Family & Relationships - 16 December 2006

i am friends with this on guy that i also like.....but lately he has been ignoring me and so i am also ignoring him.....but every time i look at him he is looking at me but quickly turns away..and he dosent try to talk to me
What is going ON????????

2006-12-16 01:47:47 · 7 answers · asked by SOPHIE p 1 in Singles & Dating

is it getting die for each other or making sacrifice?

2006-12-16 01:46:54 · 13 answers · asked by vaibhav_agrawal143 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-16 01:45:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, it was happy love story but suddenly she started acting coy and when i asked her if anything was wrong she said she wanted to break up the reason she gave was that she realised that she still loved her ex but now after three monthsshe said that it was because her best friend felt that she didn't spend enough time with her as she used to before and she wanted her friend of six years back! She didn't want to malign her best friend so she cooked up a story of her ex. She even gave me the letter in which her friend had said that she hated me!
She chose her friend over me.

Now , on orkut she has given a testimonial to that guy saying he is the love of her life?

I'm deeply hurt and am still not able to get over her.
We are on good talking terms but i still feel for her. If she was serious how could she do this ? How should i cope up?

2006-12-16 01:44:24 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

hi all, i am due soon to marry a gal i have been with about 2 months. she is a nice lass,although she has been telling me things from her past (like she has cheated almost on everyone she has been involved with) and that due to bad experences in her past she dosent trust anyone (including me) but she says she loves me and wants to marry.
Now on top of this a gal i got close to prior to meeting her (although nothing ever happened between us) is telling me she wants me and i shouldnt marry.my head is in bits what should i do?

2006-12-16 01:43:46 · 23 answers · asked by No name :) 1 in Weddings

Anybody can help ?? plss ^^

2006-12-16 01:41:36 · 27 answers · asked by dasas 1 in Singles & Dating

Not the sex, you know the children, family life.

2006-12-16 01:39:58 · 17 answers · asked by garnes d 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this boy that I like but he doesn't know that I like him.. what should I do?

2006-12-16 01:38:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are some tips to brighten my appearence and what type of clothes should I wear? I want my sister to be impressed so we can have many more dates.

2006-12-16 01:38:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 01:38:21 · 13 answers · asked by BRIAN G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-16 01:37:47 · 5 answers · asked by loveistheanswer 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 01:37:22 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been friends for a long time and I want to test the waters without diving in. I think she likes me but I don't want to just bluntly ask her out or how she feels about me. If she rejects me or says "i just want to be friends" I would die!! Plus she is the sister of one of my good friends and would probably hold it against me.

2006-12-16 01:37:14 · 5 answers · asked by Derek 3 in Singles & Dating

my best friends girlfriend just broke up with him and hes really depressed... i want to make him feel better but i dont know how. what should i do because i hate seeing him like this?

2006-12-16 01:36:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ive even told him that i like him 3 times..... hes even told me that he likes me too! so what am i supposed ta do, cause none of my friends like him, they all insult him, and make fun of me for liking him..... i try to brush it off but i think about him all the time...... please help!

2006-12-16 01:36:16 · 11 answers · asked by Stumbles 3 in Friends

Hi im in a class wit no grls and ALL BOYS!!! and they always defend me and fight ovr me and i dont lk any of them!!! wat should i do!!!!!
HELP ME!!!!

2006-12-16 01:35:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 01:34:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 01:33:50 · 25 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

A few months ago, I used to be friends with a guy in my class. After going out several times, we quickly became very close and eventually, we became best friends. One day, there was a fight between us and we became enemies. We fought for days in class and he would call me several names and make fun of me. I was hurt and it made me sad. He even went to the extent of hanging out with another girl to make me jealous. On the last day of school, we decided to stop fighting and be friendly to each other. Now, he is in Thailand for vacation and just recently, he msned me and told me he missed me. Why would he say that? Shouldn't he say he misses his other friend (the one that he hanged out with to make me jealous) ? I know he wants to be friends again and so do I but, should I ask him if he wants to best friends again? I'm afraid that he and the other girl have become very good friends. Help?

2006-12-16 01:33:45 · 8 answers · asked by Carrie 1 in Friends

did you take one for the team? or have you always been lucky in that department?

2006-12-16 01:32:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have chose to ignore her when she come to me with problems with her boyfriend because she is very indecisive. My best friend is always the one taking the initiative! She knew that she will be hurt in the end but still wants to continue with the relationship and always ask me " Should i just give him up or continue with it?" That guy is 22 yrs old but my best friend is 6 yrs younger and he always tell my friend that he is too old for her too. I know age is not a limit but is this guy trying to break off or just spilling his thoughts?

2006-12-16 01:30:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and I don't usually "fight"/argue. Yesterday we did, I am a stay at home mom, just recently we bought a home and we decided that he would manage the finances. ( with the added bills and being that I am terrible at balancing the check book) It was working out great. but lately I noticed he is blaming me for the littlest things like why dont you check the mail more often or you should be doing this or that ect. He raised his voice, I told him to hush because the kids were sleeping....boy that just ticked him more. He told me to get a life, because I am a worthless piece of ****, and that I should get a job, as is I had already gained some weight and was feeling self conscious of myself, I believe in the 12 years that we have been together, that is the WORST thing he has ever said to me. Now my question is.. do you think he is tired of me, the family life? I dont know what to think, he wont talk to me and tries to avoid me. What do I do?

2006-12-16 01:29:11 · 20 answers · asked by Ava 1 in Marriage & Divorce

at your self naked in the mirror

2006-12-16 01:28:47 · 14 answers · asked by nicole 1 in Singles & Dating

She wasn't into him...would it still be weird like taking her seconds?

2006-12-16 01:27:59 · 6 answers · asked by texascomet 4 in Singles & Dating

next thing i know i am arrested and might get charged with sexual assualt!!!!!

When told the woman wanted to press charges i was gobsmacked because the woman was my wife!!!

Do you think she is getting revenge for me eating the last rolo???

2006-12-16 01:27:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I sort of going out with this guy who i met at the college i'm going to right now. he just turned 20 and i'm 17 till may. I don't think he knows how old i am and i haven't had the cajones to tell him. i think he assumes that i'm over 18 and i think the moment i tell him about my age, he will stop talking to me. what should i do? should i just break it off right now before anyone get hurts??? also, my mom doesn't have a problem with it at all. she and my step dad have like a 6 yr difference and she says that it's ok.

2006-12-16 01:27:40 · 5 answers · asked by socalflower 2 in Singles & Dating

This started a month or so ago when my father-in-law wanted to know for sure if we were coming up for Christmas. When my husband questioned him , he said becuase he was planning on getting the other grandchildren bikes and he didn't want my children (his step-grandchildren) to feel left out. That made my husband and I angry but this is the way they are. My children are 8 and 15. We have been together for almost 5 years and they still do not consider themselves grandma and grandpa except with their "natural" grandkids. Here's the problem. I got angry and said something to the effect that I was only going to be with my husband and that I didn't like the way his dad and his step-mom project themselves to my kids. So now he is "making me stick to what I said" and he is going without us becuase I wasn't going to see his family just to be with him!!! We have been having problems but we are working through them and this is killing me. I want my family to be together for Christmas.

2006-12-16 01:26:23 · 15 answers · asked by kdbnsc 2 in Family

Well, I wouldn't consider myself a loser because of my intelligence, beauty, and sexy body. Other than that though, I'm a loser because of my finacial situation. My job is the job that a monkey can do, and I've been there for 5 years at this dead end job. I still live at home and am a slacker.

It is better being a female, because since I have good looks I can knab me a good man. But I don't want my sucess to revolve around having a sucessful man on my shoulder. I want to be independent.

Anyway, what makes you a loser or what makes you not a loser? Males and females have different standards, if you're a guy, your a winner if you are sucessful, a female if you have good looks and some type of career but it doesn't have to be much. But what is your opinion? Are you a loser?

2006-12-16 01:25:58 · 23 answers · asked by agnosticaatheistica 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband and I have been divorced for three years now. My daughter is 14 and lives with him in another state. She was here with me for the summer and I got her a prepaid cell phone to use.

He sent me an e-mail to cancel her cell phone and send her cash instead. He says that the cell phone goes to waste.

He says that her friends tease her that she is poor because she does not wear the latest clothes or have money to spend at school events.

I sent some money to her lunch account so that she can buy lunch at school once in a while. I also bought her a lot of name brand clothes for Christmas (Hollister , American Eagle Gift card from my parents).

My point is that since I pay child support each month, why should I send money if I cancel the cell phone? He wants me to work with him on how I spend money for my child. He is very controlling and I see this as another control move.

2006-12-16 01:23:31 · 16 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I just feel so unhappy lately. I know that a lot of people get sad at the holidays, but I just feel depressed. My life isn't what I wanted it to be and the worst thing is a friend of mine got the job I was qualified for...I haven't spoken to him in two years.
I married a great guy who I love very much, but he's not what I usually went for....the bad boy type. This guy is verrry nice and treats me like a princess. Sometimes though, I wish he'd be a little rough around the edges for me, you know?
We have a ton of bills, mostly health bills and he's had to get a second job. I work several jobs in the home on the computer. Don't make as much as he does, but he likes me home.
What I want to know is am I just a bad person for feeling this way? I cry myself to sleep every night because I hate myself.

2006-12-16 01:22:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anna G G 1 in Marriage & Divorce