is it fair to judge a person bcoz of his past mistakes?

Question

i mean everybody has a past we all make mistakes sme learn sooner frm them sme later ,smetimes we r confused,wen we r young we dnt realise the consequences we might have to face we r often misunderstood, u trust people easily and r taken for a ride easily then there r those nasty rumours what if u have left all that behind and have learned ur lesson but sme day u face smeone who is aware of all that and will most probably spread it arround what do u do then how do u handle the situation

i dnt mean it in grave sence its about the things we go thrrough wen we r teenagers

Answer 1

A person's past makes a person who he is in the present. Most learn from mistakes and improve their lives through the years. I surely would not want to be judged by my past, but for people to see where I have come in spite of the past. Gossip will always be there. If one is pointing their finger at you, there is 3 pointing back at themselves!! Live by example and know you are the best you can be!!

Answer 2

Not at all if the past mistake had been resolved. While we are young we make immature statements against some people or insult somebody or commit a mistake which are unpardonable. While these are done without experience, as we grow old we feel ashamed are feel remorseful. It is just like that. With experiences only we learn. They say "Experience is like a comb which life gives after you have gone bald". For the present don't feel bad. People might have already forgotten it. Since you are a sensitive person you are feeling the baggage of the past. Life goes on. From now on try to be good to the same people whom you might feel have been wronged by you. Good Luck.

Answer 3

I think as human beings we all make mistakes. This is how we learn. Some lean some continue on to make bad choices. Some make dreadful mistakes and are fortunate never to be found out and go on with life learning a very valuable lesson. So if a person has turned their life around. And they have chosen a better and more responsible path. It is really unfair for other to bring up what is past. And for those that do, I would simply say " we all make mistakes, some are fortunate never to get caught and thus never to hear about it again" God has forgiven and that is all that really counts. God bless****

Answer 4

Of course it's fair. How else do you get an idea of what a person is likely to do, except by seeing how they acted in the past? We all judge based on general principles and knowledge. It's why we avoid skunks, even though a particular skunk never sprayed us. We know skunks spray- so we are careful around them. When we know that a person has totaled 5 cars- we don't lend them OUR cars. If we know a person has borrowed money from ten people, and didn't repay the loans- we don't lend them money. If a person has cheated on their last four partners- smart people don't date them. A person that has quit their last four jobs without giving notice, or having any good reason- isn't a person we hire. People SHOULD be judged based on their past.

Answer 5

No. Everyone makes mistakes. We are all human. If you messed up in the past would you want someone to judged you. Someone not to like you, Date you, be your friend. I wouldn't want that. For certain people it's different because they are still doing the same thing. The same mistakes. They didn't learn from there mistake the first time. People like that then ya I would judged them. But they haven't learned yet. But that's just me. Everyone is different.

Answer 6

It's not fair to judge someone by their past mistakes. Mistakes are learning experiences so In the future they dont make that mistake again.Yeah when people spread new about it its a challenge but they have to know it was a MISTAKE/ accident. They have to know a mistake is something to learn from and whoever made the mistake will learn better. So tell them its a mistake and you learn from it.

Answer 7

i'm an organization believer that once you go right into a sparkling courting you leave the previous in the previous. you ought to not communicate about previous relationships in any respect. it really is in the previous! once you get to allure to close the fellow - and also you sense that there is a bond then start up reveiling small issues a touch at a time. (on condition that it really is relevent like a drug dependancy, or some thing.) The human nature will reason him to evaluate you if he would not understand you before you tell him stuff. - the first step in this entire procedure is forgiving your self. start up there! i'm a christian and that i have self belief that once you ask forgiveness from God then you actually are forgiven - it is the biggest. once you stumble on forgiveness in God and your self then you actually no longer sense the want to have others forgive you! reliable success

Answer 8

We all make mistakes in our lives. You are right about that. Some of us learn from those mistakes and never repeat those. Some don't rectify themselves. If it is the former you are talking about, I have no doubt that it is absolutely wrong to judge them by their mistakes alone and not by the way they put everything to correct themselves and become better persons. That would be injustice and inhuman. If it is the latter, well, we can't help judging them by their acts and mistakes.

Answer 9

Tell that person yeah you made mistakes and have nothing to hide and are not going to pretend you're prefect. You learned from them and it's really sad that they're still stuck in the past and have nothing better to do than talk about you. That's telling you they have no life and you suggest they get one.
If someone wants to judge me, be prepared, I will judge them back.

Answer 10

No, forgiveness is a great gift. One should take the person from the time they meet them and help them to put any mistakes right if they need to and help them to learn to let go of the past