My ex decided that he wanted to end it for the 5th, thats right 5th time. I decided that I'm through wit the drama that comes with him. He has on every other occassion found a way to get me to come back. I have a sneaking suspicion he's trying to get me to be the one who asks to come back. How do I in the nicest way possible let him know that he ruined it for himself and that I in no way wish to ever be anyhting to him anymore. Not a girlfriend, not a friend, not even an acquaintance.
2006-12-13 15:36:32 · 9 answers · asked by jaimssunshine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you are done and don't want to see him anymore. If he calls, don't argue or explain, just say "Stop calling." If he shows up at you home or work, say "please leave."
If he doesn't respect your wishes, he may be obsessed and that might be dangerous. You can file a restraining order against him or contact the local PD to ask about stalking laws in your area.
Make sure you are safe. I have had a stalker, but fortunately she is living 450 miles away now and can't travel. Years later she does call now and then and I just hang up.
2006-12-13 15:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by teach_empathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, personaly i think that you are always at the end of the day do what you want and what ur heart says. I think that you have the advantage at this point tell him that its over it doesnt matter how u tell him just tell him. The only reason why u dont have to be nice is because he hasnt been nice with ur emotions. ur emotions make u who u are and until he realizes that about the human nature he will never understand...
2006-12-13 23:41:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex did the same thing! We dated off and on for a year, each time lasting a week and then he would just disappear. He probably likes to play games with you emotions but doesn't openly admit it. Don't talk to him, period. Don't contact him by email, phone, nothing. Block his emails and change your phone number, that will be a big slap in the face for him!
2006-12-14 00:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by Wendy Kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, at this point, there is no way to be kind about it. If he's broken your heart five times, he shouldn't be treated with the respect of an ex-boyfriend.
I say, just tell him, "I do not want to be with you anymore. You ruined your chances, so it's not my fault."
I hope I'm of some assistance :)
2006-12-13 23:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by Henry III 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Restraining order
2006-12-13 23:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by alexismikeapril 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with his best friend and then call him back to brag about how great it was. When he complains just tell him that you thought he wanted to stay friends and you could tell each other anything.
2006-12-13 23:41:12 · answer #6 · answered by jbsim75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prove it. Action speaks louder than words!
2006-12-13 23:42:24 · answer #7 · answered by Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, flirt wif other guys in front of him
2006-12-13 23:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by shelau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hv to agree with alexis.
2006-12-13 23:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by Something Other Than Else 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋