we're talking to each other all the time, but the problem is, he talks to a lot of girls (but he's not the playa type-he's just friendly), and I dont know if he likes me as a friend or otherwise. I'm the only girl in the class that he actually speaks to-does that mean something?
my other problem is, he's white. most of my friends are black and they would (well, not all of them) expect me to like a black guy. and I'm afraid that if they find out, they'll be like "eeew" or make fun of me or something. but I really really like him, he's so much fun to talk to. what should I do?
2006-12-16 00:56:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
who cares if your black and hes white. if your both feeling eachother then thats all that matters. go for it and let everyone else worry about it, you shouldn't.
2006-12-16 00:59:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course they're gonna make fun of you. You take it as a joke and that's that. I don't see what the big deal is.... If you don't act on it on acount that he's white, that would make you a racist.
Some women like men who dress like girls, and they're not ashamed of it, for crying out loud!
Be flirty. if he does'nt respon to the flirtations, it's because he's not interested. Don't F&%$ up and teel him how you feel because you'll drive him away. Happend to me a couple of times (that i didn't want to see the girl afterwards). If he responds, on the other hand....
2006-12-16 01:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by carlospvog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be real,tell him how you feel in a nice way,yet tell him you're not expecting anything from him,but make sure his not a kiss and tell type of guy,explain to your friends love cant choose whom to like and fell deeply inlove with,Dont mind what other people reactions,its your life,but remain humble to everyones opinion,,,
2006-12-16 01:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't go off what ur friends might think, If u like him then u should ask him out, He might like u in the same way, U never know till u ask! Good Luck! Lol
2006-12-16 01:00:03 · answer #4 · answered by Cookiesandmilk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. Color does not MATTER it is what is on the inside that makes the person not the color of their skin. If your friends don't like it then they are not true friends. A true friend will support you in everything you do.
2006-12-16 01:03:20 · answer #5 · answered by trueangel121301 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey ,
gurl do what your heart is tellin u to do. don't care about what other people thinks about u. it took me three years to be able to do that. So don't let other people cut u out of havin a good relationship just because hes a different color. Besides its what u and him feel that matters and not what color your skin is.
- angel
2006-12-16 01:34:44 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, g-g, hellloooooooooo??????????????? Do you like like that guy or not???? if you do..... go for it, even if you are not sure whether he feels the same about you. I he doesn't, that's okay too. If you are really scared to be turned down, I understand. So, why don't you test the waters first. hve some of his friends ask him, if possible..... well, that's all I have to offer.
2006-12-16 01:01:41 · answer #7 · answered by Nancy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK...First you need to get your priorities straight....what's more important...Finding a man who cares about you in the same way you care about him ? OR....Finding a man your friends approve of ?...OR...learning right now that LOVE is not in finding a man you can live with but rather finding a man you cannot live without. ???
2006-12-16 01:03:12 · answer #8 · answered by nancy w 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry so what is the BIG fricken deal with skin colour???????
if you like him go and talk to him alone you will know very quickly if you like each other
if your "friends" cared for you they would cheer to see you happy
2006-12-16 01:07:44 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe. It's either he likes you or he likes you as a friend.
And if your friends laugh at you maybe their not really your friends because friends cheer you on, like mine
2006-12-16 01:04:27 · answer #10 · answered by htrenh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋