Since I am a girl (early teens) I want some guy friends to hang out with that are my "friends" not Boyfriend or that whatsoever.
2006-12-13 16:43:41 · 9 answers · asked by Vintage Diva 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's pretty hard to become friends with a guy if your a girl because your on two diffrent levels. Your thinking of being friends, he's thinking of ...well....uh....sex. I'm not saying its impossible but its hard.
2006-12-13 16:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by pebbles06106 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Become interested in the things guys are interested in, like sports or cars or something and just start a conversation with a guy talking about guy things and he'll be impressed that your are so knowledgeable. Hang out where guys hang out, make friends with your friends boyfriends. The best type of male friends are the kinds with girlfriends, and u can be the one they talk to about their problems.
2006-12-14 00:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to have this problem too. But eventually I got a job at a clothing retail and being in the military, so being around guys 24/7 was obvious-I was just myself, but a little less diva and not too tomboyish, a good started is" hey whats up.....hey did you watch the last episode of so and so....blah, just what you'd conversate with your female friends, except not too much girlie things.
2006-12-14 01:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw a party with guys and girls. Invite about 7 of each. Make a point of saying something nice to each of the guys there.
Invite two guys and one girl into a study group.
Go to a sporting event of a guy you want to be friends with and root for him.
These should get you started.
Good Luck!
2006-12-14 00:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by Indy Mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm this is a hard question to answer for me becuz im the type of girl (13) who is already friends wtih a whole buncha guys. not like slutty either becuz me and my friends are like a group of girls and guys. and like i used to always be shy and like "ew boy get away from me" like that and stuff when i was younger but then i just opend up a bit and just started being myself and then guys were like not all over me but more talkative towards me. and then when id just go up to them and be like WELL HELLO! or whatever and acting like im hyper they would just talk to me and thats how i met a whole buncha my guy friends.
2006-12-14 00:51:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys can see ur intensions from the beginning, if u try acting like one and talking about stuff they do they're just gonna think ur doing to much to fit in....at the same time dont be a diva!lol....act the same way u would with a brother or guy cuzn,,,just chill right? :D
2006-12-14 00:49:02 · answer #6 · answered by →Sasha← 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be nice, but not easy...be sweet, but don't lead them on...know something about sports/able to converse on it...be willing, but don't let them take full advantage of you...don't have an attitude all the time!
2006-12-14 00:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you girlfriends have guy friends whom they hang out with, ask them to introduce you to her guy friends. then hang out with them. And smile a lot.
I used to have no guy friends, but now I do.
2006-12-14 00:46:31 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs Brandon 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cook for them, clean for them, play the playstation with them, show some interest in something that they do.
2006-12-14 01:09:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋