Family & Relationships - 17 December 2006

Hope you have coal in your stockings this year. Cause you deserve it.

2006-12-17 04:19:47 · 4 answers · asked by just1more 3 in Singles & Dating

OK, what i want to know is if I am wrong, last night was the two year anniversay of my father's death from lymphoma. I went out for dinner and drinks with some friends and when i returned home about 11pm i found my mother with another man on the couch. I responded horribly and threatened the man with death if i ever saw him again. I am very ashamed at my reaction but the combination of alcohal, anger timing and location sent me over the edge. Needless to say, my mother won't talk to me, the man has filed a restraining order and i feel like i am the worst person on earth. I want my mother to be happy but i have expressed to her many times that i don't want to know about it if she is with another man. I know my reaction was wrong, but does anyone think I have a right to be angry? Does anyone have any suggestions on how to fix the problem?

2006-12-17 04:18:14 · 23 answers · asked by brewfitzgerald2002 2 in Family

i'm actually writing a book about love and relationships.can you suggest me a title

2006-12-17 04:18:11 · 5 answers · asked by ryuken 3 in Singles & Dating

How does one know when she's "the one", I've only known her to be for 25 days of life.

2006-12-17 04:16:52 · 14 answers · asked by nuovocarlo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you deal with it in a healthy way, especially during the holiday season?

2006-12-17 04:16:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have no one to talk to on yahoo messanger... I have a cam laides

2006-12-17 04:16:29 · 10 answers · asked by Jesus Built My Hotrod 4 in Singles & Dating

How can I help her?

2006-12-17 04:14:24 · 6 answers · asked by Mirror 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee and I are getting married in May. We booked our reception venue already and we adore it. In his tradition we have a midnight seafood table and after the wedding we take the leftovers home and have a "post-wedding" lunch the next day. However, the hall won't let us remove any food from the building. Is this unheard of??

2006-12-17 04:13:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I THINK my boyfriend has another girl, we are away from each other right now, and i feel like he has someone until i get home. he listens to songs about being torn between to girls, and keeps telling me to come back like it's urgent. he still says he loves me, wants to marry me. i just have a feeling!! i'm supposed to be moving in with him soon, should i tell him about this???

2006-12-17 04:13:13 · 9 answers · asked by maria h 1 in Singles & Dating

i was so upset when i found out my boyfriend lied about what program he's studying.Initially he told me he did mech engineering(he used to do this course but he stopped),then i found out(after i forced him to tell me everythg cuz i could feel somethg's no right) that he's actually doing IT.I asked why, he said he was too scared to tell me the truth after i kept on repeating how i hate liars.His reason was that he's the kind tht doesnt tell every single truth to persons he barely knows.And only aftr 4mnths in relationship everythg is revealed.He planned to tell me when i get back to my homecountry in 2months which maybe will make me angrier.He also didnt tell me that he's having hair problem(hairloss and bald i assume). Many times i asked him to take off his cap but he refused to. Even tho he has apologised, i still felt i was being lied to. He was not being truthful even tho he had the intention of telling me soon.WHAT am i supposed to do?

2006-12-17 04:12:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend bought two t-shirts for her friend, for Christmas. Her friend is kind of 'big' so she got her big t-shirts, but then she thought that if she gives them to her, she might be offended.

2006-12-17 04:10:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

THE VERY 1ST THING WIVOUT SOUNDIN RETARDED

2006-12-17 04:10:20 · 12 answers · asked by glentickles 1 in Singles & Dating

I just want to know if that means anything bad. or if i'm crazy.

2006-12-17 04:08:35 · 12 answers · asked by dauschaundlovers 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

That is interesting isn't it?

2006-12-17 04:08:22 · 7 answers · asked by Judy L 4 in Marriage & Divorce

is that bad?? im not ugly i promise!!!

2006-12-17 04:07:01 · 36 answers · asked by Bunni 5 in Singles & Dating

I have never been with another woman but I would love to how can i make this happen Im very shy??? any ideas

2006-12-17 04:05:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

For a happy familial life, we need money, bilateral trust, dependance, physical pleasure, wealth and so...so... But which is the main factor that makes base of a happy familial life?

2006-12-17 04:04:53 · 4 answers · asked by Dr. Shaheen Rayhan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

to teach me how to do it.????

I have also heard that you should do it naked as to not get the things you cleaned dirty again so the lady would have to be naked .
Any body shape will do as long as the lady is over 30 women with curves are so much better (at housework) i am told.


If this is the wrong information i have been given i apolagise in advance..

2006-12-17 04:02:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband slept with my friend should i stay or move on he told me he loves me but he loves my ex friend.

2006-12-17 04:02:13 · 15 answers · asked by care bare 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 18 years old, my ex was 19 and would be 20 this month. We both go to the same college. During his freshman year (6 months ago) he ended up doing poorly receiving less than a 1.0 gpa on a 4.0 scale. He eventually got put on acadmeic probation and could not sign up for classes.

Most people would have gotten a job during this time of lack of school, but no, not him, he decided not to work or go to school for 6 months. No one really knows what he did all day.

So the past 6 months were very difficult because I was paying for mostly everything, he was not motivating me and was expecting us to start having sex, which was hard for me to imagine with him not being motivated in life. Why would i want to get married to someone or have an apartement with someone who would not work etc
He was my first boyfriend and I loved him alot but it just got unfair

However, now (about a week or so later), I have taken a strong interest in a guy who has been in many of my classes. Is it to soon

2006-12-17 04:01:12 · 19 answers · asked by c 1 in Singles & Dating

my friends all have boyfriends...except me! i feel so out of place...so wrong...so awkward! wenever dey talk abt their boyfriends, im left 2 just listen 2 them but inside i feel so jeolous and at d same time i feel reali left out! wat do i do???

2006-12-17 04:00:48 · 9 answers · asked by hyperness! 4 in Friends

what would u do if u found out you girlfriend
watches porno??

is it bad?

2006-12-17 04:00:22 · 12 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl a little over 5 years ago. Soon after I started to realize that I was developing feelings for her. I told her and she rejected me. She said that she only wanted to be friends. I agreed to that, and told her that because of my feelings for her, we could not spend too much time together.

Recently, she has broken up with another bf, and trying to be a friend, I've been there for her. In fact, she had been staying at my house for the two weeks following Tksgvg. We do not sleep in the same bed, but we had been spending almost every waking moment together. She finally went home last weekend, and as much as I was happy to get my house back to myself, I started to miss her, so I invited her back, and she plans on coming over on Monday. In the meantime, the feelings from rejection have also reared it's ugly head She knows how I feel about her, but she does not know what has been happening with me this past week (because I didn't tell her). What should I do?

2006-12-17 03:59:21 · 8 answers · asked by M.A.X. 3 in Friends

2006-12-17 03:59:05 · 15 answers · asked by MD 2 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine's husband has been cheating on her. But I am afraid that if I am the one to tell her that she will be mad at me. I know that sounds crazy, but I know how she is. How can I inform her or even give her a hint to at least pay attention? I thought about sending her some of those "Signs your man is cheating" articles, but how do I send them so she doesn't know it was me?

2006-12-17 03:57:43 · 22 answers · asked by lfshadow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Everyone says how good it is. I kind of want to see what love is, but my instincts tell me that I don't. I like a girl right now, but at my age, love doesn't last that long. And, I will not ask a girl out, because I will get rejected, and then I might punch that girl for embarassing me. If someoen emabarsses me, i pay them back. Plus, I am known as the tough guy, and I wouldn't want some girl to ruin that. And my parents would say crap like "Oh, that's so cute", and it would embarass the crap out of me, and when I get embarassed, I do things I regret, because I hate embarassment. I let my anger get in the way, but should I?Half of me wants love, but the other half, the half I listen to the most, doesn't.

2006-12-17 03:57:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He asked me and I said I'll think about it.
What should I do???
I don't want to brake his heart
but I like him alot....
Should I say yes???

2006-12-17 03:56:37 · 28 answers · asked by sparkle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I bought my husband a compass for christmas and i need some ideas on what to have engraved on it please.
thank you

2006-12-17 03:55:37 · 13 answers · asked by boop1068 2 in Weddings

Or do you enjoy spending your free time with her and welcome her say in decisions?

2006-12-17 03:54:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what did you do? what did you say afterwards? help, im a lost girl that wants her first kiss!!!!!!!!

2006-12-17 03:54:32 · 12 answers · asked by Shucky D 1 in Singles & Dating