Is it right time to get marry... .. He is 3 years younger than me and he is not having permanent job. How can I tell my parents about him. Is this the right time to tell about him n I cant even keep quite because my parents are searching a guy for me.in case my parents force me to get marry some one .. I love him truly n he too. At the same time my parents believe me so much how can I break their trust. I love my parents and I Love him to wat to do…. Please help me frnds..
2006-12-17 23:43:53 · 8 answers · asked by Janu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Best is to wait darling , let him sette down first.
2006-12-18 06:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by whatever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you in such a rush to get married? Chill out for a second. Your not at your prime. You need to marry someone who is the right fit for you, someone you love, trust, believe in, someone who takes care of you, who appreciates everything that you are worth, sticks up for you, is there for you and who is your best friend. I dont think he ready to be married he's only 21 years old and prolly not mature enough. Your parents can't force you to marry someone because you are a grown *** woman! Tell your parents that one!!!!!!111
2006-12-20 14:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should get married right now. He is younger to you so he might need time to be matured enough to get married. You can tell your parents about your relationship with him, but don't tell them about your intentions of marriage. Tell them you want to give some more time to your relationship to know if it is worth marriage. That way your parents might just leave the judging to you.
2006-12-17 23:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that if you love the person and he love's you in return, then you should both sit down and have a converstation with you parent's. Let them get to know each other before you rush to get married. It's important that your family like's your boyfiend, or it will cause problems in your family life, so let them get to know each other first, then see how it goes.
2006-12-18 00:00:05 · answer #4 · answered by myboo_050103 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see...generally girls maturity level is higher than boys. if u r 24 and he is 21...his level of maturity is so low than urs.
If u love him and want to get married..then give him some time and tell him to get good job. be practical...tell ur parents about it. ultimately u r the person to live with.
tell them that u want to get married him and u can wait for him. but think of Ur parents too....for their social status...
2006-12-17 23:54:50 · answer #5 · answered by SureshkumarYVS from hyderabad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should be happy to marry you,
but for YOUR SAKE, wait till the situation is more stable,
otherwise you may end up providing him &
he won't forgive that you had to take care of him since he failed you.
2006-12-18 00:23:13 · answer #6 · answered by Bhanupriya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS TOO YOUNG TO SHOULDER THE RESPONSIBILITY ...IF YOU WANT A HAPPY MARRIED LIFE WAIT TILL HE IS WELL SETTLED CAREER WISE..IN THE MEANTIME ENJOY YOUR RELATIONSHIP...WHEN YOUR PARENTS PRESS YOU TELL THEM YOU ARE NOT READY ...
2006-12-21 20:12:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry him right away if u love him
2006-12-18 07:36:07 · answer #8 · answered by yourfreind_forlife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋