2006-12-16 01:37:22 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure its possible, but I wonder if you really have if your asking this question here - it sounds like your having doubts (of course all humans can have doubts). If the feelings are mutual - good luck to you!!!
2006-12-16 01:40:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? If the guy was 41 and the girl was 21 no one would raise an eyebrow...however, having said that, just be sure that it is love not just lust. You need to have things in common that will carry you through when the lust fades a bit, and it always does.
In life, we love who we love, he may be an extremely mature 21 year old...I have a 21 yr. old son, would I be delghted if he fell for a 41 yr. old woman...honestly, probably not, but, if it a perfect fit and you make eachother happy...go for it...you wild one!!! good luck and more power to ya.
2006-12-16 01:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, theres someone out there for everyone. it is possible to fall in love with a 21 year old boy. But ask yourself this question, Will it work?
2006-12-16 01:41:45 · answer #3 · answered by sweettalk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can fall in love with him but you might not want to if you consider him a "boy" and the mentality that one usually thinks of when you hear "boy". I know someone that 15 years younger than me and if the situation allowed, she would be ALL mine. I'm glad for you that you're falling in love. No other feeling like it.
2006-12-16 01:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by poorsias 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
anything is possible but keep in mind he is young enough to be your son!!! and think of how u worded that question "a 21 y/o boy" esacly he is still a boy!!! ur a grown women ready to retire 25 years from now and hes probably just enterinng a proffession!just think about these things... but ya other than al that i guess its possible, after all age is just #!
2006-12-16 01:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by ♥PrEcIoUs♥DaYdReAmEr♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure enough, especially these days when the Age Issue is flimsy and technical. If he has qualities that you like/love and if he is mature enough emotionally and spiritually to involve himself in an adult relationship, go forth and enjoy!! Look at Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher...they're great together.
2006-12-16 01:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is possible age is only a state of mind. however i am not sure if you are looking for a long term relationship how well it will go due to different ideas on many different issues.
Wish you well though Love is always grand
2006-12-16 01:41:05 · answer #7 · answered by BRIAN G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether you can or cannot doesn't really matter - it wouldn't be deemed right because of the age gap. Even if in love now - think of a few years time when he's 40 and in his prime, you'll be queueing up for your pension xxxxxxx
2006-12-16 01:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by starlet108 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope not!
because im pretty sure that he doesnt love you for you, there might be something good in you! maybe a nice wallet that you have! he is using you get over him, i know that the truth hurts a lot sometimes but it can save you even more pain!
2006-12-16 01:40:58 · answer #9 · answered by mwa 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
NOOOOONNOOOOOO!!! he is to young and you are kind of to old. the chances that you have a lot in commen is small so rather get someone with the same intrests than you! good luck
2006-12-16 01:43:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋