Will guys be attracted to a girl with low-self esteem?

Answer 1

Of course. Unfortunately, there seems to be way more girls with low self-esteem than high self-esteem these days. I venture to say that your average guy hopes you will have low self-esteem so that he can take advantage of you, manipulate you, and play you. If more young women set higher standards for themselves as far as what they are willing to put up with from men......and what they are not going to put up with, men wouldn't think that so many women are putty in their hands or that they can get away with behavior that is disrespectful, selfish, and just plain hateful.

Answer 2

the ones that need to be needed will like a girl with low self esteem but if ur the girl with low self esteem work on the esteem before u jump into a relationship

Answer 3

Not really unless they are control freaks. You really need to worry about those guys they tend to make sure your self esteem stays low and possibly get lower. Trust me, I know... Why is your self esteem so low? Try to find out why and work on it so you can attract people you deserve. Good Luck

Answer 4

Confidence is something that is important to a man. Though low self esteem is bad,its not always bad in a relationship as long as you dont let it get in the way of you and your man.
Men like to help woman see their true beauty, but you need to learn to love yourself first before you can accept the words from your boyfriend.

Answer 5

Yes. You'll attract abusers that way that can treat you like **** because you have low self esteem. You'll also attract men that are controlling. Not good.

Work on your relationship with yourself before you get into one with someone else. Otherwise, you will more than likely get into an unhealthy relationship. Good luck!

Answer 6

No! guys use girls with low self -esteem to do things for them and get sex out of them and tell you everything that youwant to hear but don't mean it. And when they're through with you, they move on to the next victim.

Answer 7

Nope, it shows she's not there to have fun.
Looking at a girl with low self esteem is looking at someone who won't go out, be proud of their body and swim in a bikini, wear something different, go out in public loud and proud, be noticed etc.
It's sort of depressing to be around.
Guys look for bubbling, outgoing girls who they know will have fun with them, a girl who can make them laugh.

Answer 8

Yes, men with even lower self esteem problem seek out women like that then proceed to mentally and emotionally abuse them.

Answer 9

personally no because of the fact that they want a girl who thinks positive about there selves. Someone with personallity and a postive out look hthat is what i think hope this helps and also girl i no it hard but every one is diffrent no one can are will ever be perfect and also just beacuse you are beatifukl on the outside you can be **** on the end remembe that

Answer 10

yes and no. you will more than likely find one who wants to "help" you to get your self-esteem back to where it should be. then you will most definately encounter the ones that just dont give a damn. take care and good luck. but i really think that this is something you need to work on yourself. happy holidays...