Everyone says how good it is. I kind of want to see what love is, but my instincts tell me that I don't. I like a girl right now, but at my age, love doesn't last that long. And, I will not ask a girl out, because I will get rejected, and then I might punch that girl for embarassing me. If someoen emabarsses me, i pay them back. Plus, I am known as the tough guy, and I wouldn't want some girl to ruin that. And my parents would say crap like "Oh, that's so cute", and it would embarass the crap out of me, and when I get embarassed, I do things I regret, because I hate embarassment. I let my anger get in the way, but should I?Half of me wants love, but the other half, the half I listen to the most, doesn't.
2006-12-17 03:57:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you have a lot of growing up to do before you experience a relationship with someone. If you think if things in terms of payback and retribution then getting your heart broken for the first time is not going to be pretty for all those involved.
Don't look for love, it will find you when the time is right.
2006-12-17 04:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
It seems to me like you have a hard time opening up to someone. Ask yourself what it is or what has happened that has made me so angry inside. Focus on yourself and fix your anger because love won't work if you don't love yourself. Cheesy as this seems...its the truth. Refer to the bible...love is patient, love is kind, love is not selfish nor rude...love is never having to say your sorry...now this is definitly hard for most people but maybe looking inside yourself and healing whatever wound has made you this way...will make you a better person and in turn someone that can be loved. You want to love...but can you be loved?
2006-12-17 12:06:21 · answer #2 · answered by hellokitty23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,, you know,, after 3 marriages,,, and thousands ,,, ok hundreds of women I have been out with for 30 plus years... I am about to come to the same conclusion....
I could have been a lot better off,, just hireing a hooker and adopting a kid... than what has gone on in my life.....
Good luck
2006-12-17 12:01:42 · answer #3 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the beauty of life. For one you don't know if you will get rejected if you don't give it a chance. If you like her i think that you should go for it because you don't know if she likes you. Also you need to try to control your anger and you definetly shouldn't be hitting females. You shoouldn't be embarrased about little bitty things like that.
2006-12-17 12:10:41 · answer #4 · answered by Perfection 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all...
You don't punch girls...
Secondly, it sounds like you need to wait a few years
and all these questions will answer themselves for you.
You will find love to be wonderful...
2006-12-17 12:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With this kind of anger, no one is going to let you get close to them!
2006-12-17 12:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wouldn't ask that question if you had actually experienced a deep love.
2006-12-17 11:59:56 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well iz punching going to solve ya problems nooooooooooooooooooooooo im a gurl thats not attractive !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you nedd ta find who you are .
to keep fom embrassing ya self good love iz real emotions not hurting some1 k
2006-12-17 12:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by ghetto girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the answer to everything...
2006-12-17 12:00:12 · answer #9 · answered by mada m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋