Family & Relationships - 13 December 2006

Ok, I'm friends with this girl. I really like her otherwise, but I gotta problem...she's got this habit of always borrowing money and never returning it. Now I'm Ok with occational splurges, but too many pending accounts always make me uncomfortable. She owes me a lot now. I've tried telling her but she always tells me that she'd give it to me later and forgets all about it. I feel rather cheap asking for money over and over. But I feel it's gotten far enough now. How do I tell her that she owes me? I really like her otherwise and I don't want to hurt her...
I'd appreciate anything you could suggest.

2006-12-13 17:54:50 · 18 answers · asked by Smarty 2 in Friends

me and my boyfriend are both students in university, i work part time and make money but he doesnt. His parents give him a lil money every month to spend. It is barely enough for gas and main stuff. I feel like he should get a job because his classes r relatively easy ( he's doin political science) and only has 4 classes i have 5 classes and im studying math and comp science so its harder on me. Any ways whenever we go out i pay for dinner and stuff , i usually suggest it because if it was up to him he'll jus go home and eat. I dont mind paying at all i make enough money but i just feel like he should get a job n get money so we can go out n have fun . I mentioned to him in a nice way to get a job for himself so he doesnt depend on his parents but he doesnt seem to want to . Am i expecting too much from him ?? n he does pay sometimes but usually he makes it clear he's broke so i offer to pay..

2006-12-13 17:53:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my 19 year old got tinto an argument because she dosent do anything to beter herself or any housework or chores for that matter. well she ended up leaving the house that night and I was worried about her because she didnt come back. I realize she is an adult, just wanted to know she was ok. My sister and everyone of her friends knew where she was, but wouldnt tell me. She ended up coming home with this girl that used to live upstairs from me the next night. The girl she came back with is 21 and tried to sleep with my boyfriend,coused many problems for me and my family and sleeps around on her boyfriend continuosly. So I didnt let her in my house to help my daughter get her stuff. Well the reason I am asking this question I think my sister should of at least told me she was ok and where she was. She has children of her own and is 37-years-old. Do you think I have the right to be mad at her. I just wanted to know if my daughter was ok.

2006-12-13 17:52:06 · 13 answers · asked by Spinning Times LLC 3 in Family

2006-12-13 17:51:34 · 7 answers · asked by LanaL0V3 2 in Singles & Dating

I can't go over to her house though =( Anyone know of anything I could do or say to her that would help her feel better?

2006-12-13 17:51:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I finally ask this girl I like out. We were suppose to meet yesterday for lunch, but i wasn't able to get a hold of her. I called her phone, left messages and still no call back. I seen her today at work and I just ignored her. Should I just leave her a lone for good, or just ignore her, or call her, or what. I really feel bad for getting stood up, because I really like her and really wanted to have lunch with her.. so I dont know.

2006-12-13 17:50:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

FiRST OF ALL THE GUY iS LiKE TWO YEARS YOUNGER THAN ME SO iMAY BE iNTiMiDATiNG HiM.
iM REALLY SHY SO MAKiNG THE FiRST MOVE iS REALLY HARD. HE JUST NODDS AT ME BUT NOTHING ELES.
HIS FRIEND SAY HE IS REALLY SHY AND THAT HE LIKES ME BUT i DONT KNOW iF SHE iS LYING OR NOT...
WHAT SHOULD iDO? SHOULD I CONTINUE TRYING TO GET TO KNOW HIM?
AND IF YES... HOW DO I ASK HIM FOR HIS NUMBER?
IT'S NOT EASY FOR ME CAUSE WE NEVER REALLY TALKED MAYBE ONLY ONCE...

2006-12-13 17:49:15 · 5 answers · asked by LanaL0V3 2 in Singles & Dating

hi..i really love my boyfriend very much.we have been together for 5 years now.even he loves me very much.but somehow i feel he is not like before more caring...etc..how can i make him love me very much...he tells me that he likes me very much even now....but i want him to love me even more

2006-12-13 17:48:30 · 30 answers · asked by shan 1 in Singles & Dating

Can every one share their point of view so that i may try to prent those situations and conditions in my life...

2006-12-13 17:48:20 · 48 answers · asked by damnserious 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a friend.. a bestfriend and i am in love with her and would die for her but she has a boyfriend and she loves him so she says.. she says shes had crushes on me before but ive had a crush on her ever since i met her.. what should i do?

2006-12-13 17:44:52 · 22 answers · asked by jake g 1 in Singles & Dating

over any topic

2006-12-13 17:44:24 · 13 answers · asked by karpuspita 1 in Singles & Dating

what is the best thing to do after a good sex you think?(smoke,take a shower,sleep,go shopping,.....)

2006-12-13 17:44:07 · 14 answers · asked by bigballs 1 in Singles & Dating

Take the obvious out of the equation like infidelity

2006-12-13 17:43:21 · 10 answers · asked by hoarfen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok imagine this:

you were in a relationship with someone for about 4 or 5 years... then yall broke up... 1 month later, your at a party and you notice your best friend trying to make a move on them!!!!

Do you think best friends have the right to hook up with past ex's???? and if so why??


p.s.... this did not happen to me so dont even ask, its just a question!!!!

2006-12-13 17:42:55 · 20 answers · asked by naturalherb_101 1 in Friends

what to do to impress her and let her fall in my love.but she is marwari and i am bengali.my age is 15 yrs.

2006-12-13 17:41:33 · 20 answers · asked by king 1 in Friends

see my husband took his life in front of us ...and now theres ot a day that goes by when i wish he took me too...i feel like my heart
and soul was taken away that day...everyone says how sorry their
are but they don't feel the way i do..i have people who work with me and my daughter over this..but it all comes back to the hole he left in my heart ...i have moved on somewhat i went back to work part-time and now have male friends to talk with...i still wear his ring round my neck and still have my wedding rings on...i loved him with all that i am ...but that was not enough to save him..or me..two days before christmas we would have been married 26 years...now at night its so hard not to fall apart to wish that i too was gone...but in the morning light my 8 year daughter who looks just like her daddy comes in for a hug and kiss good morning ..makes me wonder if he still here with me in her .
i still am upset with the world for letting him die.im more upset that he let me live without him

2006-12-13 17:41:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it true a girl should wait until she receives a phone call from the guy she just went on a date with, before she attempts to call him? Will he perceieve her calling first as being desperate and needy? The thing is, I know there was a connection there, but how long is too long to wait for him to call afterward?

2006-12-13 17:41:29 · 3 answers · asked by ladyofderbyshire 1 in Singles & Dating

He said he's having family probs at the moment and needs space,i still dont understand though why he hasnt at least txt to let me know he still cares for me. He avoids me at work and it's been a while now since i seen him. I think about him all the time and it's eating me up inside. He's completely given me the cold shoulder yet the other day he said he stil loves me,why do you think he wont keep in touch though?

2006-12-13 17:40:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom always hit me for crazy reasons and she always sneak in my room an listen to my conversations and never lets me go anny where she dont want me with a phone or drivers licens or a car she wont et me work where i want to work and she stay compairing me to older kids saying im dumb and ill never make it i have to sneak and do stuff cuz if i try to tell her she wouldent listen and shed fuss but i wont kno why and she always call me retarted and dumb and every time i try to do something good i think of her then i dont do it

2006-12-13 17:40:40 · 33 answers · asked by Ms.B 1 in Family

If you are a guy of the age 21 what kind of gift would you like to recieve from your girlfriend that you have been dating for a year? Be honest PLEASE!!!! B/c some of these answers might help me in my x-mas shopping.

2006-12-13 17:40:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am trying to locate several people from my past; if anyone knows Rainie or Don personally please e-mail me. Thanks

2006-12-13 17:40:32 · 1 answers · asked by ippi1 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i want to learn some french for this girl,can you tell me how to say "i love you","i like you",and "i want to be more then just friends" in french?

2006-12-13 17:39:40 · 6 answers · asked by shorty/spike31 1 in Singles & Dating

tell me what shld i do pls.. i hv a bf. He is pretty ok for me. But the only problem is that he dont trust me. (for no reason) and also he restricted me too much.. i cant go out with my frenz.. and he always complain that i dont love him (but i do...) i am a good gal in everyone eyes.. and most of the ppl ard me feel that he dont deserve me. I near to give up.. i have tried to endure and uphold this R/S but im tired..
Recently got in touch with my ex-suitor then i get to know he still loves me.. and he says that is he has a chance he will woo me back again. Shld i let myself be a happy gal again.. or continue to endure this R/S?

2006-12-13 17:38:36 · 21 answers · asked by Its me! 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 17:36:11 · 11 answers · asked by ♥2323vsb 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been involved with a married man for about 4 years now. The man used to be wonderful, but he is obsessed with the notion that I'm with another man. If I don't answer his calls, its because I'm supposedly out with some guy. I really want to exit this non-relationship, but the emotional ties are too strong to break out of. He apparently hates his wife but he stays married to her for the kids and her money. I really want nothing to do with him, but I just don't know how to break out. Any suggestions? Before you go on the hate train, I already know what I am doing is wrong, so please don't bash me. I'm trying to do the right thing by leaving so please, if you can give me some thoughtful advice I would greatly appreciate it.

2006-12-13 17:35:22 · 31 answers · asked by yayaquack 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont know how to have sex..
plz help..
m i imature by this..

2006-12-13 17:34:54 · 9 answers · asked by ashu 1 in Weddings

I ordered something through a cataloge and I tracked the tracking number. It should be here tomarrow around 7 pm. that is an estimated time. Does fed ex usually delivery at night? and are they accurate on delivery times? I dont want to miss the truck. what can I do, if I am not here? I dont want them to just leave it on my back porch. please help?

2006-12-13 17:34:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

his mom does, but his dad is always distant with me, what do you talk about with your boyfriends DAD?

2006-12-13 17:34:14 · 13 answers · asked by Olivia C 1 in Family

In our state she has to go to school until she is 16 and they force her to take math and science classes. I'm upset because this is not going to make her a better homemaker, wife, or mom. What is the point of trying to teach these things? I mean algebra and chemistry is way over her head...

2006-12-13 17:34:12 · 11 answers · asked by Lucky L 1 in Family

What does it mean if a guy is introducing himself to you and one of your guy friends comes up and puts his hand on your shoulder and squeezes it, looks at you and then glares at the guy that is introducing himself to you??

P.S. The two guys do not know each other and my guy friend is always really nice and sweet usually, but he is always calling me sexy or beautiful and will pinch or poke my sides, back or stomach and when he is sitting down and I'm standing up he will grab my lower legs (gently). Are there any hidden feelings here?

2006-12-13 17:32:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating