I heard that there are some guys who like me, but find me unapproachable. I'm very friendly and cute, but I did have my days when I interpreted things negatively. For example, the guys who like me, I thought they reallllly hated me. Isn't that weird. Am I too shy? Does body laguage matter. I've never dated guys, so at times I am a little scared of the unknown. What can I do to be more approachable. I don't want to seem desperate.
2006-12-17 00:18:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I already know about smiling. I need to work on my eye contact.
2006-12-17 00:33:19 · update #1
Smile more, TALK TO THEM!!!, you dont have to give off an impression that you like them, but if you already have a little conversation with them every once in awhile it will be easier for them to approach you. And one thing I learned about boys is that they seemed to be nervous when a girl is surrpunded by groups of giggly girls, if you are around a bunch of people all the time then you are already unapproachable b/c if he isnt already confortable with you then being with other girls (who he might not be confortable with either) then he wont say anything.
But also you might be an approachable person and they are just trying to make up an excuse as to why they havent made a move.
Good luck!!!!
2006-12-17 00:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you friendly or shy? You actually said both. If you are shy it will be more difficult to be approachable. If you are already friendly then there really should not be a problem. Yes body language is important. So is eye contact, a friendly smile, a hello...relax you have lots of time to see what works for you.
2006-12-17 00:45:06 · answer #2 · answered by tamara.knsley@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are too shy to talk to a girl unless it seems like the perfect timing. So if you're interested in a guy, give him the opportunity to approach you with no one around. Give him a look to let him know you're looking, but don't stare him down. The more you smile, the more approachable you seem, and don't worry, girls can be shy. If anything, it makes the guy feel less shy about approaching her.
2006-12-17 00:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by wyzeguy707 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are coming off a Little to aloof. Be more open and friendly towards the guys and approach them and talk to them.
Good luck!
2006-12-17 00:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by Alexandra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. Just relax and enjoy yourself. Things work out for a reason, even if the reason isn't clear. Don't try to force the issue.
2006-12-17 00:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by Paul 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
smile
2006-12-17 00:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋