Family & Relationships - 13 December 2006

I want to be a social person and have fun, but I never feel like talking to anyone. I always have the tendency to just keep to myself, but I want to make some new friends. Please help!?

2006-12-13 16:12:44 · 12 answers · asked by Sonya 5 in Friends

This girl i like has really got me angry, and im nowto a stage where i dont care and just want answers,im going to ask her to coffee for a chat, and speak to her in person and ask whats up. We use to always go for lunches, movies, the one dinner, and also coffees after work etc..she always used to laugh alot with me, and also touch me heaps..all this went for awhile,and shes kind of the same now, but talk much less to me now, and she acts wierd when talking on the phone with me at work, and also when i see her, shes much more quiet...she also once told me to F%^k off when all i was trying to do was cheer her up, and she said i was being loud...but shes getting real distant now...one thing though....she always used to ask me to lunches, and so forth, noy me, she would.,....maybe shes angry i never did.???....i dont want to ruin this...so im going to meet up and have a face to face chat,and ask if she has anything on her mind, and give her time to think over it..will this stategy work

2006-12-13 16:12:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wat is better

2006-12-13 16:12:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do you think you should tell an ex-fiance or ex-boyfriend/girlfriend that you are now engaged to be married to someone? Or do you think you should just let life take its course and have them find out on their own? I would not want to know if an ex was getting married - I remember a friend told me that an ex was getting married and I was pissed they told me b/c I did't want to think about them being with someone else. The friend told me she did not want me to hear it from anyone else and that he had told my friend he was going to call me and tell me but never did so she felt it was her obligation to do so. What do you think?

2006-12-13 16:11:42 · 16 answers · asked by ladylitigator 1 in Singles & Dating

They have said some mean things about it and this had hurt me a lot.They know how important it was for me to go back to school(I waited 7 yrs).I am happy that I am at school and I am doing well,but I am also regretting it because they have turned their backs on me for it.I made it here on my own and I thought they would be proud of me for reaching one of my life goals,but they aren’t.Now that Christmas is coming,I am torn between going back and having them problems like last year or staying away from them and celebrate the holiday without them.It is also my b-day.My parents are not getting any younger and I don’t want to have something to happen and regret not spending as much time with them as I should.Last I saw them was in June due to school,yet they never have made an effort to contact me.I have written them,but I never get a reply.Every time I go there,I usually end up crying because of the horrible way they treated me.I will be moving cross-country to go to grad school after this

2006-12-13 16:11:39 · 10 answers · asked by Elizabeth 2 in Family

just asking

2006-12-13 16:09:38 · 17 answers · asked by kellie t 1 in Family

its too much for me too handle..My best friend is constantly complaining about the pain and suffereing she endures in her relationship...I can't take anymore of it because it hurts me tohear it... So before I shut her out of my life because I don't want to lose myslef over her problems...How can I still be there

2006-12-13 16:09:10 · 3 answers · asked by heart'sbreath 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

They talk about me all the time.

2006-12-13 16:09:04 · 4 answers · asked by Purtee56 3 in Friends

Im a PFC in the Army, and i really like a girl, dat happens to be a SGT which is two ranks above me, i can tell she likes me too because we flirt back n forth, should i let rank keep me from her?

2006-12-13 16:08:57 · 11 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

Haha...

2006-12-13 16:08:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does everyone go on a honey moon for 2 weeks after marriage? what about poor people who cant afford it? do they go? i dont really want to go if i get married. would the wife be upset? or is it strictly up to the couples' decision? if you dont go, does it mean you are weird?

2006-12-13 16:07:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

kay my question is, think of past relationships and current ones. what is your girlfriend doing that is driving you nuts, or annoys you, or plain pisses you off. then think about what it is in those relationships that you loved about her. then list as many of these qualities down as possible. good and bad. also think about things that woman are clueless about and that you wished that they would do things in a certain way. list these also. what makes you attracted to a woman and what keeps you interested.i feel that this is your chance to say what youve been wanting to say for so long. so bear your soul to me and you will be surprised how many girls will read this. and you never know. what one person reads gets relayed to another and maybe youll affect the life of someone ment for you. so i appreciate long detailed answers.

2006-12-13 16:07:01 · 10 answers · asked by solas lethe 3 in Singles & Dating

still miss her dearly, especially during Christmas.

2006-12-13 16:03:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

No fantasies really don't lie


By posting on this you swear to tell the truth pliz

2006-12-13 16:02:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is always ready to go when I say something about it, but he never brings it up!! We will weeks without unless I say something. When I let it go that long he starts getting grouchy and hard to live with, until I give in and go to him, sometimes just to put him in a better mood. He says he doesn't feel comfortable asking for it. How does he think I feel? Do I stick to my guns and wait him out no matter what, or keep on doing what I'm doing? I feel like if I don't he will go find someone else.

2006-12-13 16:01:17 · 22 answers · asked by Bekka 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-13 16:01:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-13 16:00:49 · 19 answers · asked by SONNY_D 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i work as a cocktail waitress and i really need the money, theres nothing much i know how to do besides serving drinnks. of course our uniforms are real slutty, i didnt mind but me and my co workers are like being harrassed by the guys. they say sexual things and touch us without permission. i always get my nylon thighs feeled on when i serve drinks on a table. and they have me smacking our asses. one guymy skirt lifted up just to see what was under. we kind of told the manager but too embarrassed and he didn't do much.

and when i come home my bf doesn't even care and worst yet, he forces in me, everyday when i come home in my uniform, he does it to me. he doesn't even ask first. and he has this attitude now like, "Take off all you clothes now." and "Get in bed now" and like hes real rough. like forcing my legs to open and stuff. i have to put up with this during the work and once i come home i have this. help

2006-12-13 15:58:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anika 2 in Family

I have a friend who i think is depressed, or she might just be really tired from school and working a lot. She's really quiet when she's around a group of friends and wants to be alone. She is actually a quiet and reserved person but it appears that she's losing interest in things that she onced loved to do, for example, hanging out with friends, playing her guitar, and afterschool clubs. She seems to want to always be sleeping and avoiding things.Other times it seems like she's forcing herself to act happy and like nothing is wrong, but in reality i think something is bothering her. I have been fortunate enough to be one of the few people she still confides in but she doesn't tell me as much anymore and I'm worried that something worse might happen if she keeps acting this way. I'm not really sure how to handle this and some advice would be appreciated.

2006-12-13 15:58:06 · 30 answers · asked by xGreySkies_N_Rosesx 2 in Friends

2006-12-13 15:57:59 · 17 answers · asked by Matt 2 in Friends

Girls if this was u, what would u do???
heres the thing, ive been talkin to a guy for a couple of weeks. he seems cool, but i get the feeling hes just full of it, he just wants to get in my pants. But im still attracted to see where this goes, what would u? would u keep talkin to him...or distance urself..cuz u know thats all he wants, What would u do honestly?

2006-12-13 15:57:06 · 5 answers · asked by Bored Latina 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 15:56:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

help me please im scared hes gonna say no he dont wanna go out with me i dont talk to him and im tooo shy please help me!!!

2006-12-13 15:55:35 · 19 answers · asked by girly_girl4860 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello there. I know there has been so many advises about christmas gifts for gilfriends. I am stuck on the message part. I am just woundering what is the going rate for a hour massage and what do they include?

I already got her a neckless worth $200 thats shaped as a heart. We are engaged. We are suppose to get married this coming up September. We have been together for 3 years. I am 24 and she is 22.
It gets harder and harder every year. Any Suggestions?? I dont wanna do the basket because i did it last year. Thank you

2006-12-13 15:54:35 · 9 answers · asked by cratty_3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

In anyones point of view...hit me-

Also I hardley know this guy...but I want to make this kiss hotter then hell when I throw his *** into the wall and pound my lips into his...mmm mmm goooood

2006-12-13 15:54:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

be honest

2006-12-13 15:52:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 15:52:24 · 8 answers · asked by imjust_lori 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 15:52:07 · 16 answers · asked by Rachel T. 2 in Friends

I am going to meet a guy i at school that i seen around but never talked to him in person. He wants me to meet him so we can talk i kind of have a crush on him and i want to talk to him but i dont know what to say..do you have any ideas? anything is helpful thankss.

2006-12-13 15:51:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend.. The problem is I don't like his attitude.. So I want to break up with him but I don't know how..What should I say if he ask me why I wanna break up with him?? I don't want to hurt his feelings...Please help me....

2006-12-13 15:51:51 · 9 answers · asked by Lil' Mira 1 in Singles & Dating