do i go and be happy or stay and live with my husband girlfriend?

Question

my husband slept with my friend should i stay or move on he told me he loves me but he loves my ex friend.

Answer 1

Where is your self-worth? Why would anybody want to live with a man that admits that he is cheating on you? I am sure that there is someone out there that would appreciate what you have to offer in a relationship. It sounds like you are to good for him, and he is doing this so you will dump him. Most guy that cheat are feeling not worthy of the current person that they are living with.

Answer 2

I can answer what I would do, I would let friend go and tell him the same and tell him this is a trial basis, and if he can show you that nothing else is going on then cut some slack, I am a guy but I am not taking up for him in anyway, If you are able to get past this and go back to your old self then he will see that you are a Great wife, but also tell him that was his one chance and if anything like this comes up again he is gone and he will be paying for it. I have a friend who's wife cheated on him and that is what he told her, that was like 11 years ago and they are still together and very happy from what I can tell. No one is perfect, this could have been you, well now you sort of have a get out jail free thing, I am not saying use it but just the thought of having it would be nice. Also treating him like **** for months and months is no good either, that will be just breaking down his love for you, Yes you are saying if he loved me at all he would not have done this but nobody is perfect, right, yes right. This does not mean what he did is right, not at all. But it also shows you what to look for in a friend too, He wasn't alone and more than likely she instigated it. But once you deal with this then that's it, no dragging it out, get your point across and let that be, bringing it up again and again will worsen the situation. I hope I was some help, Good luck.

Answer 3

He can't not love more than two women in that way. Leave him. He's not worth it. There should only be one true love, even if you were dead and he were to move on. You should be the one he loves the most. I would not stay and tolerate it, unless you sat him down and ask him to chose. But the fact is he cheated on you with your friend. That should tell you something.

Answer 4

Girlfriend there is something wrong with this picture, First off real friends don't sleep with there so called friends husbands and second If he truly loved u he wouldn't have thought about sleeping with her. GET OUT!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

Firstly if you are a muslim there is polygamy but i think you are not so talk sternly with your husband and ask him what the hell he wants in this relationship. If he still want you and your ex friend, tell yourself this is totally bollocks cuz he is obviously try to make you happy for the meantime before reality starts setting in.

Answer 6

do you really kneed an answer to that if you stay he will think that its ok to be with who ever he wants then you live the miserable life thats not what you want is it . i think you should go find someone that will be good to you and wont sleep with your friends and besides that chick wasn't your friend if she slept with you husband what kind of friend does that?

Answer 7

if you don't feel happy staying with your husband move on there are other fish in the sea. but keep your husband's number just in case.

Answer 8

If the three of you can get along, stay. It is better than being alone.

And you can combine three incomes to make life easier for all three of you. There is strength in numbers.

Answer 9

LEAVE! And, dont go to the house that his girlfriend lives in. He chose to violate your marriage, and so did your friend. She knew better also!! Stand up for yourself and believe that you deserve better!! YOU DO!

Answer 10

What in the world are you thinking? He cheated on you and your still with him. You got rid of the friend now get rid of him! Remember it takes two to tango not one!