Family & Relationships - 17 December 2006

I was out on my 3rd date with a new bf on Sat and I saw him txt hhis ex like twice while we were out, they dated for about a year but i dont know when or why they split.
I was feeling bad bout meeting my ex 2mo, but now i think i may be being hard on my self, what do you all think?

2006-12-17 23:58:53 · 35 answers · asked by London girl 3 in Singles & Dating

When I was 13 I did some of those immature stuff stuff many teens do and my parents were too harsh, my father spanked me because I was disrespectful I changed and left a bad crowd, but got so resentful with my parents that I never got over what they did. In my opinion they did'nt act like parents. Since then I never got in trouble again and even made them proud of me, though never made up with them. Today, 10 years later, graduated, with a good job and still studying Chemistry, I have the same opinion. We never made up, avoid talking to them, haven't seen them for more almost 2 years. When my father spanked me, and my mom supported him, I swore I'd never make up withy them and I was for real. But now they want me back, keep calling and writing me, want me to spend this Christmas with them. But I have my principles. Some people say it's my duty to make up with them, but I don't think so. Why a duty?

2006-12-17 23:57:50 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-17 23:57:37 · 10 answers · asked by rohit k 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 23:55:33 · 11 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends

my man got me pregnant again on our second child. never had any gorl problems with him till i was 7 months pregnant of our second baby boy and i found out they were talking and then he left the house due to when i found out and then when i give birth to his child his ex tells me how she is 3 1/2 months pregnant by him and he admits to it but wants her to get an abortion and stay with me like nothing happen....I love him sooo much but the betrayal is enough to let him go.. we been together for 5 years and have two beautiful boys and he wants to go to counseling and help our relationship before it ends but i love him and would love to work things out for our kids and myseld but i feel sooo betrayed, lied to. especially that he made a fool of me!!!!!

2006-12-17 23:52:59 · 15 answers · asked by nana 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my date of birth is 14 july 1982 at 8.16 a.m. at Pune.

2006-12-17 23:52:20 · 21 answers · asked by sonal i 1 in Weddings

when did you feel you are in real love for the first time, from your heart? Did you ever had such a feeling that you are scrupoulsly honest with your partner?

2006-12-17 23:50:46 · 11 answers · asked by Kirsten 3 in Singles & Dating

He yelled at me yesterday because I sent him and mom a holiday card in the mail. He said that I should spend .50 on card and .39 for a stamp. He said that since I visit every other weekend, I shouldn't spend money on cards and might lose my job in the next few months. He is mad because I wouldn't write his Christmas cards to his friends and neighbors that he hadn't seen for several years. They don't call him or visit him why should he waste money on cards and postage. That was a mean thing he said to me. He said that I am so mean because I wouldn't write out his cards for him. He said did you write to cousin so and so. I told him last week, I told him no because I don't want to write any Christmas cards. I just limited to my brother and my parents, boyfriend and two close friends really. I just want to reduce my Christmas card list for economic and personal reasons. I told him that that is his X-mas card list not mine. Am I wrong for standing up to him for rejecting my card

2006-12-17 23:50:40 · 5 answers · asked by Contessa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a major problem! u see, im going out with this kid from work, but i REALLY like someone else that works with us! I actually like him more than my bf! Me and him flirt ALL THE TIME! and he told me he loved me last night! I dont kno if I should forget about my bf, or forget about the other guy! What should I do?

2006-12-17 23:49:22 · 9 answers · asked by kassie07 1 in Singles & Dating

When you get your first boyfriend/girlfriend?

2006-12-17 23:49:20 · 21 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

ok - I unknowingly and certainly unintentionally am after leading a guy on. Im naturally quite chatty and friendly to everyone but this guy is after mistaking that for me fancying him - so can you guys PLEASE tell me how I fix it? So far ive told him Im not looking for a relationship to which he says - thats ok - sure we can hang out as mates. I dont want to hurt him as i think hes a really nice guy but I have no romantic interests in him. I know his ultimate motive is romance -so even hanging out with him as mates is going to be awkward as Ill know he has an ulterior agenda - so please please please - how can i let him down gently? Thanks so much! xx

2006-12-17 23:47:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why are men ashamed of having love for a woman but not ashamed of just having a woman for sex?

2006-12-17 23:47:22 · 17 answers · asked by liz 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 23:45:52 · 4 answers · asked by Raje 1 in Singles & Dating

Go out on a date with me??

2006-12-17 23:44:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is soo insecure i can't help finding like, lets say johnny depp, or orlando bloom fit. he gets in a huff everytime i watch i film with them in and it hurts to know that i'm upsetting him, but i can't help it.

2006-12-17 23:44:51 · 12 answers · asked by jenny w 1 in Singles & Dating

I have recently gotten out of FWB relationship with someone at work, I have tried to contact her by e-mails asking how she is since but she has reported me for harrassment.

In the past she has told me how she got a distance agreement from her ex-husband who she had 3 kids with. Also she says her ex boyfriends have stalked her in the past.

Now I'm not saying its all her fault, but generally I don't contact people unless they want me too but she has got me hooked. She is not that good looking, overweight, has 3 kids, divorced and has bipolar do you think that it is built into her character to destroy men. She also told me she had been abused as a young child.

2006-12-17 23:44:25 · 6 answers · asked by dfsdg d 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in my early 20's with a 6 month old baby. I am a single mum but have been seeing a really lovely guy for the past 2 months (he is not the baby's dad).

He's great with my baby, but his parents aren't. He's told me that they don't approve of me, and want him to end it with me simply because I have a baby.

This is putting quite a bit of strain on our relationship and I don't know if I can take much more. He says he loves me, and it doesn't bother him that I have a baby.

I don't want to cause a rift between him and his parents though. Help!

2006-12-17 23:44:20 · 16 answers · asked by Don't Tickle Elmo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I already am checking emails, but nothing so far.

2006-12-17 23:44:01 · 10 answers · asked by Jamie 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it right time to get marry... .. He is 3 years younger than me and he is not having permanent job. How can I tell my parents about him. Is this the right time to tell about him n I cant even keep quite because my parents are searching a guy for me.in case my parents force me to get marry some one .. I love him truly n he too. At the same time my parents believe me so much how can I break their trust. I love my parents and I Love him to wat to do…. Please help me frnds..

2006-12-17 23:43:53 · 8 answers · asked by Janu 2 in Singles & Dating

He´s been really nice to my family. We´ve just moved and he helped us find a car, find a school, find my mother a job, and he also took me and my brother on fun trips so we wouldn´t get bored. I only have about 50$ left, and I´m willing to spend it all. Should I spend it all on a meaningful present or will a nice, small present suffice?

2006-12-17 23:42:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Husband and I had swapped partners last year with a couple we had become friends with, I was more intot he husband than he was the wife, stayed friends but he won't go out with them anymore, and the guy is off limits to me, he says more would go on if given a chance. This happens to be also people he works with. Had a work Christmas party, had a great time. Couple was there also, and we all sat together, as with many others. after went to a strip club for FUN. I had fun, he took it many steps farther and one girl at his work, he was all over her, rubbing her bottom etc. I'm sitting there in front of the other couple and wondering ok, so this is ok for him, but if I did this he'd have a cow. I want to have a goodtime, but he didn't seem to think he did anything wrong, then later wanted to take the other couple home with us so he could do the girl. Once again ok for him. He has double standards, I never groped anyone , even the other guy when we were doing anything with them, plus this

2006-12-17 23:42:45 · 15 answers · asked by missy j 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We are best friends, We like to talk hours and hours, But weeks past, I knew that her crush, has a crush on me, She always got mad, And we always have problems. Theres not a day that they will not fight, What am I gonna do, I don't wanna find another friend? She's cool but sometimes annoying. She's the only one who makes trouble of our friendship.

2006-12-17 23:42:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friend for 3 years was working at a dead end job, she begged me to put in a good word at my company. So I did I warned her about some of the employees how they talk about everybody and how nosy they are.I just sugested to keep her personal life to herself, and everything will be fine. Well several employees confronted me, about what I had told her; my supervisor even spoke to me and gave a warning.Now everybody is mad at me, and she acts like it's what I deserve. The fact that her work is'nt up to par,is also affecting my relationship with my supervisor. He now want to fire her, but for me not to mention anything to her. Do I tell her? Or act like I don't know. Plus I don't even want to be friends with her anymore. Please help me.

2006-12-17 23:42:37 · 6 answers · asked by Patty21 1 in Friends

O.k. Guys I'm going to put you on the hot seat for a bit. Why is it that you men like the skinny minnie's aka Barbie doll types over the woman that have meat on there bones aka the Baby Got Back women? Don't you know that the barbie doll girls are mostly the women that are the **** wrapped in perrty parer where the Baby Got Back girls are the true Gold only wrapped in not so attractive parer all the time or at least not according to some of you men. Also you men ask what we like in guy's so know it's your turns what do you like in women and what do you find attractive about a woman B HONEST PLEASE!

2006-12-17 23:42:22 · 8 answers · asked by outlawprincess5321 3 in Friends

The two have completely different ways.

2006-12-17 23:41:53 · 17 answers · asked by Queen 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex and I broke up a little over 3 months ago. The first month
we were back and fourth with each other. Since then I have
been working on myself and getting over the break up, my heart
is broken. I am now in a place where I am not sad every day. In
the past 3 weeks he calls at least once a week, he sounds all
sad wanting me to call him. The one time a fell for this he had
been drinking and was talking to me like we were still a couple,
so I fall for it and ask if he wants to try again..he says oh no not
now..so that was it, I have not let myself fall for it again. Problem
is he keeps calling, like he does not want me to forget he is around.
I can't help him get thru this, I have to help myself, how do I do
this without hurting his feelings? Or do I just take care of myself,
he does not seem to be caring that this is hurting me..What
can I do?

2006-12-17 23:41:33 · 6 answers · asked by wicktjw 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 23:40:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married for almost 15 yrsand had 4 children.they are very close to me as i'm a housewife thus we spent alot of time together.no one knew that my marriage is on the rock.This includes my parents.I don't know why but I guess I don't have enough courage to do so.My hb had been unfaithful to me for almost 7 yrs and it hurts me deeply.Until today,ther's no more tears to cry.I did share my woes to my children,but what can they do?I wanted out of this marriage,but everytime i do so,he would beg me nt to leave him and ask for a second chance.He wants me to give him more time so that he could find ways to break off with the other party.I doubt he would do that.He told me alot of unpleasant things would happn if we are divorced and it scares me.Apart from that my children too objected to my idea of getting a divorce.Their reason was they do not want to be seperated frm either of us .I'm in dilemma,i don't want to hurt my chld but i have my needs too.Pls help me get out of this.

2006-12-17 23:39:15 · 13 answers · asked by ~AiRaLlie~~ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i hav a crush.his name is Boo Matt frm u.s.a.i m frm u.s.a too.same school.i luv him n he knows it but he doesn't like me.v don't talk either.they've given me beauty queen award at school but all d other boys at school jus come in rounds around me at school except him...wat do i do????

2006-12-17 23:38:17 · 10 answers · asked by One strawberry- Ichi Ichigo 4 in Singles & Dating

...what is personality again? give me specific terms please...i think im confusing personality with character!

2006-12-17 23:35:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating