I love my husband with my whole heart and we trust, love and respect one another. I have never lied or hidden anything from him. Yet, I am heartbroken over the decision whether or not to tell him that I have cancer. I know that he is there for me no matter what our obstacles are. I need him to be strong for me, and if I tell him...he will crumble. If I do not tell him, it will kill him. I know that I should not have to go through this alone because he is there for me. Right now he is away from home, but I do not want him to come home just to fuss over me. I am torn between my decisions.
A few weeks ago, My DMD took two x-rays. In both x-rays...the mass was present. She referred me to an Oral Surgeon, and he also took two x-rays. (The x-rays from my previous DMD show no mass below the roots. I had x-rays taken less than two years ago). I had a biopsy, and my DMD said that she would have my results in a few days…
I found out that I have a malignant tumor in my jawbone that is in the first stage at 1cm. I have surgery next week. The Oral Surgeon is going to remove the mass, and section out a portion of my jawbone. I might only have to go through radiation…I have always been an optimistic person…
2006-12-13
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