my husband fought for joint custody and won. he has his kids every weekend , school vacation and summer, they are not sent with food or money or clothes, so this means we provide everything for them while they are here. recently we had to take the oldest one to the dentist to get her rotted teeth pulled out because the mom continuously said she was going to take her but the appts were cancelled or something else came up... i put them on my insurance because my husbands job does not offer ins. and their mother is neglecting some of their medical needs. the oldest one is deaf and she said it was a hassle to take sign classes, she can not even pay her light bill but she will buy movies, expensive clothes for her and the kids. he is paying child support but we are worried that it is not going where it needs to be and we have a 7 mo. old daughter. can he request a reduction and win or can we get custody (not to keep them from her) without a lawyer?
please help, they deserve more!!
2006-12-13
15:38:22
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motherof3
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Marriage & Divorce