I've known this girl for at least 2 months now and we talk and we've been out to parties and gatherings. She never calls me by name, but instead calls me my nickname because she thinks its cute. I liked someone before but found they didnt respond to me after a while, and this friend caught me with her a fortnight ago. She said she was upset that i was 'too busy socialising' to notice her but after that she said that i'm forgiven and that i owe her lunch to make up. I agreed to invite her to lunch this week. We havent seen each other since the party but i send her flirty messages on msn (for instance, i told my friend that i needed a darker tan, she said she didnt need hers and would give her tan over if she could and i replied with, how about you try rub it onto me and see if it comes off) and she laughs at them. One day, she had a long day of work but we talked through sms until 3 in the morning. She tells me random stuff or asks how my day was, hows work and when am i busy or working
2006-12-16 23:58:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We didnt see each other for a while, but yesterday we went out for lunch and went shopping for stuff, played around a bit. It was fun and i gave her hugs and teased her a bit and it was fun, she laughed a lot and let me rest on her shoulder. When she left she gave me a hug, even though i hinted that i wanted a kiss. I did see her with someone once but they dont even kiss in public and she makes it sound like he's a carpet and that she's only his friend. He buys her stuff but that's about all she says about him. Does she actually like me or does she just want to be friends?
2006-12-16 23:59:50 · update #1
It sounds to me like there is something in the makings here. The only way to know is to ask. It seems like you two spend alot of time together even if its not face to face. BUT....don't wait to long to ask her how she feels or you just might end up being in a ..."Oh he's just a really cool friend" type of relationship. Good luck honey!
2006-12-17 00:06:46 · answer #1 · answered by tenderheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u forgot to give us a clue as to why u think she's seeing someone else. Then all of a sudden u were talking about a second girl. After the appearance of that girl I couldn't tell which one you were talking about. Maybe try using their names next time. Good Luck and maybe try your question again.
2006-12-17 08:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by GreyGHost29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a simailar situation. However, I know she is with someone else, you don't. So, you can tell her how you feel, and if she says she is with someone else, than you always have the excuse that you didn't know. Don't do what I did and let her slip out of your hands.
2006-12-17 08:02:41 · answer #3 · answered by Sir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you meet her for lunch, in your conversation ask her if she's seeing anyone.
2006-12-17 08:01:02 · answer #4 · answered by Tweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, she likes you. If you're really not sure, suck up the courage (you know, be a man) and ask her.
2006-12-17 08:02:39 · answer #5 · answered by Paul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her how you really feel..guess there's no harm in doing it.goodluck!believe me..after you said it, you'll feel good.
2006-12-17 08:02:02 · answer #6 · answered by likechoco8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋