out of place?

Question

my friends all have boyfriends...except me! i feel so out of place...so wrong...so awkward! wenever dey talk abt their boyfriends, im left 2 just listen 2 them but inside i feel so jeolous and at d same time i feel reali left out! wat do i do???

oh ya. i do like a guy but i seriously doubt he knos me coz hes 3 yrs elder dan me and hes leavin skool dis yr!! :(

Answer 1

Do you only want a boyfriend just because everyone else has a boyfriend? Boys are fun but they can bring so much pain to your heart. Are you ready for it? Many of my friends have boyfriends to, and yes I wish I did have one to but school comes frist. But it would be nice to have dates to school dances and crap...dont rush things it happens when it happens

Answer 2

ok I'd go into the dating game. It's kinda sad that guy you like is going to leave school this year, but it dosn't mean that you can't go after him. three years...ppphhssshhhh it's not that far apart. 5 or more kinda concern, but 3... not that bad. you guy's might have alot of things incommon, and since it's not that far of a age gap it's not gonna be some kinda intrests change as much as dramticly change. You'll be fine with him. Just ask him outof your bubble. Ask him to hang out with you someday. I mean what do you have to lose? reputation.... I don't think so.... dignaty.... nope, cuz you think that three years is too far of an age gap..... and don't get me started on embarassment. It won't be embarrasing. It'll B much of a cool experiance. He's not gonna say no to a hang out. I mean friends are cool to have, adding a new friend(you) to the picture isn't gonna hurt. Quick act while you still can. who know's when you'll get another chance to ask him to hang out. act like every day is your last. your friends will be talking to you about boyfriends and you'll have something to say about it finally. don't rush the boyfriend thing though. who know's if he'll turn out to be the guy you don't wanna end up with. that's why the hang out is a good idea. to get to know him as a friend will give you a better view of a boyfriend he will be

Answer 3

Find something to read which might deal directly with these problems, there is a lot of information out there in any decent library. This will give you some piece of mind and you will begin to understand what's going on with you.

Answer 4

Your time will come and happen when it's supposed to....don't feel jealous and left out. I know it's hard seeing all your friends being fawned over, but just think, one day when you are married w/ children, you will look back and see just how simple and free you were.....it doesn't last long, so try to enjoy it!

And who knows, sometimes dishing bad advice ]and watching your friends cry over their boyfriend is actually........ stupid and funny!

Answer 5

I think you shouldn't shearch for a boyfriend certainly.Maby it will come the day and you will find the best one who really suits you.Maby you have some speciale and individual features which needs well understanding and not standart human principles.

I don't know really if it's true.It's my opinion.
Just be self confident.That's all.

Answer 6

Dun rush to become a doormat and a girlfriend for anyone. That isnt love. Love is when you see a future in that guy.

Answer 7

Know what jus wait and try not to think of what others are doing... Somthing is in strored for you... Just be patient... Preseverance goes a long way...

Answer 8

Hang in there. It'll happen for you.

Answer 9

get a bf.. if you feel the need to...