Family & Relationships - 16 December 2006

Our divorce isn't over yet.we go to court in january.He's telling me he still loves me and want joint custody of the kids but I don't want that.On Monday, I will send a copy to my lawyer.Is that harrassment?I feel that is b/c we are supposed to communicate through our lawyers now.He also started a request on paper that's signed by our attns. that starting this month, he would have visitation every other weekened.I agreed but this weekend was supposed to be his and he didn't come to pick them up.I waited for them just in case and gave them 30 mins.I will also tell this to my attn.He started this, why he isn't following it?Plus my attn said that on Thurs she received a request for visitation for Dec 22-29th.we both laughed and said hell no b/c I want my kids to wake up with me on Christmas.It's been 2 yrs with no childsupport.It's his mom who is pushing the divorce.I was workN on getN the divorce but they filed 4 days b4 me.they have money & i had 2 wait 4 a process b/c i had no money...

2006-12-16 02:39:47 · 6 answers · asked by angelic1302 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i fell out of love with my hubby @ 2 yrs ago recently met a great man I think I am falling in love confused do alot of crying for I know where my heart is my hubby has cheated on me way more than 4 times so i feel as though i have had enough what do you say

2006-12-16 02:39:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, this 7th grade immature boy from my church likes me and asked me out. he tricked me into saying yes. i dont wanna go out with him but i never see him, only at church. the problem is that theres a dance at my school tonight and one of my guy friends asked me to go with him. i didnt wanna say no so i said mabey. more than likley the boy from my chruch (tanner) will be there and he will see me hangin with my guy friend (aaron). so i wanna go with aaron but tanner might get mad and think im cheating on him. what should i do?

2006-12-16 02:39:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

plz leave me ur msn add or yahoo add so tat we can chat....b it a gurl or a boy doesnt matter but i nid something strong as a frienship

2006-12-16 02:39:03 · 5 answers · asked by parky_gurl 1 in Singles & Dating

whom did you ask your first sexual question and what was it?and of course what did u hear back?

2006-12-16 02:38:08 · 4 answers · asked by bigballs 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 02:37:54 · 14 answers · asked by babydz21 1 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my girlfriend and I really would like to be back with her but when I try to tell her how i feel she pushes me further away but when i act like i don't care and tell her i talk to other girls she seems so interested in what i'm doing and wants to be around me and act nice.

2006-12-16 02:37:50 · 3 answers · asked by finney_christopher 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 02:36:13 · 16 answers · asked by kacey c 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 02:35:16 · 9 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Singles & Dating

This is really depressing to talk about about right now. But i have to and i want to do something about it right now. Well, I am a 13 year old boy who is going crazy about my mother. i think my childhood is really messed up because of her. I feel like she had me and she planned to ruin my life. Its really hard to talk about. I am crying while talking about this. Anyways, I am just a normal boy doing normal things. My mom has always yelled at me for no reason telling me that i am killing her making me feel really bad and depressed. I am not doing anything. i don't seserve to be treated this way. My heart is beating so hard that i just want to hurt myself. My mind and brain hurts so hard from crying and screaming I can't stop its ruin MY life. I don't know what to do about it. I am not doing good in school or have any friends because it makes me a bad person throught her. I hate my life and I want to die.


What am I suppose to do?

2006-12-16 02:34:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Im leaving for the philippines in March and getting married in Manila, how long after that will it take for her to come to the states with me?

2006-12-16 02:34:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-16 02:33:09 · 21 answers · asked by YL G 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 02:33:07 · 14 answers · asked by Devin W 1 in Singles & Dating

dis girl wants to go wit me(lets call her Jane),but i dont, n i said i was TALKIN 2sum1 already.(i KINDA made that up) she wont back down. she said when is dat gurl gonna give u an answer when dis when dat..i never told her i asked her out i'm really TALKIN to a gurl dat i like tryna find the right time to ask her out. ive only known Jane her couple days, she str8 in her looks, but i dont want to be her Bf wah should i do help.......OPE I swer to god she just called me again right now at 9:30am

2006-12-16 02:32:34 · 3 answers · asked by King_Almighty 1 in Singles & Dating

im doing great

2006-12-16 02:31:44 · 22 answers · asked by Incredible 3 in Singles & Dating

I feel bad because i lost my job and im about to lose everything. How can i find any of them???

2006-12-16 02:30:26 · 19 answers · asked by QUEEN 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently made love to my Egyptian fiance for the first time after knowing him 3 years. He is 31 and I am in my late twenties. Is it nomal for us to have had sex that many times our first time together? It was his first time with a woman too.

2006-12-16 02:30:06 · 12 answers · asked by consigliere 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my bf never are around eachother when were w/ friends but online were all "lovey dovey" So should we so other ppl and our friends that we are in love? or should we just keep it how it is.....

2006-12-16 02:28:51 · 7 answers · asked by ☺☻♥SP Rebel☺☻♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

I like a girl that I meet in a book store. What should I say when I approach her? WHat topics should I say in order to make the conversation longer.

2006-12-16 02:28:50 · 7 answers · asked by checkthismail 1 in Singles & Dating

i had the insult upon insults this morning...i had n answer removed after i answered a question where someone had a troll...hounding them and insulting them...i answered to the effect that id had mine too...someone even calling me a b*tch...evil b*tch...and lastly dumb b*tch at every opportunity...and even posting his question calling me out to apologise to him??!!while intermittently asking me to mail them...i didnt name the person...but i had my anser removed under the 'epithets and slurs' guidelines...lol...its ok for someone to call me those names and hound my questions but not for me to respond to a question with regard to this...im wondering if i can be bothered with this anymore...i enjoy it and many people on here...but between mad stalkers and Y! guidelines...im feeling a bit like its doing my head in a little...what do you think...should i stay or should i go....???

2006-12-16 02:28:30 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 02:25:03 · 3 answers · asked by Brooke V 1 in Friends

A friend, who I have a crush on, asked me to start working out with him. The first few workouts we talked and laughed and seemingly had a good time. Then after that he started showing up very late without and apology or an excuse and put earphones in his ears that made it nearly impossible to communicate.

It's clear he's not into me, which is not a crime, but I'm also battling feeling angry at his rude and childish behavior. Am I whacked out because I like him too much or do I have a right to be pissed?

2006-12-16 02:24:23 · 7 answers · asked by Sheryl 4 in Singles & Dating

I found out my husband and a woman from our church were quietly establishing a relationship, mostly having long conversations behind my back. (her husband left her with 3 kids for her friend, you'd think she knew better from a female's standpoint) I called her when I heard a VM and she was pretty shocked but she did talk to me and say they were friends. I was very nice but firm in what I had to say about the situation and I told her I didn't want her talking to my husband anymore and that I was on my way to confront him also since I know I really need to hold him responsible. He tried to say the same thing, but her message was too flirty for me to believe that. I heard later that a few people from our church saw them talking a few times. After my convo with her she called and left another message saying she was "out" and that she was going to repsect my wishes. Neither of them know I heard any of the messages. Do you think things stopped, or just slowed down?

2006-12-16 02:23:28 · 12 answers · asked by Kisses 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I tried MySpace, Hi5, Yahoo people search, I've tried everything; She's and old friend and i miss her. is there any way anybody know how i could find somebody worldwide. (I have her whole name)

2006-12-16 02:23:12 · 3 answers · asked by Angelo C 2 in Friends

2006-12-16 02:22:48 · 1 answers · asked by shamanrd 1 in Friends

I'm going out with somebody but there are several other guys at school that like me. I want a polite way to tell them no because I'm worried one of them may hurt my boyfriend

2006-12-16 02:22:09 · 23 answers · asked by marajader2d2 3 in Singles & Dating

We were once very friendly and were very close now the only time I hear from or interact with this indvidual is when they need or want someting. I tried on several occasons to reestablish the connection am I wasting my time?

2006-12-16 02:20:24 · 11 answers · asked by David O 1 in Friends

Dear friends in college i had friendship with a girl. slowlly she started loving me and she proposed me also. but i dont have any emotions or feelings to love her because i just thought her just as a friend but she argues that i behaved with her closely because i love her.
Now my engagement has been over 6 months ago and i love my fiancee(ie.with whom i m engaged) so much and our marriage is fixed. Now my college friend disturbs me and blackmails me. I can understand her love for me but when i am not interested, then she should avoid me. what can i do now..

2006-12-16 02:19:36 · 16 answers · asked by PH 2 in Friends

Recently, there was a semi work related event in which I was not included. shoud I confront the host as to why especially since the host and I were/are ( I thought) good friends?

2006-12-16 02:15:07 · 9 answers · asked by David O 1 in Friends

2006-12-16 02:14:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating