Family & Relationships - 17 December 2006

My friend he is constantly joking with me...wanting hugs and high fives but then doesn't let my hand go for a few seconds....and he says things like your glasses make u like sexy..stuff like that...What am i suppose to think?

2006-12-17 04:59:32 · 6 answers · asked by amber j 2 in Singles & Dating

I love my best friend to death. We've had so many good times and she makes me laugh. Her family is like my family. But.. sometimes I wonder if she is really that good of a friend. She can be very brutal. She has bluntly told me before that "She's better then me" or "Did you really think you were going to out-do me?" She even lies to me to make herself look better, and when I find out she denies ever saying anything, making me look like a fool. Or recently when we had a family crisis and I had to miss two weeks of school to babysit I called her to grieve and she didn't even ask how I was.. she talked about herself. I just blow these things off.. but sometimes they add up and I get really depressed. When I try to tell her how I feel she acts as if I'm overreacting, laughs, and changes the subject. I love her to death and I don't know what to do.. I don't want to ruin our friendship - but I don't want to end up hating her either.

2006-12-17 04:59:15 · 7 answers · asked by Randi 2 in Friends

2006-12-17 04:58:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I moved here with my husband four years ago. We have been married 9 years. He moved out after becoming involved with another woman. We have three kids 2,5 and 8.
I wantto start a new life but it is hard because 1) this is his hometown. Mine is 1200 miles away. 2) He moved out but only three blocks away. 3) He is active in the community so I have to see his name in the newspaper all of the time 4) I soon realized that all of my friends are his friends or their wives and they seem to have no problem with his infidelity and moving out ( they have him and the girlfriend over for dinner, etc.) Any suggestions on how to get a new life. He moved out 8 months ago. About two months ago it seemed that we were getting back tgether but suddenly he pulled away again. He won't file for divorce. I don't because one of my children is disabled and so far I am still listed as his beneficiary and I would need the insurance if something. Any ideas of how to get started with a new life?

2006-12-17 04:58:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I ask because lovers continuonsly cheat on each other.

2006-12-17 04:58:08 · 45 answers · asked by Esther K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Like during the summer i go to visit my dad up in illinois but then i have a boyfriend here in texas..........could i possibly date both at the same time?

2006-12-17 04:57:03 · 21 answers · asked by catexasgurl933 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have just started high school and there is this 1 guy I really like. I don't no if he likes me because he keeps on hugging me in the grounds and at a 11-16's nightclub he kissed me, what do I do?

2006-12-17 04:56:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think they set a fine example to the human race.

My man servant Abdul is getting on a bit and if I adopt a small black/asian child now Abdul could have him fully trained in say 5 years time and that would leave me with a fresh young worker willing to work from dusk till dawn for tuppence a hour.

Now what should I name this forecoming child?

Benson perhaps?

2006-12-17 04:55:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hay.....I Knw its tough but u ve to chose....

2006-12-17 04:55:07 · 15 answers · asked by Rohit India 2007 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you do it?

I live in california where we're almost always in a drought, and i live in an apartment complex. I'm thinking about asking the lady upstairs if she thinks it'd be a good idea for us to share showers... what do you think?

2006-12-17 04:55:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-17 04:54:53 · 9 answers · asked by Praveen C 2 in Singles & Dating

after breaking girls heart...boys trout out all the usual lines:"its not you..its me"."im not good enough 4 you","i never meant 2 hurt you"this isn't working","i dont want 2 ruin our friendship"and stuff like that...what is the real reason??cant they just be honest??

2006-12-17 04:53:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is in a committed relationship and has recently been caught in chat rooms with females chatting about sex and has been for years. He had pics, saved contacts and even had a few personally nicknamed. When confronted with all of this, he lied (straight out denied it) for several days and nights before fessing up to it. If there was nothing to it why wouldn't he fess up to it instead of lying and hiding it? He deleted the contacts in front of me and now says he no longer does it anymore. However, how can I believe him or trust him when he has lied to me and deceived me all of these years? Is this not cheating? Betrayal? Is this love?

2006-12-17 04:52:36 · 31 answers · asked by Ready To 1 in Singles & Dating

I NEED TO SEND OUT INVITATIONS FOR MY WEDDING... I WANT TO MAKE THEM MY SELF IS THERE A WAY TO DO THAT AND DO YOU KNOW OF ANY LINKS THAT CAN OFFER ME SOME IDEAS TO TOSS AROUND BEFORE I MAKE MY OWN.. EITHER BY USING MY HP PRINTER OR MAYBE BY BEING VERY ARTISTIC EITHER WAY CAN YOU GIVE ME A FEW OPTIONS TO DO WHAT I AM GONNA DO?

2006-12-17 04:52:06 · 10 answers · asked by A W 3 in Weddings

he always thinks im cheating on him

2006-12-17 04:51:50 · 6 answers · asked by cssndrgary 1 in Singles & Dating

I believe they were married in Tenn. recently. Brandi is his sister.Eddie is the brother inlaw

2006-12-17 04:49:58 · 1 answers · asked by lilly l 6 in Friends

Will on science fair my friend told Matt Andy’s twin brother I like his brother Andy so then Matt want a told Andy I like him and Andy like I do not like her. So now Andy looks at me and smile and he will not say hi or what’s up, and it is everyday.

2006-12-17 04:49:29 · 6 answers · asked by pinkdoginmudd 2 in Singles & Dating

to turn the outside light on as it is dark???



I'm only thinking she might cut her toes off!!

2006-12-17 04:49:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this guy who I really like who I have the hots for. He is so much better than my exboyfriend. He treats me better, he respects me, he cares when I am upset. He is much fun to hang out with. He acts like my boyfriend even though we are not dating. he is always touching me. When I am upset he is always trying to make me feel better and to put a smile on my face. I really like him but I dont know if he likes me or jsut wants to be friends. I want him to know how I feel about him and I want to know how he feels about me. Do you guys have any advice on what to do. Thanks in advance for your help?

2006-12-17 04:47:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He hasn't called me in 4 days he says he's stressed out b/c of finals and everything. Last night we finally met on aim. i asked are we good? He said of course. Then i asked some random things. Then i asked what are the things stressing you out, does it include us?He said, partly, i was sorting of stressing him out. So i said we are not good after all. He says he guesses not. I'm so confused b/c he changed his answer in 5 mins. He says he always doesn't know what he wants and he can't keep changing his mind and screw us both. He's been trying to see the future with us but he can't. I'm ready to let him go for a while, like a month, but i wonder if there's a chance he'll come back. B/c like he said, he doesnt know what he wants and he always changes his mind(we broke up 3 times in a year but always came back). But this time i am not gonna beg him to take me back like i did before. but i'm still wondering if sometimes it's true for a couple to take time off to be back together.Plz help me

2006-12-17 04:47:23 · 9 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Singles & Dating

must warn you i eat loads tell jokes and wear the hat out of the cracker i also like a few beers.


I would wash up tho.

2006-12-17 04:47:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he hasnt kissed me yet but i want to kiss him...just on the cheeks...we do like hold hands and hug but never kissed

2006-12-17 04:46:35 · 21 answers · asked by ss 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 04:46:21 · 12 answers · asked by kimber 2 in Singles & Dating

lovers sometimes do hurt each others feelings,how do you prevent that.

2006-12-17 04:45:54 · 10 answers · asked by Esther K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we were dateing for 2 years and i really dont want to spend any time with him but if i say no he'll come to my house or my bf house or my bff house on christmas and i've told him i dont ever want to speak to him agian but he wont stop trying AND I REFUSE TO HAVE HIM AROUND WHEN MY BF IS THERE i have to get him somthing what do i get him? (my bf dosent care if i go any where with him because we trust each other completlly)

2006-12-17 04:45:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

looking at p.orn sites and m.asturbating..... i wanna get off this computer but im not able to do so.. wat do i do?

2006-12-17 04:44:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have alot of dirt between us and i can't decide if we should keep tring or just give up? I seem to keep gettin depressed any help??

2006-12-17 04:44:10 · 7 answers · asked by turbocrissy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm currently 6 month pregnant with my second son, my first is 15 months old. My boyfriend and the father of my children have been together for 21/2 years. Recently I heard a sexual message on his voicemail from his ex. After that I looked up our old phone records they had been talking back and forth for months. He swears that he was only talking to her as a friend and that nothing ever happened. He said he has no idea why she would leave him that kind of message. I love this man so much and he really is so sweet and loving to me and our son. I want to believe him but it is so hard,some part of me just doesn't trust him anymore. Is it possible he didn't cheat? How can I tell if he is telling the truth?

2006-12-17 04:43:32 · 10 answers · asked by hotmama91205 1 in Marriage & Divorce

iT iS sO fRiCkInG aNnOyInG!!!!!

2006-12-17 04:42:05 · 8 answers · asked by Crystal ♥'s Raymond 3 in Friends

Okay I had Fancy's 3 years a go.... we used to be in love for same reasons. we get in fight and he just lift .. I didn't herd nothing from that time.. anyhow I meet him somewhere in the mall... I didn't not believe my self ..he ask me for my #.. a week th next day he calls me.. he asked to see me..I said okay then we went out..to a nice restaurant... I asked he why did u go" hes said I don't know I wasn't ready to be a husband that time..I said.. so now u think u r.. he said yeah. I Said its too late"" he was like WHY ARE U MARRIED NOW'' I said No... but I'm not the same person u know'' he said whatever u r I still love u... I never forget about u.. I want to tell u that I was sorry ... IAm want to apologize to u and to Ur family... maby we meet again because we meant to be together.... we lift from the restaurant...I was parked my car too far .. so ask to drive me to my car... I get to his car... he was looking at me.. he said u look beautiful.... I said thank u... he touch my hair and kissed me... GOD I felt like IAM back with him ... I get lost in one minutes... then I asked him why did u do that he said ... I don't know ... ma by be because I loved u..... I said its never ganna be the same.. he said... we will see...anyways I told my mom that I meet him and staff...she was so happy... the problem is ... I tough I get over him,,, but it seems like I still love him... he was my first love... I m seeing someone now.. but I don't fell the something ......my family loves my ex.... and my mom encourage me to get back with him.....by the way IAM 21 now and his 25...he look more mature and batter job and nice car.... but I fell like my hear and my bady want him back... but I don't know what to do...

2006-12-17 04:39:45 · 7 answers · asked by heregoagain_1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships