-12-16 00:40:13 · 5 answers · asked by Paul Carling R 1 in Singles & Dating

yes i'm young and i'm aware of that...i'm really responsible and mature...but still enjoy child-ish stuff.but all my friends have boyfriends and it sometimes makes me look too concious or feel not pretty...and it makes me wonder if i'm only pretty in my parent's eyes.

i always want a really cute,smart,thoughtful & charming guy.
leaving simple notes on my locker saying "i love u"..."i miss u"
giving me small gifts for no reason at all.
calling me in the middle of d night just bcuz he wanted to make sure that i was alright...making simple quotes of how i'm special........i know it's a little fairytale-ish, a modern-day prince in shining armor...but is it bcuz of my age or bcuz of my insecurity...that i constantly want something i just couldn't get.?
will i ever find the guy of my dreams or will it only a mere dream???

2006-12-16 00:37:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 12 and my mom mean to me.WHen ever I ask to hang out with my friends she turns it into this big deal and trys to make me feel bad by saying all you care about is your friends which isn't true.I went to the movies with my two of my friends last night and was going to get a ride home with one of my friends ,but then the other one would have to wait for her dad to pick her up all alone So we had fifty cents so she tried calling her house to tell her dad to pick us up ,but there was no answer so she left a message.We waiting maybe 20 minutes and no one came.We asked the front desk guy to use the cinema's phone ,but it doesn't call out.I knew my mom was worrying to death ,but there was no way I could call her.then finally after and hour of waiting the front desk guy let us use his cellphone.I called my mom and she picked me and my friend up.My mom started screaming at me and grounded me.i woke up the next morning and try and talk but she won't listen. She thinks I'm on drugs,but I'm not

2006-12-16 00:34:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My hubby had an affair. I know all about it. Whats done is done, it cant be changed, and we are trying to move on towards the future. He has shown remorse, he cried, guilt, embarassement, all the "right things". But heres where i'm scared. IF he felt so guilty and so sorry, would this affair really lasted 6 months? This was not going out one night and getting drunk and making a mistake. This was an everday, planned, on the phone, event. I want to make it work, only cuz i am guilty of a one night mistake years ago, which he knows, and has forgiven me. But my fear is this: if he didnt feel truely guilty and isnt truely sorry, this WILL happen again. How can you talk to your wife on the phone, when your GF is there, tell your wife u love her before u hang up, knowing damn well you just got done with your GF or getting ready to do her? Does any man out there have an explanation of what goes through your head. Is it possible to do all that and still feel guilty & love ur wife?

2006-12-16 00:34:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he always talks 2 me, sits next to me at lunch every day, he gave me a cute pair of earrings 4 xmas, he hugs me a lot... etc
does he like me or is it just the way guys are??

oh, and he kissed me on the cheek once

2006-12-16 00:34:10 · 11 answers · asked by xojessox 5 in Singles & Dating

She is the kind of woman who gets her hair and nails done weekly and when she wants something, she generally goes out and buys it for herself. However, with that being said, when it is her turn to give someone a gift, it is usually something inexpensive.

2006-12-16 00:32:52 · 15 answers · asked by Laura W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Where did you purchase your wedding gown?
Did you purchase it online or at a local bridal shop?
Were you satisfied?
Do you think you spent too much or not enough?
What kind of a dress was/is it? Ballgown, A-Line, princess gown train/no train, short/long?
What color was it? White, ivory, champagne, cream, red .... ?
Did you wear a veil, headpiece or tiara?

I just like to collect some opinions and ideas.
Oh and it would be great if you had a picture of the gown you were wearing at your wedding or will be wearing.

Thank you for your help!

2006-12-16 00:31:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

...or will one of them always want it to go to a more physical level?

2006-12-16 00:31:01 · 40 answers · asked by T Time 6 in Singles & Dating

so my uncle in law died a month ago and though i called my aunt that day and all i don't know what to say to her now. see she lives in a different country and i only see her on my summer holidays but i write to her a lot and now i don't know what to say to her because i think it would be heartless to not say anything about it. any suggestions?

2006-12-16 00:30:57 · 12 answers · asked by 12345 4 in Family

He treats employees like they are stupid and aggravate him on purpose, he is always asking me whats wrong, discussions always end up with me being accused of not wanting to be here, he takes EVERTYTHING in the defense. help me! I am losing my love for him.

2006-12-16 00:29:12 · 12 answers · asked by Fuzzy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-16 00:28:32 · 28 answers · asked by its just me 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my wife asked if i felt guilty but i said no he is a big boy now.

Should i have felt guilty??












PS my son is the teacher not a pupil

2006-12-16 00:27:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-16 00:26:30 · 5 answers · asked by prashant k 1 in Singles & Dating

I just found the guy that I"m maddly in love with but, I don't think he likes me and he playing with my heart and I love him but now my heart is broken. What should do?

2006-12-16 00:26:26 · 15 answers · asked by nicole 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont really understand about girls i am 18 this years i only have 3 girlfriends but all break i don understand why? so everybody will be wondering what i did rite? here is what i did morning calls to wake them up to go work or schools....afternoon will be greetings asking how are them taking thier lunch or not....at nite greetings eaten? and have some joke... before sleep ill give a report wish them sweet dreams... saturday sunday will be for some movies and shopping...and i am loyal and faithful with them trust wateva they said..... but it dont seem enough for them wat i get is a sad ending break up any ideas wher i did wrong?

2006-12-16 00:25:22 · 5 answers · asked by wai_pams 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you remember your first night till now?Can you share how was it and how long it lasted?

2006-12-16 00:25:19 · 5 answers · asked by Almaas Ahmed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-16 00:21:57 · 10 answers · asked by mudcat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Please donot swear

2006-12-16 00:18:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

when I was first married I asked my husband if he would ever disrespect me enough to cheat, he said he couldnt really know for sure because there might be situations, like, being drunk at a party, or, meeting a woman he was attracted to he couldnt resist! I was dumbfounded at this. Now its 25 years later and I left him. The main reason is porn addiction,lies,cruelty. Should I have ended it at that first honest answer? What would yall have done?

2006-12-16 00:18:19 · 11 answers · asked by sandra b 5 in Marriage & Divorce