well, I have been dating one of my friends for several mounths.
we both like eachother and we had a nice time together, but it wasn't enough though. Now we are just friends again and i knew all the time that this could happend, but i didn't realize that it would hurt as much as it does right now...
i guess there were some feelilngs that screwed things up.
I just miss him... and i want to buy him a christmas gift, any suggestions?
2006-12-17 03:23:31 · 10 answers · asked by tess_88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are feeling really hurt then the chances are that he is too. I would try and remember all the things that made you friends in the first place and but him a gift based on that. For example if you both liked a certain type of music then buy him a cd of a band you both like or see if they are touring and get tickets to go see them together.
Try and get your friendship back on an even keel but sadly sometimes if there has been too much emotion involved if either one of you can't some to terms with just being friends again and it can't be forgotten it will end up ruining the friendship. There may already be too much water under the bridge.
I hope you work things out.
2006-12-17 03:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone got mixed signals and.or someone felt stronger about the other person or someone wasn't feeling the electricity that the other person wanted or expected. It hurts big time! Someone got their feelings trampled and their heart broken. A Christmas gift is a good start, but you still have lot of damage control issues to resolve.
2006-12-17 03:33:48 · answer #2 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask yourself do you want him back as a friend or a boyfriend and do you see a future whereby both of you are walking together in the aisle? Tell him your feelings guys get paranoid when they dunno what their closest girl have in their mind.
2006-12-17 03:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by cinabolic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After several months of dating him you should know what to get him.
2006-12-17 03:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by shadouse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A card saying "missing my friend"
2006-12-17 03:26:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the dating that u means for it, but not means for him.
There is many different perspective on dating, different people different view. so, let it be.
buy something that he like.
2006-12-17 03:27:20 · answer #6 · answered by chenho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you guys are still friends you can buy him a present. i mean it wouldnt be that awkward.. and if you want, tell him you miss him..
2006-12-17 03:26:23 · answer #7 · answered by agnnes kiim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gift card to his fave store.... heehee
2006-12-17 03:25:32 · answer #8 · answered by ironcitycara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BUT HIM A CARD SAYING SOMETHING REALLY SWEET!
2006-12-17 03:25:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you love him you should never let him go
2006-12-17 03:29:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋