Family & Relationships - 17 December 2006

Your signifigant other got out of bed and left the house early every weekend morning, spent half the day persuing his hobby, and never just stayed in and snuggled? Trying to decide if I have the right to be a bit pissy...

2006-12-17 03:35:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my fiancee for a year now. We started seeing eachother in another state. My daughter and I moved to his hometown with him to continue our relationship. He suffered a huge loss and had to move back to his hometown. We have been here for about 4-5 months now and I stil haven't met the remaining members of his family. His father and 2 brothers have never met me. I'm curious and wonder am I looking to far into this.

2006-12-17 03:35:27 · 3 answers · asked by stef 2 in Family

he likes The Eagles,he plays football and he like music (like nickel back) [rock] i am getting him a colplay cd but i need something else but i dont know what? HELP!!!!!

2006-12-17 03:34:32 · 6 answers · asked by Bryn P 1 in Singles & Dating

I wanna show her that I care about her with a passion but on a tight budget.

2006-12-17 03:34:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

... i've liked him for ages but he started seeing this girl about a month and a half ago. Around that time he stopped over at my house ( with my brother) but at around 2:00am he came and slept in my room. Nothing happened but does anyone think he likes me? Another thing is he is always there for me and talks to me quite alot but why would he get with someone else if he likes me? =S
Thnks

2006-12-17 03:31:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This isn't really a question. I just needed to share with somone. I'm stuck in this rut. My hubby & I can't communicate anymore. I've come to realize & accept that I am not a likeable person. He rather hang out with his friends than me. We tried to go to McCallisters & it seemed that he needed somone there so he wouldn't be alone with me. Then I tried to have fun with him & he brushed me off. I'm not sure how much more my heart can take. I don't want my daughter to see me cry. I feel I'm all alone in this world. I pray that someone would understand me. But because of my demeanor no one really wants to get to know me. He spent the night as his friends house again. It's a dude. Then he called trying to explain. I told him he didn't have to. Not to ease his mind (which he told me is how he would take it). I'm just sick of hearing the bull. When you really want someone you will be with them. Like he does his friends. I've become this completely different person. I don't even know what I..

2006-12-17 03:31:20 · 15 answers · asked by twinkle toes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she's really annoying I mean it to

2006-12-17 03:30:56 · 12 answers · asked by kat 1 in Friends

if you are in a relationship? is it considered cheating even if you havent met them in person or dont plan to?well maybe not anyway

2006-12-17 03:30:10 · 3 answers · asked by Brian 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 03:30:07 · 16 answers · asked by nasir z 1 in Weddings

i am serious and shy in nature and but if it comes to me to say something funny, i can makes everyone laugh laud. i am quite unsuccessfull in starting a relationship and it stops in friendship. is it because of being serious? i wonder if girls are attracted to serious guys or to cheeky guys?

2006-12-17 03:28:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hypothetical question. Just asking for suggestions.

Guys, this does not refer to you.

2006-12-17 03:26:44 · 6 answers · asked by | 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 03:25:37 · 14 answers · asked by im in nyc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I here the pay is good but the hours are murder

2006-12-17 03:25:21 · 23 answers · asked by t00t5 2 in Singles & Dating

well, I have been dating one of my friends for several mounths.
we both like eachother and we had a nice time together, but it wasn't enough though. Now we are just friends again and i knew all the time that this could happend, but i didn't realize that it would hurt as much as it does right now...
i guess there were some feelilngs that screwed things up.
I just miss him... and i want to buy him a christmas gift, any suggestions?

2006-12-17 03:23:31 · 10 answers · asked by tess_88 1 in Singles & Dating

Cheat! My boyfrind is an ***! After seven years of mental/verbal/and once physical abuse I am ready to leave. He refuses to leave my home b/c he is financialy dependant on me. Most of his days are spent smoking weed and visiting friends and family playing playstaion (he's 37)and we have a child together. I have recently met a new guy (outside of my race) and I love the things I experience with him. The new guy is aware of my relationship w/ the current b/f and is willing to wait for a bit on me to end the relationship. I want to pursue the relationship but wonder how my children (who live w/ me) will accept the new white guy (i'm african-am). I have made my mind up and ready to leave this relationship , just scared of the unknown! I am in a lease for the next year and plan on just moving on him, is cheating justifeid under these circumstances.

2006-12-17 03:22:12 · 12 answers · asked by nene 3 in Singles & Dating

I heard it goes on what the parents makes, and what they could make? My sons father had a masters degree and a $25/hour job but chose to only work part time for the past 2 years. Now he owns his own business and im not sure how you even figure income when you own a business. He claims I would be lucky to get $400 a month for my son. My son is almost 2, and we are just now considering child support due to our not so good circumstances. Any information would be helpful, thank you!

2006-12-17 03:21:50 · 9 answers · asked by MILF20 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have a very negative familly guardian.Now my mother got a chance,as my kid has been taken away from me as they think I am mentally ill,to take care and raise him,the judge said so.
Now this woman familly guardian said to my mom she even doubts her.She is a ***** and unhuman,creates only problems for us.We want to change her into another but do not know really how to convince the manager of Youth Office.She also doesnt stick up to the dates that the judge gave her to arrange meetings in our house with my son and she doubts if this is a good idea.Of course it is because we need this chance to let proove ourself that we are good raisers of my son!!Help!!

2006-12-17 03:21:45 · 2 answers · asked by Vancouver 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He had an affair with a co-worker and after I was kinda on to him but i didnt really know yet He told me he wanted a divorce and we grew apart and then we got back together then one day I looked at his email and he had emailed her behind my back when me and my daughter were in the house.He told her that he loved her and missed her very much it made me sick that he could do that to me.He told me nothing happened with them it was just an emotional affair not sexual.I just have a hard time believing him because you dont tell someone you love them if your just talking.What do you think?

2006-12-17 03:21:21 · 19 answers · asked by Kaci L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she is constantly telling relatives and her friends everything that goes on in our house.we recently had a verbal fight & i overheard her discussing it with her cousin. Too many people are involved in my household & she voluntarily brings them in. ...pissed-off

2006-12-17 03:21:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Last night, my husband stayed out until 5am drinking with his friends without calling. He came home very drunk and barely able to stand. I made him sleep downstairs because I was so filled with anger and worry. We were both supposed to go together, but I was feeling tired and so he said he'd just be gone for two hours to have a few drinks with his friend on his birthday.

I wouldn't be so angry, except that this is not the first time he's done this. He always apologizes in the morning with some lame excuse, and I've told him how it makes me feel -- but he still does it.

My question is, what do I do to let him know that I'm serious when I say that I can't put up with this crap anymore? I don't want a divorce.. I just want to show him I mean business. Thank you, in advance, for your answers.

2006-12-17 03:21:12 · 8 answers · asked by starryeyedhaze 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm at work. I'm manning the front counter at Mcdonalds but I slipped into the manager's office to use this computer. I just farted but it wasn't just a fart. A couple junks came out too. What do I do? I have 4 more hours on my shift.

2006-12-17 03:20:55 · 8 answers · asked by Buddy Love 2 in Singles & Dating

Love is something I tried to find. But then I realised that it wasn't worth my time, and that love is really useless. It is gooshy and it looks funny when you hold hands with someone else or make out with them. I wouldn't want to be with someone else 24/7, because that is kind of creepy. I can talk to my dog if I was that lonely. I don't need someone else. It is just stress and giving to someone else, which I hate. And I have no need for sex, as I hate kids, and I have no sex drive, and if I did, I have a hand. So why do people make the mistake of wanting to love someone?

2006-12-17 03:19:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just 2 meet u. send me ure email adress and i will add u. ia am 14 and luv GIRLS only.mine is dash_wayne@yahoo.com

safe.

2006-12-17 03:18:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

meeting someone on the internet can be really fun, and quite fulfilling sometimes, but are you really setting yourself up for a big dissapointment when the reality of distance slaps you in the face?

2006-12-17 03:18:52 · 20 answers · asked by no_bsht 2 in Singles & Dating

My dad is very strict and doesn't let me go to sleepovers. He doesn't "believe in them". How do I show him that sleepovers aren't stupid and how do I make him start believing in them without him getting mad at me?

2006-12-17 03:18:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

been w gf for a year and a half. she goes out with friends from college, girls night out. usually they goto a club or a bar.

then i learned that b4 me she used to hook up (grind dance, make out w 'hotties', not typically go all the way) when she'd go with this bunch and has cheated on at least one guy this way. i resisted the urge to become controlling over mere suspicion - but i started looking at the way she dressed differently, etc.

so, i concluded that she could be cheating on me, and i would never know. i became resigned, and started to have fun with the idea. about 6 months ago, i acted on it - before she went out, i gave her a condom to keep in er purse, telling her i'm not suggesting she use it, but just in case . . . she took it, and from that point on there has been a don't ask/ don't tell policy that has turned into a hot game for us, and an understanding that nothing will affect us.

a freind i told is convinced she will ineveitably fall for someone and leave me. ?

2006-12-17 03:18:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 03:17:54 · 8 answers · asked by eternitymariposa 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 03:17:50 · 12 answers · asked by DetailSpaz 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He keeps calling wanting to talk to "his" son after he deived me and keeps lying about his intentions with us as a family. He's been in prison off & on for 8 years and he's out now but the whole time he was in prison he wanted "his family" back and wanted to marry me and wanted us to visit him in VA i'm in IN, but now that he has had sex with another woman and got her pregnant and she bails him out of jail again last month, he now decides he never said those things and he don't want me, But he says its' because of his situation when he calls and she's not around , but when she is he tries to make me look like I'm desperate for him. I told him I don't want him and I am filing for full custody and his visitation would be minimal I hope , since he is in VA and is still on probation. No stable home as of yet, last I knew they were in a raoch motel. He keeps on lying and trying to make me look like a fool. I think he is a bad influence on my son and not responsible.

2006-12-17 03:17:16 · 7 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Family

2006-12-17 03:15:43 · 14 answers · asked by Mike M 1 in Singles & Dating