my boyfriend is soo insecure i can't help finding like, lets say johnny depp, or orlando bloom fit. he gets in a huff everytime i watch i film with them in and it hurts to know that i'm upsetting him, but i can't help it.
2006-12-17 23:44:51 · 12 answers · asked by jenny w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your boyfriend is the one with the problem, not you. And he will either have to get over the insecurity or you will have to live with it. Now, it would be different if every time you saw your favorite celeb, that you would tell him that you wanted to sleep with that celeb. But to say that you like the celeb and think he is hot, there is nothing wrong with that. It's healthy to have attraction, but its maturity that prevents you from acting on that attraction. If you have cheated on your boyfriend before, you can understand the insecurity. But if you havent, maybe its time to find a more mature boyfriend. And also, make sure that what you are asking of him is the same as what they would ask of you. What I mean is: If he started going crazy over Eva Longoria, would you be ok with that?
2006-12-17 23:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by Freak Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong that you find celebrities attractive. We all do it! But if you're boyfriend's insecure and doesn't like it, I suggest not making a big deal out of it. Don't swoon over them in front of him. Just silently think, "Wow, they're hot."
On the other hand, if you can't even watch a movie with them in it because your bf gets jealous, I think you should talk to your bf. Let him know that those celebrities can't compare to him.
2006-12-17 23:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what I would do would be 2 talk 2 him and tell him that even though u like these guys on tv u like him just as well and u will never cheat on hiim.Hope it works and plus Orlando Bloom and Johhny Depp are hot!!!!!!!!!My best friend is Johhny Depps niece
2006-12-17 23:49:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of direction its okay to fancy a movie star!! Its in effortless words a weigh down. Its unlike some thing is going to ensue with that movie star. Its only a delusion. i'm particular maximum human beings receives over it contained in the finished besides. do not hardship. a mess of human beings have crushes with celebs :)
2016-11-27 01:53:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that there's very little chance they're going to ride down in their limos, stick out of the sky-window thingo with a rose in their mouth and ask for your autograph.
even if they do go for you (keep in mind, johnny depp is mine), your boyfriend should be flattered he has such high quality taste.
oh and the fact that celebrities are so appealing is because you will never get them and they're so loaded 'n hot. the fact that you've got him AND he's not loaded (assuming) yet you still find him hot... well, he should take it as a compliment
2006-12-17 23:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just has to get over it. If you ask him, he fancys celebrities too! He should just be pleased that you can tell an ugly guy from a hansom attractive one and he should keep that in mind next time he gets a compliment from you.
And next, put him in a lie-detector and show him a picture of Salma Hayek and ask if she is pretty and watch the reaction!
2006-12-17 23:50:41 · answer #6 · answered by ikpfradk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear
u should know that u can`t force him for all things
or
neither he can force u to do everything that he like !
sometimes
u have to put off ur thoughts
n
he also need to do so
simply ur understating is will make ur love line pretty cool
or
better to left the room dear ;)
-s-
2006-12-17 23:55:30 · answer #7 · answered by sandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to grow up, do you talk about these celeb's all the time? It is only wrong in my opionion if you obsess over it. I mean after all you can't have these men. He sounds really insecure.
2006-12-17 23:50:31 · answer #8 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is absolutely not wrong.....it is perfectly natural to fantasise about others. He has to get over this petty jealousy, or he may regret it in the future.
2006-12-17 23:54:08 · answer #9 · answered by justjim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like your boyfriend who is real and present, watch your movies but keep your thoughts to yourself.
2006-12-17 23:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋