Is he annoyed with me??

Question

Whenever I call my boyfriend, he either has to go or is goin to sleep.I normally call him around 9pm cause it gives him a whole day to goof around and I only need probably 10-20 min. to talk to him a night, if not every other day.
He lives far from me...like maybe 20-30 miles. Its long cause neither of us can drive, regardless that he's 22. He goes clubbing sometimes at night which I don't mind.
Supposedly, he's sick right now. I wouldn't be surprised, since he owns an apartment with his uncle, his friend w/ girlfriend and kid.
He wants to come see me and I'm all for it, but because he was sick this week he couldn't. Normally he goes to bed at 10.
Tonight I saw him on his IM messenger n I immediately IMed him cause I didn't get to talk to him 2 days...he was too busy yesterday and I fell asleep early. So anyways he signed off as soon as I IMed him. I emailed him and told him how much it hurt me.
I was also looking at his myspace not long ago. (continued....)

and these girls are always like, "You never call me!! Miss ya hon!" and sometimes it gets on my nerves cause he's my bf, but I can't complain cause my guy friends do that too sometimes.
He also tells girls that their eyes are pretty. He told me that mine were, and thats how we met. He doesn't delete my "I like you soo much n stuff" comments to him on his profile, but it still makes me worry.

I was falling for him, but I'm not sure now. Its upsetting me cause I car for him so much and when I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder he comforted me. I love that about him....so what should I do??

I don't smother him. I give him a crap load of time. I only ask for like 10-20 min to talk to him a day.I could be the gf that calls him ever 20 seconds, but I'm not.

I don't think its too mich to ask.

I've been hurt before, I've told him all the stories. He knows what pain I've been through and I know his...the stories, not like "I know exactly how you feel!" kind of thing, really.
I just don't want this relationship to go sour like one of the really bad ones did.

1) my friends are awful. They criticize me for being bipolar...so basically I don't have any.

2) I don't have a phone. He can call my house phone, but my mom doesn't like him callin cause she thinks he's black. (he's not, I met him couple times before)

Answer 1

Catty.... you are so sweet of a girlfriend and any guy would be lucky to be with you. But girl... sometimes you need to protect your self and guard your heart. This boyfriend of yours knows very well and knows for a fact that you'll never suspect anything of him and that you'll always be there for him... so what does this means to him?

This means that he's taken you for granted... and you don't know it yet. I'd suggest you to pull back from being too serious and from giving your all to him. Take care sweetie

Answer 2

Well I would like to know what else you where going to write but if he usually seems too busy for you, even tho you do give him space which is good, then it seems like he isn't that into you. Go and have fun and find someone else. Good Luck!

Answer 3

guys point of view....sounds like he possibly has got other women with him(dont mean to sound so calus)butthat the impression I get....be straight forward with him and tell him exactly what you feel.It will help you relieve some stress and also get things in the open...

Answer 4

don't take this the wrong way, because i was once in your shoes....
you need to hang out with your friends more, stay in and watch a movie without him...
don't answer every time he calls...
don't drop everything to be with him...

MEN HATE THAT!
and he will find someone else soooo fast..

Answer 5

sounds like he wants out...he is gettin space and all but theres no need to ignore you if everythin is fine. I would try and get to his place to confront him

Answer 6

YOUR SMOTHERING HIM...HANG BACK OTHERWISE YOU WILL DRIVE HIM AWAY.

Answer 7

MOVE ON!!!!!