2006-12-17 00:37:27 · 60 answers · asked by jackjacks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Only if you want it to. You have to accept the truth as to why it happened, and truly let it go. You have to basically get over yourself to let it work which is the hardest part. After you get over yourself you have to be strong enough to stick it out no matter how crazy your friends say you are because at the end of the day it's your relationship not theirs, and I have learned that sometimes when friends say they won't put up with certain things it's because they have put up with that and probably worst, and I bet they did not listen to anyone when they did it. Good luck.
2006-12-17 00:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very hard. I was in a relationship for 7 years and he cheated. I found out about all of it. We tried for years to repair the damage, but once trust is broken it is so hard to restore. He would run to the store and I would wonder if he offered to go so he could call her. We went to see a counselor. At the end of all of it I decided that I deserved someone that could give me 100%, as I do when I am in a relationship. I did not need to be with somebody that did not appreciate what they had. To this day I feel like staying with him would have been like accepting a second place trophy when I had won the race. I have no regrets.
2006-12-17 02:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by fortillfriday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the level of commitment that you both have, meaning it's going 2 take work and the unfaithful partner needs 2 decide if thats it for him or her. Now you need 2 determine if you can forget this. If you can't get out of it.
2006-12-17 00:44:39 · answer #3 · answered by silkieladyinthecity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES,i did it. its easier to blame your partner to be unfaithful. but ask yourself first. are you a good partner? are you still the person she loved. i bet there's a some good reasons why unfaithfulness happens. if you think you really love each other. it will work out. being unfaithful is just a form of release from stress you are giving to the other.
2006-12-17 00:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I think it is rare. But it can happen and I also think it depends on the circumstances. Not all circumstances are the same. I know a couple who went through something like this and not only are they still together but they are stronger and closer than they were before. They both had to do a lot of soul searching but they both wanted to save the relationship and they did. You can't really know how you'd react in a situation until you are in it.
2006-12-17 00:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by Amelia 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think it can, although you absolutely have to be strong and willing to trust her/him again after what they've done. When someone betrays the trust of another it takes time and sometimes for whatever reason it never comes back.
The only thing you have to be careful of now is that the guilt will never fade and you or partner will always be waiting for revenge and for them to do to you what you did to them. Personally If you love that person there is no room for infidelity there is no reason to go looking elsewhere. There is no excuse for cheating on your partner.
2006-12-17 00:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once the trust has been broken its hard to get back. i think if the partner who was unfaithful is truely sorry and their is love in the relationship then it can work. ive seen it happen. im not sure if i couldnt trust again. hope im never in that situation to find out.
2006-12-17 00:42:42 · answer #7 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it can be worked out. However, it takes the commitment of both partners to be serious and sincere to the relationship working. Trust must be rebuilt and gained. So it is really up to the individuals involved. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-17 00:41:17 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It can, they say it takes two to make a marriage work. It only takes one doing the right thing though. It would take time for healing and trust to be renewed. The one cheating would have to stop. There would have to be a strong commitment to the relationship by the one trying to save it.
2006-12-17 00:41:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It'll absolutely never be the same but with a ton of hard work, determination, modified resolve and remapped out goals, two people can stay together: they just have to reinvent the relationship. It usually doesn't happen in reality.
2006-12-17 01:07:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋