Family & Relationships - 17 December 2006

Two years ago I lost my job. I am 54 years old and lost a job which paid over $25./hr. Now I am strugling to make ends meat and making sometimes $10,000/yr. This year won't be that good. My child support is $600/month. and the state of Missouri says that they won't review my support because my youngest son is going to be 18 within a year. I have no state agency to help me with this. I tried to contact my US. representative and got no reply. If I want to have it change the only way is to pay an attorney to do it for me, and I don't have anyone in the state to tell my X that she needs to let my children come and see me or call me. I haven't heard from them for a year, the last time I happened to be in the town that they live in and ran into them. They don't take my phone calls, I do leave a message though. I have missed out on my youngest sons teens, and it hurts.

2006-12-17 00:40:18 · 9 answers · asked by lwibby 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

cuz this girl seys she like me but i dont no if she dose

2006-12-17 00:39:04 · 8 answers · asked by IM NOT O.K. (I PROMISE) 1 in Friends

2006-12-17 00:37:27 · 60 answers · asked by jackjacks 1 in Marriage & Divorce

to get back to the states.....jw

2006-12-17 00:37:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

.. if you got into a fight and got hurt .

2006-12-17 00:35:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

and there is one bed since our folks trust us. and im wondering wat can i do to make our month stay enjoyable for the both of us but esoecially to her since i want her to have a fun time.

btw were- 15 years old, and have been goin out since grade 5

2006-12-17 00:35:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i`m a cute physically fit 45 year old , smart funny easy going and non judging male, I'm tyred of working, want to live life and make you happy, i`m up to just about everything and anything, i don`t drink or smoke, and don`t mind if you do,race or size makes no difference to me, i am a very excepting person, i scuba dive, sail, bike,like to travel,eat out , i`m not poor by any means but not rich, never married, but hope to some day , i have a big heart,and compation, yet i`m strong and stable, if you think you are interestad don`t be shy and e-mail me i`m a one woman man and i hope you find me, you won`t be sorry, that i promas, hope to hear from you soon,

2006-12-17 00:35:02 · 10 answers · asked by captain redbeard 4 in Singles & Dating

If people want to make relation thn y do they break them at a certain time?

2006-12-17 00:34:12 · 1 answers · asked by shamanta 2 in Singles & Dating

iv been seeing this guy on and off for the past two years. he claims
that he has always liked me. After almost a year i told him that
i loved him... he said that he didn't feel the same way back and felt
that it was unfair of him to lead me on.. so we split up.
However we still trained together at the gym (as we are part of the same group) and after two or three weeks he was on the phone asking me to forgive him etc.
in the end i said id give him a second chance... now he proclaims that he loves me... and keeps saying how he has never felt this way about anyone before.
i still hav a shadow of doubt in my mind as to weather he does.
i know next year he will be leaving or town and going somewhere else to live.
im scared of falling too much for this guy (eventhough i already hav) and then him leaving.

what would you do in my shoes???

2006-12-17 00:33:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 00:31:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i already faced the fact my family wont be having gifts this year. it was a rough year for us and i tried toys for tots n salvation army but i was too late in signing up i didnt know my hubby would be laid off! but anyway what im asking i still want to celebrate , any ideas my kids r ages 18 girl 17 boy 16 girl 14 girl 12 boy and my baby grandson whom is 4 months old, is there anything we can do to make the holidays alittle brighter with no gifts! thank u and serious answers only!! merry christmas n god bless

2006-12-17 00:31:11 · 6 answers · asked by lilangelbud2006 3 in Family

do you think i you should still be friends with a person after they have hurt you? my so called friend has just rang me wanting to give a present to my younger brother who lives with me but we havent spoken in some time as she did some bad stuff to me and i cant seem to forgive her and i think it would be wrong to except gifts of her because she might get the wrong idea and think im ok about the situation.

2006-12-17 00:30:49 · 8 answers · asked by upyafartpipe 3 in Friends

im afaid that he might laugh at me!

2006-12-17 00:30:11 · 6 answers · asked by gurlrockerblack 1 in Singles & Dating

They want me to get married to my bf asap, but he wants to get a house and good job. i have agreed to wait for him. But my parents are bent on hell to get me down with him. i have tried to tell them to wait.. they just dont understand.
i tried to move out so many times- but everytime they cry and pull me back in.
WHAT CAN I DO????

2006-12-17 00:29:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I seem to take everything personally,I mean I get my feelings hurt easily. I have always been careful with other peoples feelings so I wont hurt them. How does one let things roll of there back?

2006-12-17 00:28:56 · 6 answers · asked by sandra b 5 in Friends

2006-12-17 00:28:43 · 1 answers · asked by Decisiveliu 1 in Friends

harrison ford or dennis quade?

2006-12-17 00:28:40 · 1 answers · asked by fuck 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 00:28:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

In chat i have always noticed,whenever we say we r from India,ppl(other than Indians) avoid chatting with Indians.Is this kind of racism.Correct me if i am wrong.

2006-12-17 00:28:01 · 10 answers · asked by friend_simple_guy 1 in Friends

i mean everybody has a past we all make mistakes sme learn sooner frm them sme later ,smetimes we r confused,wen we r young we dnt realise the consequences we might have to face we r often misunderstood, u trust people easily and r taken for a ride easily then there r those nasty rumours what if u have left all that behind and have learned ur lesson but sme day u face smeone who is aware of all that and will most probably spread it arround what do u do then how do u handle the situation

2006-12-17 00:26:00 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-17 00:25:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive worked with this girl for 9 months, but never really paid much attention to her.

about 3 weeks ago i started thinking about her, and now i think about her a lot.

I know she is single, and we talk and that so i know she isnt repulsed by me.

About 2 weeks ago, i saved her from a bug attack (thrown from another employee) and now some of the guys refer to us as bf or gl of other. We laugh smile thats bout it. Other bf/gf comments come up asell.

We had a work do, and in some conversation she told everyone that she was my girl. (she had been drinking, and i think one of the ladies was trying to hook her up with someone).

I want to get to know her out of work but am worried that she might not actually like me, and then might think ive taken this whole situation way outta proportion, and ill be made a fool out of.

When we work together we talk, and eye contact and that always feels like we have something.

What should i do, i like her but dont want to be a fool.

2006-12-17 00:23:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

IM LONELY AND FEELING LIKE I WANT TO GO OUT AND HAVE FUN,IM NEW TO IDAHO AND DONT KNOW ANYONE. DO YOU THINK THIS CAN BE DANGEROUS? MEETING A TOTAL STRANGER AND GOING OUT WITH THEM? WHAT DO YALL THINK? ADVICE?

2006-12-17 00:23:09 · 19 answers · asked by sandra b 5 in Singles & Dating

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2006-12-17 00:23:00 · 3 answers · asked by raj sharma 4 in Singles & Dating

My grandad recently died, and so i'm helping to clear out alot of his things from my grans house. This morning though, my dad said he found my grans old diary that she wrote when I was little, and he said she wrote in many enteries 'Tom's (me) a lovely quiet lad, but I just wish he'd say Hi Gran, how are you, and hug me when he visits me'. This wasn't without her consent b.t.w, she let my dad see the diary. I can't help but feel like i've wasted so many years, and its really upset me, I just wana cry. Do you think its right I feel this way, and should I start to make more of an effort when around? Its just strange because I love her, and I always talk to her, so I just feel like I've let her down all these years, but I can't help it if i'm shy or quiet.

Thanks.

2006-12-17 00:22:28 · 9 answers · asked by <-tom-> 3 in Family

I don't think my husband will get me anything for Christmas. Of the 6 years we have know one another, he has only gotten me a Christmas present last year. I get him presents every year, more since we got married. I know Christmas isn't about presents, but it hurts me to see all the presents displayed and all are for him and only 1 is for me that a friend gave me. I was thinking of buying myself gifts so that I could have something to open on Christmas. I love opening gifts. I am not picky. I gave my husband suggestions. I sent links to his email to give him ideas. I don't want him to spend a lot of money on expensive gifts, I just want him to make the effort to get out of his selfishness and spend some time on doing something for me.
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BTW, I am the wife who's husband does not help clean up, we have 5-6 unfinished projects around the house that he hasn't made a move to finish, and one project is over a year old.

2006-12-17 00:21:50 · 18 answers · asked by Cheyne 1 in Marriage & Divorce

girlfriend they start throwing themselfs at you! so annoying!!! sort it out lol

2006-12-17 00:19:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to get money must work but to get happy just say love ,peace and do for this values , happy new year for all . specially for those people saver from any thing like ( disease . poor. etc..) . thanks

2006-12-17 00:19:34 · 1 answers · asked by paul 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I heard that there are some guys who like me, but find me unapproachable. I'm very friendly and cute, but I did have my days when I interpreted things negatively. For example, the guys who like me, I thought they reallllly hated me. Isn't that weird. Am I too shy? Does body laguage matter. I've never dated guys, so at times I am a little scared of the unknown. What can I do to be more approachable. I don't want to seem desperate.

2006-12-17 00:18:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2006-12-17 00:16:46 · 1 answers · asked by fuck 3 in Singles & Dating