2006-12-16 00:28:32 · 28 answers · asked by its just me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Of course. When he cheats you it just express his full devotion to you. He just have to "taste" other women in order to understand and valuate your value. So actually it mean that as much he cheats you he loves you more. In other words, when he doesn't cheat you you must be worried!
2006-12-16 00:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by blapath 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he may love you, but he does not respect you. truth is, when a husband or boyfriend cheats, it usually means they are not ready to settle down with just one person. they want variety as well as excitement. it could also mean that they may be lacking in some areas. honestly, i don't think it's all about sex. men can have and do have strictly emotional affairs. emotional affairs can be almost worse and demeaning than purely physical ones. regardless, they still hurt. it's a rule in my book that if my husband were to have an affair, that's the end of the story. love or no love. men should know right and wrong just as women should. if you love someone, do not cheat. if you feel you are lacking in a certain area, communicate to make a compromise. actions speak louder than words. cheating is not something respectable for someone to do. cheating on someone means they don't give a damn about your thoughts or feelings.
2006-12-16 01:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by Shakti Svātantrya Isa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time when a spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend cheats it's because they are searching for something that is missing. I had cheated on my first husband quite a bit. I got married to him when I was 20 and we got together when I was 16 so I had never dated before and I was searching for the attention that someone else had given to me. I liked the way that I would feel when I would see him. I would get that roller coaster feeling in the pit of my stomach and just the feeling of the newness of the relationship. When you have been with someone for a long time all of that disappears within the relationship. I don't think that he has lost his love for you I think it was just the excitement of it being with someone different and having the feeling of it being different. Maybe you could go out and buy a few wigs or something and dress up like someone else that way he is cheating with you. I am not saying this to sound stupid or to sound rude. I am just trying to help your relationship. You need to actually just come out and ask him what made him cheat? What was the reason? Was it because he wanted someone different or the excitement of getting caught? What ever it is I am sure that you can resolve it . He forgave you so you can do the same for him. Good luck to your relationship.
2006-12-16 00:45:37 · answer #3 · answered by ws_422 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If a person cheats on someone they proclaim to love,then that person doesn't know what true love is..true love is taking the good with the bad..And just as marriage vows say,"Through good times and bad"! That person took the cowards way out..He/she should have been open and communicated with the other one...Love has nothing to do with "lust".And anyone who cheats on someone they claim to "Love" doesn't know what love is....I wonder what this person would say if the tables were turned? It seems there is a double standard when it comes to men and women in situations like "cheating". OK for men,but not women...Hogwash! Ask your husband/boyfriend this,If I were the one cheating,what would you think or do? You might be surprised at the answer.Most men would leave,whereas women tend to forgive more easily.It's called "Ego".
2006-12-16 01:00:31 · answer #4 · answered by ladybug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating doesnt always spell the end of a relationship, in most cases its caused by the fact that there is a lack of something in your relationship and the person he's cheating with provides what is lacking.If you still love him and are willing to forgive his cheating, find out what caused him to stray and correct the issue.
Same thing goes for the guys. If your girl cheats on you, that means there is something your not doing for her that the other guy is. AND if your girl is cheating with another woman, thats a whole different issue.
2006-12-16 00:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by bigjohninfla75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might mean he doesn't respect you, but not that he doesn't love you. It's also dependent on how he's cheating. If he has a one night stand with some ho...it doesn't make it right, but that was sex. But if he's cheating on a regular basis with someone and they're building a relationship...that's not good. He might still love you, but your love is in competition with someone elses. And that other person has the upper hand because they're in that exciting, new stage of being together. I hate cheating!!!!
2006-12-16 00:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by shannonscorpio 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if they cheat than they do not love u at all. they don't care about the consequences, or how much they hurt u. if they loved u they would never cheat, as cheating is the beginning of the end, and if they wanted u and loved u it would not be so easy for someone else to tempt them, if they had something they valued and u were a treasure to them, than the heart follows what it treasures, and if they put someone else before u, than it means they don't treasure u.
2006-12-16 05:12:48 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the person. Everyone is different, which means everyone feels different. There are guys who love their girlfriends to death, they just can't be loyal for whatever reason.
Then there are guys who don't love their significant other, or even care for them, they just want to have their cake & eat it too.
In my opinion, cheating is something that should never be forgiven. But, like I said, everyone's different. Some people feel their relationship is worth giving another shot. Sometimes it works.
Good luck! :-)
2006-12-16 00:32:30 · answer #8 · answered by erica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may love you but he is cheat, forget his feelings for a second, what is it that you love about him?....If you can't trust someone, get out of it, he is a cheat and always will be....if he isn't going to change, and if he did, he would be the first, then you gotta move on, life is too short to waste it on losers. good luck.
2006-12-16 00:34:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll just say maybe he does not know what it means to love someone. he for sure did not show much respect for you when he cheated. even if he got away with cheating and you did not find out he would know he did you wrong and he knew it before he acted on his thoughts of being with this other person. i would say if he loved you his thoughts of you should have been stronger than his thoughts of being with another.
2006-12-16 00:35:13 · answer #10 · answered by looken4answers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋