This guy that I had been talking to and visiting from Boston just stopped talking to me. I found him on myspace and sent him a message. I got a reply from a girl who says she is his gf, and that they have lived together for 1.5 yrs. I have never heard him mention her and when I went up and stayed for a week, there was no evidence of a female in the house at all. I methis family and they never acted like he had a gf. She says she manages his space and he doesnt have access b/c he doesnt want to. She is prying me for info. I think she is full of bs. What do you think?
2006-12-13 15:44:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her the truth - if he was cheating on her then she deserves to know - if she has just figured out his password AND they just started dating - then there is no harm done on your part - if he gets mad tell him to use better judgment with his future girlfriends
Also this may be his Little sister messing with you
or it could be him pretending that he is a jealous g/f to get you to leave him alone b/c he has no b@lls!
2006-12-13 15:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by kim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually she COULD be telling the truth. This happened to my fiance (then bf) wasnt telling girls that we were togther and have a child together. Only I dont manage his account thats just controlling if you ask me! And the place he took you to doesnt mean that is really his place. And his family may not have said anything since they know about his gf and waited til you left to question him about you. Or he's not into you your just a friend so he didnt think twice about telling you about her.
2006-12-13 15:51:22 · answer #2 · answered by roseupmylife 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had an ex do that to me with one of his friends that was a girl on the phone, just because he was too much of a whimp to break up with me himself. If I had to guess he's either pretending to be this girl to get rid of you or it's a friend doing him a favor, either way this washes out, I would go out and find a REAL man and leave this little boy alone.
2006-12-13 16:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by Wendy Kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is rotten in Denmark.
He stopped talking to you.
There is another woman who is "managing" his myspace.
I would not tell this girl anything, but I think that you should write off this guy, since there are some things he hasn't told you.
2006-12-13 15:48:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be 3 things a) she nuts
b) it's true and the family felt to awkward to say anything, guys can hide girly stuff around the house pretty quick if they are smart
c) he asked her to do this to get rid of you. Yes guys do that a friend of mine asked me to do it for him to get rid of some chick,
Whatever it is just forget about him, it's a waste of your time
2006-12-13 15:49:22 · answer #5 · answered by krissy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, she's pretty crazy. Maybe she's just trying to pull you away so that she could hook up with him, rather than you, but if I was a guy, I wouldn't go out with a psycho....
2006-12-13 15:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by Henry III 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her anything. If she doesn't know already, it's not up to you to spill the beans.
If you insist on contacting the guy, have him clear up any questions you have before you move ahead with anything.
2006-12-13 16:04:22 · answer #7 · answered by keltarr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is lying. Somehow she got his password. Sounds like a stalker
2006-12-13 15:49:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You've reached a room full of snakes..
2006-12-13 15:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by ® Espresso ® 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Runnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn!!!!!!! it don't matter whats going on that's just DRAMA you don't need. Good Luck
2006-12-13 15:49:49 · answer #10 · answered by SOLO KING 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋