Family & Relationships - 16 December 2006

SENARIO:Step-daughter is 22yrs old. Has had apartment with (non-working) boyfriend for the past year. Just got eviction notice, can't afford the apt. any longer. Has until the end of the month!
NOW: She calls my husband crying the blues of maxed credit cards, behind on rent, etc. Asks DAD to take out a loan of $9,000 to get her out of the hole (claims she will pay the loan.. besides a car loan he took out for her, she hasn't paid on in the past 3 months - .."right"). He was denied the loan because we took out a $25,000 home improvement loan + my car loan in May. SO,She announces she will move back in with dear ole dad (neither of them asked my thoughts on the matter). I have 2 daughters (1 in college,1 in the Navy). One of their rooms is used for storage, the other has her things packed in boxes. So, I am suppose to tell my daughter in college she no longer has a bedroom to come home to? I feel like moving out myself. I NEED SOME ADVISE PLEASE!

2006-12-16 03:23:49 · 10 answers · asked by LARGE MARGE 5 in Family

Ok. I m married and last yr I had an affair that lasted for 8 mths with a child hood friends father. Well I told my husband and of course he was heart broken, And before anyone starts judging me I KNOW I DID WRONG!!!! We are now going to counsiling and he has forgiven me, And I did break this affair off as soon as I told him. Well now a male friend of ours {he knows this man and knows about my affair} keeps calling me when my husband is at work and wants me to come see him, He wants us to be more than friends as he put it FRIENDS W/ BENEFITS he knows what we are going through with counsiling. But keeps trying to get me to come visit him. He is not married anymore and has 2 grown kids. I have a husband and 3 young kids, so I have alot to lose, How do I get it across to him that I cant and dont want A FRIEND W/ BENEFITS I dont want to hurt him but my family means more to me. marriage cant handle another mistake, any advice appreciated, Please dont be mean.

2006-12-16 03:23:18 · 4 answers · asked by needadvice07 1 in Friends

Ok, this hot guy, I kinda like asked me if I had a boyfriend. Then he asked me if I wanted one. After that he asked me if I had a crush on anyone, with an eagar look in his eyes.

2006-12-16 03:22:40 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She came up and intrduced herself to me and we had a couple of drinks and she asked me if I think she should haave sex with some new guy she just met. Why would she ask me a question like that?

2006-12-16 03:21:17 · 13 answers · asked by michael h 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so my parets wnt me to be put up for adoption because ive been so mean so my little sister... maybe a couple times i have but she is always playing the innocent one and its not fair i never get to say what happend. she always gets her way.... so i dont no what to do im going to be put up for adoption next week i just want to start my life over!!!!

2006-12-16 03:20:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

At 14 years old..

2006-12-16 03:20:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND BUT LAST WEEK I JUST WENT BALISTIC AND KISSED MY PERFESSOR I KIND OF LIKED IT BUT I KNOW HE IS ALMOST 10 YEARS OLDER THAN ME. HE ASKED ME OUT
MY BOYFRIEND FOUND OUT AND PUNCHED HIM IN THE FACE I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND BUT HE HAS VIOLENT ISSUES WHO SHOULD I CHOSE. THE ONE WITH THE ANGER PROBLEM OR THE ONE WHO IS WAY OLDER THAN ME. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-16 03:20:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if change what should i change it to?

2006-12-16 03:19:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So last night there was a dance at my school. This guy asked me to dance and he ended up putting his hands on my butt, it was a harmless thing but I still didn't feel comfortable with it and didn't do anything. Last night I felt so gilty I almost threw-up so I told my mom. She acted fine about it and told me it is fine to say 'no'. So I feel better, but still have that feeling in my tummy, has anyone done this and felt bad and what can I do to make the feeling of being sick go away? Thanks!

2006-12-16 03:18:48 · 3 answers · asked by JJ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-16 03:18:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 03:14:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 03:13:12 · 15 answers · asked by sandy s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I liked this girl for a long time and she knows, now i wait to hear her answer if she'll be mine, but she likes one of my old friends and she pretty much wants him. it seems like I have no part with her and I wanna tell her goodbye cause being her friend hurt me watching her with him, I just can't do it. so how do I tell her goodbye and how can I move on. this is hard for me I just want a girl to hold in my arms and love. thanks for your help

2006-12-16 03:12:09 · 15 answers · asked by sarge7826 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 03:12:02 · 27 answers · asked by frankie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this REALLY hot guy at a party last night and I asked him to dance and remarkably he said yes...so we danced like for 2 hours straight! I was so tired so I asked him to sit down with me and then it happened...we kissed! I left about an hour later and got his phone number and he said that we could hang out some time..when should I call him argh I hate this...

2006-12-16 03:11:14 · 5 answers · asked by HOLLiSTER PREP 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 03:11:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok i met this guy at my high school (im a freshman, he's a junior) and we started talkign and ....and i even went to his house and stuff. He told me that he likes me, but he doesn't want a girlfriend right now..and i went to the movies with him and i hope not al he wants is to get some...he's shy and is on the soccer team, and thye practice alot...so i wonder if thats why he doesnt have time for a girlfriend....?

2006-12-16 03:10:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she is less than ten feet away and i really want one. would it hurt her that much to do a friendly thing for her brother?

2006-12-16 03:10:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

On the phone my boyfriend and I have nothing to talk about and I need advice on what we should talk about we are about 14 yrs old

2006-12-16 03:09:52 · 10 answers · asked by Distubia - DO NOT DISTURB 3 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy I like and I want him to notice me and there is a homecoming I want him to be my escort and he already sead no but I don't want to go with anyone else. WHAT DO I DO???

2006-12-16 03:02:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my fiance for 3 years. He has been in a horrible divorce battled with his ex and she is lieing to the court about me and is keeping his child from him. We are on the verge of a nervous breakdown and now our relationship is suffering. We love eachother very much...but the stress we have from this woman is intolerable. We need some support...somewhere.

2006-12-16 03:01:30 · 8 answers · asked by sbarna0 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay i told my freind that i like a girl name amanda and amanda is already freinds with me so he told another freind of mine which i think she likes me he told her that if she ever touches me then amanda is going to knock her out so one day she went up to me and she told me what he told her and ii said thats not true and she asked amanda if thats true and amanda said no so my question is do what do i do?what does she think of me of me now

2006-12-16 02:59:50 · 13 answers · asked by Luis 4 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with a guy that had a huge crush on a girl in high school which turned into feeling of love. He sent he a letter after 4 years of keeping felings inside and she said no unfortunately. He was devastated. Almost 10 years later, he has a girlfriend but he doesn't love her. I think he hasn't been in love since that crush. Can it be that he still loves her and that's why his heart is not available for anybody else? Maybe because he was hurt so bad he will never let anyone in again?
Do you always have feelings for such old flames? Can you be able to love again? Would you still do anything for that person and be with her if she would want to?

2006-12-16 02:59:36 · 11 answers · asked by stargazer 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what do i do i like him but if i go out with him everone will say i broke them up were 13 and confused?

2006-12-16 02:59:29 · 14 answers · asked by crazzzy_gurl2004 1 in Singles & Dating

hello, i have no idea what to do. my fiances mother is stepping on my toes and causing a lot of drama in our relationship. please, has anyone ever been in this situation? if so, what did you do? thanks.

2006-12-16 02:58:47 · 24 answers · asked by fire7651 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it possible that a teenage girl rejects a boy's love not because she doesn't like him, but because his love letter is so emotional and with a lot of feeling that she feels she is not capable of loving him as much as he loves her?

is there such a noble thing?

2006-12-16 02:58:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Since moving in both grades and his lies are progressivly worse. He lies almost continually, caught him numerous times. He is failing 4 of 6 classes, now on the 5 year plan. I want him to grow into a great man, he is so great otherwise. Teachers and freinds say he is the sweetest person you could have around. I want to enjoy him now that I have the chance but need to help him correct these two problmes. What is the best way to deal with this issue?

2006-12-16 02:57:25 · 5 answers · asked by JimLeon 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The reason I ask is that I find women wearing tall leather boots SOOO sexy, I was wondering if they knew men liked it and if they fealt sexy wearing them...

2006-12-16 02:57:02 · 13 answers · asked by TOYMAN 1 in Singles & Dating

5'5 ....125 pounds? what is your ratio?

2006-12-16 02:56:56 · 16 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I was at my girlfriends house and we were playing cards and I lost a bet to her..

She said I have to dress up like a girl for a day. So she said we should get on Yahoo! Answers and ask the good people what she should make me wear.

She said she wants you to pick everything for me to wear from head to toe and that she will pick the answer she likes the most and wants links, pictures, and details of what you want me to wear.


I am being a nice guy and going through with the bet so please be easy on me!!!

2006-12-16 02:56:10 · 5 answers · asked by rex g 1 in Other - Family & Relationships