my man got me pregnant again on our second child. never had any gorl problems with him till i was 7 months pregnant of our second baby boy and i found out they were talking and then he left the house due to when i found out and then when i give birth to his child his ex tells me how she is 3 1/2 months pregnant by him and he admits to it but wants her to get an abortion and stay with me like nothing happen....I love him sooo much but the betrayal is enough to let him go.. we been together for 5 years and have two beautiful boys and he wants to go to counseling and help our relationship before it ends but i love him and would love to work things out for our kids and myseld but i feel sooo betrayed, lied to. especially that he made a fool of me!!!!!
2006-12-17 23:52:59 · 15 answers · asked by nana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Lose him now. This scenario will play over and over again. Don't trust him.
2006-12-18 00:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that is really horrible. You must feel so disappointed in him. You must be strong. What he did was inexcusable. There would be no way for him to apologize, he would be out! After 5 years and 2 children he disrespects you like that? Uh Uh, no way! Move on. If he did this once then he will do it again. What will that teach your children? You are a woman, be strong. He is a fool for letting this happen, what a jerk! Good luck.
2006-12-18 00:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to be rid of this selfish two-timer asap .
at the end of the day you will only be betraying yourself because you will not have a life ( he made sure of that by screwing around )
piss him off ; get some counselling ; and get your mind in a better state than it is in .
there is always a light at the end of the tunnel .
whatever you do don' despair --- you are not Robinson Crusoe ; there many in your situation ; and sadly many will follow --- you've got to be strong and get on with your life . you can' t be subjected to a fool . ( he didn't make a fool of you ; he will finish up making a fool of himself !! trust me ) . good luck .
2006-12-18 00:06:27 · answer #3 · answered by bill g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its kinda of hard.. that y have two kids.. an his ex pregnant Oslo... that's crazy.. I am not ganna tell u to leave him... this decision its up to u.... none of as can tell u what to do.. but my advice to u.. is... if he went back to his EX and get her pregnant .. mean that he was cheating on u..... then he wants her to get abortion...and stay with u.... Okay now... any man.. who ask hes partner to get abortion... hes NOT a man.... hes ex have a right to keep the baby.. and he needs to be responsible for her and u r baby....and for me if he did ons hes ganna do it twice. I understand that u have kids together... but I believe in something calls love.. and if u love him and faithful to him get get to do the something...and man like Ur's .. they r not responsible.. so .. that all I can tell u... but if I was u... I will be in touch with him but no relationship ...because oh the kids u get with him.. u can do batter then that.. u don't need man.. who just sleep and get people pregnant... think about it... its life and u r kids are involve with that... I hope II helped if u have any Q fell free to email me... bye
2006-12-18 00:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by I_belong_to_me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah he sure did, he doesn't give a damn about you, but if you want to work on it at least he's willing to go to counseling, because if he's gonna change then he won't be able to do it on his own and the counseling is a good start. you should really just remember the pathetic way he treated his children's mother and i would say he has no character and no amount of counseling will change this piece of sh*it. you sound hot email me at jones_pdiddy@yahoo.com bye babe good luck sexy
2006-12-18 00:00:55 · answer #5 · answered by hotrod111075 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen, he cheated!! I'm a man and I know if he did it once, he WILL do it again, Men are PIGS and he will not change no matter what he says to you. Its up to you if you stay with him or not, but you have to understand up front, he will do it again.
2006-12-18 00:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by justjim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you love enough you can leave him because every time hes not with you you'll wonder if his not with her so stop worrying yourself but i know its not an easy decision but aether way you must make a choice that you wont regret tomorrow
2006-12-18 00:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by nthabi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him say bye bye and you and your boys w2ill have a better life !
2006-12-17 23:57:28 · answer #8 · answered by musiclover 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try the counseling.. okey!
but once there is no trust in the relationship, there is nothing to stay there.
2006-12-18 00:14:19 · answer #9 · answered by labs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater,ALWAYS a cheater.Kick his asss to the curb!
2006-12-17 23:58:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋