I feel bad because i lost my job and im about to lose everything. How can i find any of them???
2006-12-16 02:30:26 · 19 answers · asked by QUEEN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well you can sign up for public assistance and let them do the work of finding them and forcing them to pay support. I know that doesn't give you money right now to help you situation but it's a start.
2006-12-16 02:33:15 · answer #1 · answered by kitcat 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How do you know the father's don't want to pay if you don't know where any of them are?
Go to your local Human resource office(welfare) and ask for help. Sign up for child support assistance. If you know the father's names, they can help you find them and then help with support enforcement. Take any information about the father's as you can. (names,last known address, anywhere they were employed, etc.)
I saw your last question and since you actually quit your job, you probably will not qualify for foodstamps, cash or medical. I guess you should have thought about all this before you decided to cuss out your boss and quit.
Good Luck!
2006-12-16 10:37:12 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if u have 5 children from 5 different fathers ur the one with a problem . what kind of example are u setting for ur kids . to me u wold be branded as a whore . close ur legs and try to staighten out the mess u made. im not saying the guys are not at fault to , and the should help raise there childern but ur as equally respnsably, the sad thing about this is the are looking to u for leader ship , and will probly follow ur example . what a tragedly
2006-12-16 10:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by himhum03 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I have 4 different baby daddy's and child support is a waste of time so forget it about the baby daddy's will never pay it and if they do if you are lucky you will see the money if the state don't take it cause you can't get welfare and child support at the same time but good luck on yours i gave up on it i just take care of mine on my own i am the baby daddy oh yeah most likely they are in jail/prison or running from there other baby momma's
2006-12-16 10:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by mnclbr25 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Be more careful about who you choose to have sex with.
Go to your local welfare office, they will track the fathers down, provided you know names and cities they live(d) in.
Remember the next time you want to quit a job that you are the LAST priority in your life, behind your kids.
2006-12-16 10:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you gone to whitepages.com and typed in there last and first name see if it came up w/ any results i think the have to pay child support well good luck on getting a new job and everything
2006-12-16 10:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by mickymousegrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the state services agency and the will help you find
the fathers and get them to pay child support.
2006-12-16 10:34:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty sad to say you don't know where any of your "babyfathers" are. Do you know how sad that statement makes you sound? Here's some advice - practice birth control - or keep your legs closed! I pity your children.
2006-12-16 10:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i am sorry you made such bad decisions in the past. do any of the guys know they have children? you can try a web search (perhaps jail records). finding 5 people will be difficult, at best.
2006-12-16 10:34:50 · answer #9 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
social services child support enforcement.. imsurprised you havent already..5 kids? ya its time
2006-12-16 10:33:39 · answer #10 · answered by jean h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋