My friend for 3 years was working at a dead end job, she begged me to put in a good word at my company. So I did I warned her about some of the employees how they talk about everybody and how nosy they are.I just sugested to keep her personal life to herself, and everything will be fine. Well several employees confronted me, about what I had told her; my supervisor even spoke to me and gave a warning.Now everybody is mad at me, and she acts like it's what I deserve. The fact that her work is'nt up to par,is also affecting my relationship with my supervisor. He now want to fire her, but for me not to mention anything to her. Do I tell her? Or act like I don't know. Plus I don't even want to be friends with her anymore. Please help me.
2006-12-17 23:42:37 · 6 answers · asked by Patty21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This person isn't a friend but a leach. You helped her and then she set you up.
Let your boss fire her and don't let her know beforehand. It is a test your supervisor is giving you to see if you do tell her beforehand. He wants to know whether or not he can trust you and keep things confidential.
Pass the test - keep information to yourself. Run, don't walk away from this ungrateful person.
I feel for you as your good intentions have gone array. What goes around comes around. We all earn from our life experiences and sometimes it is hurtful.
Hope this helps and wishing you a Merry, Merry.
2006-12-17 23:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by D N 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This person is not a true friend and sounds like she really never was. Do not repeat what your boss has planed for her, keep quiet and to yourself, this girl has caused enough trouble for you. Let this play out, remember what goes round always comes around, just a matter of time and it looks like her time has arrived. Once she is gone do not contact her anymore. Let her fade and use someone else.
2006-12-18 02:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by Gabriele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with a bit of luck ur in simple terms making this up 2 scare ppl call the law enforcement officers how do you have adequate time to circulate on line 2 yahoo and ask this question after ur chum in simple terms have been given stabbed? call the po- po!!!! Oh and if it relatively is fake do no longer do thi s back what if the FBI in simple terms occurred 2 be on yahoo and took this heavily!
2016-10-15 04:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by seabrooks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I learned the hard way too - friendship and business don't mix.
Can you afford to quit this job? I did - and I'm so glad.
God Bless - I hope everything works out:)
2006-12-18 00:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by j b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that will cause problems with u then just ignore that and keep it going as it is
its ur life dont destroy it
2006-12-17 23:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is better for friend to pass the warning
Merry Christmas
2006-12-18 00:01:00 · answer #6 · answered by kimht 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋