Ive worked with this girl for 9 months, but never really paid much attention to her.
about 3 weeks ago i started thinking about her, and now i think about her a lot.
I know she is single, and we talk and that so i know she isnt repulsed by me.
About 2 weeks ago, i saved her from a bug attack (thrown from another employee) and now some of the guys refer to us as bf or gl of other. We laugh smile thats bout it. Other bf/gf comments come up asell.
We had a work do, and in some conversation she told everyone that she was my girl. (she had been drinking, and i think one of the ladies was trying to hook her up with someone).
I want to get to know her out of work but am worried that she might not actually like me, and then might think ive taken this whole situation way outta proportion, and ill be made a fool out of.
When we work together we talk, and eye contact and that always feels like we have something.
What should i do, i like her but dont want to be a fool.
2006-12-17 00:23:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
RIght, the only way you're gonna be a fool is when you let her go without letting her know how you really feel inside.
.. just think about it
she smiles at you, you both seem attrackted to each other, she even said shes your girl..
why not take advantage of this great opportunity in life and instead of hiding away from her, just go with your instincts and when you both are done with your jobs after work invite her to have dinner of coffe or w/e with you..
then just listen to what she tells you.. if you give her a chance to express her feelings for you, you might find how much she really likes you!
believe me.. this is not a risk... what is the worst that can happen? she says no.. im busy tonight.. just say ok.. well maybe some other night...
dont be scared of a girl... shes not gonna bite you!
2006-12-17 00:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by COlder THaN AlaSka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your workplace being awkward is only how you perceive it, if you ask her out and it fails, you just look at the guys in the office and say, "hey I tried, it did not work out, oh well", that's it.
Back to the question, I think you have a good chance with her, there is obviously some chemistry between you two, because she said she was your girl, (yes I know she had a few drinks, but still she said it) you wrote you two get along well together so why not ask her out to lunch next time you are at work, then at lunch ask her out for a Friday night date. Hope for the best for you...
2006-12-17 00:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women take such issues as no as a answer that isnt going to regulate. Your boss blows you off about it, then you actually're making him listen. you assert that the coverage of the corporate is there to guard you, and that you're feeling risky and uneasy in the paintings position. tell him if he doesnt opt to do some thing about then you actually will go over him. If hes the right visit the assistant manager or an HR representative. don't be scared he receives pissed at you he wont. you could sue for him punish you for this stuff.
2016-10-18 09:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by hultman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm. Sounds like you have an enormous crush on this girl. She pretty much shows the signs of liking you. She said she was your girl
2006-12-17 00:30:15 · answer #4 · answered by rubyprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can continue being friends at work because if you start a relationship and it does not work out then you have to go to work everyday and see each other and that does not make the healing process any easier.Or date her and maybe it will work you never know
2006-12-17 00:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by sparky75us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being so bloody insecure of yourself. Just be yourself with her. Show her you are confident and secure.
2006-12-17 00:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by bill a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out, even if it's just a lunch date. You'll never know unless you ask her out.
2006-12-17 00:31:03 · answer #7 · answered by caffeinatedmom2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit worrying about it and ask her out. You sound like such a wimp, get some SAC!
The worse that can happen is she says no
2006-12-17 00:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by Alexandra 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋