2006-12-17 23:40:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Any girl who dose not take you seriously is a waste of time she obviously not for you you need to look around when you find a girl who listens and respects you then you know she is the one to ask out maybey you need to open up a bit more could be your shyness stopping you from asking someone out cause you think she may regect you when actual fact she could be just as shy as you sometimes in life you do get regected but most of the time you dont you can usually sence when a girl likes you good luck to you darl
2006-12-17 23:49:38 · answer #1 · answered by missletka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. Don't worry so much about getting a girlfriend, that's a sure way to get uptight and scare the girls off by seeming desperate.
Instead, just get on with enjoying your life and developing your potential to the best of your ability! Find some hobbies that you've always been interested in, and join a club. Or you could take up a brand new sport, like swimming, skating or martial arts, and make good friends (male and female) that way.
Concentrate on being the best you can be, and you will feel happy with who you are, which in turn will attract girls. But it's important not to take all these actions just to try and get a girl! Try and forget about girls for a year or so, and just work on your confidence and general life. good luck :)
2006-12-17 23:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you always come off in a joking manner? If you really like someone then show it, dont play it off, not being mean but usually the really hot hot hot girls are stuck up and only go for ceratin guys, so if you have a range of girls then stay with that range, dont shoot for the pamela anderson type......but theres somebody out there for everyone, doesnt matter if you havent had a girlfriend or not, youll find here.....get on myspace and find one, lol, jk, good luck
2006-12-17 23:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 2 male friends, one 45 and the other 43 that are still virgins!
they are not shy though, but romantic and responsible.
practise martial arts, it really help you to overcome your insecurity - what the girls pick up on you when they see you - and therefore they don't take you seriously. Like when you go to sell something, if you are not convinced yourself that your product is good, how will you convince others?
2006-12-17 23:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends what you're saying surely.
If you appear shy and quietly timid then they are probably avoiding talking to you further as they feel they are a source of embarrasment to you - which your behaviour seems to suggest.
Get a book on self-confidence or better still do a short course that'll do the trick.
2006-12-17 23:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by TisIEclair 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
join the club lol. well actually i get looks from lots of girls, but never had a girlfriend. i have the same problem as you (the first part anyway) i just have recently adopted the attitude of living like im gonna be dead the next day, taking risks etc. i think you should try that.
2006-12-18 04:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by Hick K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey shy guy! i know how u feel bro.I was a shy guy like u before.If u get a girl friend dont talk about yourself to her(mostly about your shyness).U just ask about her EXP what u like,what place u like,what food u like,what kind of movies u like,what u hate most? etc.......from here the girl will see how serious u are.ok? wish u a good luck.
2006-12-18 00:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by amadeus_denis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a problem you are shy guy,is that you are "a very shy guy"..
The other question is,why girls don't take you seriously if you say something?
Maybe you should change the circle of girls you're talking to..?
2006-12-17 23:46:19 · answer #8 · answered by Sophie,the cat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So what if your a shy guy theres nothing wrong with that.You got your whole life ahead of you.Theres no need to worry about girls.If they find you, then its ment to be.Dont chase after them.The best things happen to those of you who wait!!
2006-12-17 23:46:39 · answer #9 · answered by Tami 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are. If young, you just need more practice—ask girls questions about themselves, their interests,etc. Girls (and everone) likes that.
If you are older and this seems part of your character, seek counselling to find out what it is that you are doing to avoid intimate relationships.
2006-12-17 23:46:16 · answer #10 · answered by DrB 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋