Well, I wouldn't consider myself a loser because of my intelligence, beauty, and sexy body. Other than that though, I'm a loser because of my finacial situation. My job is the job that a monkey can do, and I've been there for 5 years at this dead end job. I still live at home and am a slacker.
It is better being a female, because since I have good looks I can knab me a good man. But I don't want my sucess to revolve around having a sucessful man on my shoulder. I want to be independent.
Anyway, what makes you a loser or what makes you not a loser? Males and females have different standards, if you're a guy, your a winner if you are sucessful, a female if you have good looks and some type of career but it doesn't have to be much. But what is your opinion? Are you a loser?
2006-12-16 01:25:58 · 23 answers · asked by agnosticaatheistica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think as long as you are secure in yourself and and always striving to be better, you will never be a loser. We all have setbacks and periods in our lives that we wish could be better, that makes us human not losers.
My opinion of a loser is someone who is totally into themselves. I have known many that are always me first type of people and sometimes they appear to finish first and have more toys, but they are true losers because they have no true friends in their lives, only acquaintances that like them for what they can get.
I have certainly not accomplished all the things I have wanted in life, but I have a great family, lots of friends and husband that after 20 years is still my best friend and I am more in love with him today than I was when we married.
Hope this helps. It is just my humble opinion, but you certainly need not get down on yourself because of your job...Look for something different.
Good Luck!!
2006-12-16 01:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by Alexandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO ONE IS A LOSER! We are all champions and don't you ever forget that! Do not judge yourself by comparing your abilities or lack of them by anothers accomplishments. Pretty face and as? has nothing to do with winner or loser-- we are all winners and move along life at our own paces. A win-win situation for everyone is the best way going. We each have something, and we each have nothing, it is great. God doesn't make mistakes!
2006-12-16 01:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by Tina Zecca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I'm not a loser. I'm getting along perfectly without a boyfriend, and I'm bound for college and a successful advertising career thereafter. If you want to be more successful, you might want to look into upgrading your qualifications. Post-secondary education will get you MUCH farther than a high school diploma will. Good for you for being independent. Girls like us are a dying breed.
2006-12-16 02:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I pulled myself up by my own boot straps and own a business, have a mostly paid for house, cars, motorcycle, horse, have no debt and a decent rainy day fund. I'm fit, decent looking, outdoorsy, a little artsy. People like and respect me. But I lost my passion for a high risk sport and with it my closest friends and weekly validation, just split up with a long term girlfriend and have no girlfriend prospects out there and dread the singles scene. I feel like a drone and a total loser. Working yet another weekend just to fill the time.
2006-12-16 01:48:55 · answer #4 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think what makes you a loser is beeing in a situiation you don't like and settling for it. Some people love dead end jobs, they're not losers for beeing in one. But if you're not ok with your situation, taking steps to change it is what makes you a "not loser" (don't know the english word for "not-loser").
2006-12-16 01:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by carlospvog 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good looks have nothing to do with being a loser. If you're too lazy to get a job, you're a loser. Simple as that.
2006-12-16 01:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is better being Female.You need to find out why you're asking this question have someone put that in your head?don't listen to that you're no a looser you've been on you job for 5 yrs,That's showing some responsibilities.You just haven't found the right job.
2006-12-16 01:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by lorraine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm too ambitious and vain to be a loser. But I'd say someone who has no goals and isn't pursuing a plan to improve their situation is a loser.
2006-12-16 01:29:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
never you are a loser only if you think you are -- yes it sounds a load of hogwash but a saying i think is so appropriate is ---- the best way to predict the future is create it
if you dont like your job dont complain find a better one --- move out and stop being a slacker (whatever that is)
2006-12-16 01:30:12 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As for me,I don't consider myself a loser in any means since I love who I am,I am so sexsy,not even so smart,just an average woman who loves to leave my life with contentment,,,,
2006-12-16 01:29:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋