Husband and I had swapped partners last year with a couple we had become friends with, I was more intot he husband than he was the wife, stayed friends but he won't go out with them anymore, and the guy is off limits to me, he says more would go on if given a chance. This happens to be also people he works with. Had a work Christmas party, had a great time. Couple was there also, and we all sat together, as with many others. after went to a strip club for FUN. I had fun, he took it many steps farther and one girl at his work, he was all over her, rubbing her bottom etc. I'm sitting there in front of the other couple and wondering ok, so this is ok for him, but if I did this he'd have a cow. I want to have a goodtime, but he didn't seem to think he did anything wrong, then later wanted to take the other couple home with us so he could do the girl. Once again ok for him. He has double standards, I never groped anyone , even the other guy when we were doing anything with them, plus this
2006-12-17
23:42:45
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missy j
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The swing thing does not work well, he wanted to take home this new couple. He never said anything to me , just looked and he had his hands all over her. I don't understand him. I wasn't jealous just angry that he acted like what he was doing was ok, but me staying friends and talking on the phone was not ok with the other guy was not ok. We never sat and groped each other even during the swinging times, so I want to know where he gets off. I told him that he wants other women to, he is not satisfied with one, and he knows it. He says that is not true. He was trying to push me off on her husband, the new couple. I want to have fun to, but hey if he can play like that why can't I, when i asked that he said its fine with anyone but the one guy. He compares me talking on the phone to him groping and fondling a girl he works with. I'm confused. He has made me feel like I'm wrong. I just don't get it, I just don't know how we can manage like this and nothing gets resolved, cept negative.
2006-12-17
23:48:13 ·
update #1