i hav a crush.his name is Boo Matt frm u.s.a.i m frm u.s.a too.same school.i luv him n he knows it but he doesn't like me.v don't talk either.they've given me beauty queen award at school but all d other boys at school jus come in rounds around me at school except him...wat do i do????
2006-12-17 23:38:17 · 10 answers · asked by One strawberry- Ichi Ichigo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-12-17 23:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by lilbr0wnsuga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, this guy may easily be intentionally making his time expensive to send a message to you "I don't care how special you think you are no girl will ever turn me into a subordinate role title IE (that guy who dated Kay (assuming Kay is a very popular girl))" Believe it or not some guys care about social politics as much as women.
He may be the kind of guy who is not impressed by traditional good looks. I am one of those guys I go for petite (often asian) girls and thing voluptuous blondes or modelish looking brunettes (IE with strong jawlines like you see in magazines) are painstakingly ugly. On top of that, some guys have seen enough of sex (or had enough good sex) that they are not overly impressed by it anymore and/or have enough esteem to not care about using it to "make them popular".
He may also think "sure, she looks great, but what could I actually do with her?" Some guys figure girls others consider good-looking come with a terrible list of maintenance problems (gifts, having to impress and get along with all their tons of friends, always being in scrutiny under the public eye, not being able to be quirky, etc.)
In either case, you should focus on the side of you that is creative and work with him on hobbies (even something like writing a funny tabloid with him for a student newspaper and comparing opinions). Show him that you're not some boring, stuck up princess-ish type (that so many stereotypically good looking girls turn out to be) and that you have your quirks and you're not embarrassed about them...basically that your personallity and goals in life are such an amusing and powerful force in your life that he need not worry about you ditching your own values (or his) to try and impress other people. Going and doing guyish things (IE hitting an arcade, playing hockey, things guys enjoy but many girls would not be caught dead doing) is another great way to say "I'm a no issues woman".
And don't go out of your way to impress the guy, wear loads of makeup, etc. If he's anything like me, for example, he'll take it the same way girls take it when guys shower them with gifts: that they have nothing else to offer.
Lastly, if you do all of the above and the dude still does not care, just move on and carry the same attitude in the steps above you will likely meet a similar guy who will take notice.
2006-12-18 00:04:02 · answer #2 · answered by M S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be that he does like you but doesn't like all the attention that you are getting from other guys. It might be that he would like to get to know you but believes that he may be jealous of all the attention that you get.
Is it possible that he might think himself not worthy of you.
Is it possible that there might be other reasons why is there something that might be scaring him off.
So many possibilites. If you have the opportunity you might ask him by talking with him I hope that you don't go after him because he is the only one that appears not interested.
You might hurt your self in the process.
Be happy and enjoy life.
Happy thoughts
2006-12-17 23:44:08 · answer #3 · answered by Spirit_Rain_3-SunShineAries 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... you can't force somebody to like you, but you can do things to impress him. Try becoming friends w/ him first, then overtime he could come to like you. But maybe you should look for somebody that does like you, because chasing after the same guy will make you look desperate, and you DEFINATELY dont want to look desperate. GOOD LUCK<33
2006-12-17 23:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by sarahbabe315 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you are a self-centered pretty girl who thinks the world revolves around yourself. Girls like you need to realize that it isn't about you. Five ten years from now, your looks will fade away.
Or Maybe that fellow is not that into you!
2006-12-17 23:42:41 · answer #5 · answered by Contessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a cool name, Boo Matt. he doesn't like you. that's it. it's over. you're beautiful. stop before you go in too deep with Mr Boo Matt.
2006-12-17 23:42:31 · answer #6 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You help him in all respect, show sympathy so much that he may melt and start talking you. Patience is must.
2006-12-17 23:42:55 · answer #7 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh move on, stop being a stalker and definately stop depriving the rest of the male population of your sexy ***, we need u!!! lol
2006-12-17 23:41:40 · answer #8 · answered by hotrod111075 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go and up and start a confesation with him
2006-12-17 23:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by girly_goth1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick anouther guy.
2006-12-17 23:42:07 · answer #10 · answered by punk girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋