I met this girl a little over 5 years ago. Soon after I started to realize that I was developing feelings for her. I told her and she rejected me. She said that she only wanted to be friends. I agreed to that, and told her that because of my feelings for her, we could not spend too much time together.
Recently, she has broken up with another bf, and trying to be a friend, I've been there for her. In fact, she had been staying at my house for the two weeks following Tksgvg. We do not sleep in the same bed, but we had been spending almost every waking moment together. She finally went home last weekend, and as much as I was happy to get my house back to myself, I started to miss her, so I invited her back, and she plans on coming over on Monday. In the meantime, the feelings from rejection have also reared it's ugly head She knows how I feel about her, but she does not know what has been happening with me this past week (because I didn't tell her). What should I do?
2006-12-17 03:59:21 · 8 answers · asked by M.A.X. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
BTW, before she started staying at my house, she had asked if I still had the feelings for her, and I said I did. I told her that I was going to put my feelings aside because what she needed right now was a friend, not some guy who was trying to be her bf.
2006-12-17 04:12:58 · update #1
A true gentle man!!! I dear say, U have some way of handleing a situation, good job. I know how you feel about situations like this, I'm the same when it comes to needing a friend and not a bf/. I set my feeling aside for that same reason, she needed a friend. well... the best thing I can say is that keeping it aside isn't gonna make it better. it's gonna wanna explode, you'll have to tell her these things. Feelings you feel about another can be hidden, however there are emotions that can't be handled. Just be her friend when she needs a friend. You'll be fine with your feelings now right? well I'd wait a little more tell all her problems blow away. She wouldn't want to deal with you and her ex boyfriend issues. keep on your gentle man ways to her, it'll soon get to her to asking you one day, why would you be such a great guy to me after all this? she'll soon figure out that she might even have hidden feelings about you after all? who knows? Well much luck to you bro, and much aplaude to you, you are doing a great job with her. Taking care of her is the best thing in mind, Your doing just that, taking good care of her.
2006-12-17 05:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by Patient NightShade 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 00:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be straight with her. Tell her again that your feelings for her are the same as they were and ask her if she has any feelings for you. If she does then your dreams come true and you can stop waiting around and pining for her. If she doesn't then you need to move on or you will always be her fallback guy. It's never good for someone who cares deeply for someone else to be forced to the back burner or "just friends" territory. You just waste your time and emotions on someone who will never be able to return your love or take it seriously enough to at least start dating. Anyway, tell her how you feel and get her to be honest about her feelings too. You owe it to yourself to get this over with or you will be stuck in the same situation for another five years.
2006-12-17 04:40:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, she just got out of a relationship and sounds like it wasn't a good ending so she's kinda confused right now. Just continue being there for her, and when the time is right bring up your feelings again. Maybe it will be different this time, maybe not.
Either way you gotta move on bud.
2006-12-17 04:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by markawfg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should let go of any feeling you have for her...sort them out first before inviting her again to your house..
if she needs a friend, it's her who should be the one to ask you...
at least let her show you some signs she has some feelings for you, then you could invite her over and not get/build hope in vain.
2006-12-17 05:50:21 · answer #5 · answered by nadhace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't follow the story, sorry
low blood sugar maybe, feeling a bit peckish
2006-12-17 04:30:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont rush
let things happen
2006-12-17 04:33:03 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Fallen_ AngeL♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her.
2006-12-17 04:05:51 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋