I have been with my fiance for 3 years. He has been in a horrible divorce battled with his ex and she is lieing to the court about me and is keeping his child from him. We are on the verge of a nervous breakdown and now our relationship is suffering. We love eachother very much...but the stress we have from this woman is intolerable. We need some support...somewhere.
2006-12-16 03:01:30 · 8 answers · asked by sbarna0 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You don't need support. You need therapy. You have brought all of this on by getting involved with someone who has major baggage. FYI - "this woman" was once good enough for him to marry and impregnate. I hope you don't find yourself in her position in the future.
2006-12-16 03:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the support group Stupid Women Who Are F*cking Guys Who Are Still Married But Are Engaged Again Anyway Like That's Going to Work Out (SWWAFGWASMBAEAALTGTWO) could offer you some help.
Man oh man, women go completely off the deep end if they are the ones being cheated on, but don't seem to mind being the mistress in these sordid little affairs. Proving again my contention that women have no respect for each other.
2006-12-16 05:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he still pay a mortgage and who's name is the mortgage in, if it's joint names then obviously you are entitled to live there too. If the house is just in his name then itt sounds like he won't hang onto it if he is a chronic alcoholic. If your name is on the mortgage and he fails to keep up repayments then you could also be blacklisted. He should however pay towards the upkeep of his child. It makes you wonder how monsters like him can sleep at night. I agree with the above answer - make his life a misery and make him scared to answer the phone, drinking makes people paranoid so help it along a little bit and phone him at work etc. This worked for a friend of mine, she made her ex's life a misery but she got what she wanted purely so he could have a quiet life.
2016-05-22 23:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask you ...is he helping "support" his child..is he working? are you 2 living together? if so..that is a major no-no in the eyes of the (any) divorce court. thing is tho...his private life is no reflection on his parenting skills..i mean the fact that he has a girlfriend meaning YOU. doesn't make him a bad father. what i would recommend is that he give money..buy things that his child needs (clothes, shoes etc..) and KEEP ALL RECIEPTS...a paper trail will look great in court. and his lawyer should have told him this already. if he didn't...get a new lawyer. by LAW she can't KEEP his child from him.
2006-12-16 03:14:57 · answer #4 · answered by lilyofvalley1962 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try your local churches of 12 step divorce group support group and seek counseling for you and the kids.
2006-12-16 04:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called the Bar, you will find a Support Group there.
2006-12-16 04:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by Angelz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would have been much easier on all concerned had your "fiance" of 3 years was actually divorced before you hooked up together.
2006-12-16 03:04:48 · answer #7 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a Church!
They are the most uplifting people you will ever want to meet and they can teach you about JESUS CHRIST who is your Saviour, and died for your sins!
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-12-16 03:05:40 · answer #8 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋