This girl i like has really got me angry, and im nowto a stage where i dont care and just want answers,im going to ask her to coffee for a chat, and speak to her in person and ask whats up. We use to always go for lunches, movies, the one dinner, and also coffees after work etc..she always used to laugh alot with me, and also touch me heaps..all this went for awhile,and shes kind of the same now, but talk much less to me now, and she acts wierd when talking on the phone with me at work, and also when i see her, shes much more quiet...she also once told me to F%^k off when all i was trying to do was cheer her up, and she said i was being loud...but shes getting real distant now...one thing though....she always used to ask me to lunches, and so forth, noy me, she would.,....maybe shes angry i never did.???....i dont want to ruin this...so im going to meet up and have a face to face chat,and ask if she has anything on her mind, and give her time to think over it..will this stategy work
2006-12-13 16:12:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
will she like the fact im trying to actually sort things out with her?
2006-12-13 16:12:44 · update #1
It is always best to be upfront, but in a nice, and calm way. If your not, then you may never resolve your situation. You don't want to keep emotions bottled up. Then again, you don't want to be to persistant, because that can get annoying, and may make you look weak. Best of luck!
2006-12-13 16:26:11 · answer #1 · answered by Nautalee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience, talking isn't always pleasant but it needs to be done. If she asks why now, why are you doing this tell her you're worried. That you want it to work between you two and you're trying to do everything to make sure the relationship is as good as possible.
And the way it sounds is that she is being withdrawn. This could be many things such as maybe something someone has told her has affected her mood (such as oh you two are getting too close. What other people say have an influence on you, whether you like it or not). Or in the worst scenario she is starting to fall out of this due to...boredom perhaps? If this is the case, spice things up....but whatever the case goodluck
2006-12-14 00:19:34 · answer #2 · answered by toasterlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you what she'll think. But I would really appreciate it if a guy asked me what was going on, especially if he actually listened to what I had to say and respected my opinion.
2006-12-14 00:17:56 · answer #3 · answered by geekteacher1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah dude, go for it. Don't use the word "you" too much though, when the words "gorgeous" "i love" etc etc aren't included! if you know what i mean ;)
2006-12-14 00:15:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a hint dude. move one, and get over it. chics are crazy. there may not be any explanation for her actions. just accept it.
2006-12-14 00:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by mike h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to ask her what's going on. stuff like that has happened to me before too. sometimes the ball bounces your way and sometimes no.
2006-12-14 00:17:11 · answer #6 · answered by romeo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may and may not...feel out your convo. with her and see how it goes...tell her that you enjoyed your time with her and want to know where it went wrong...good luck_
2006-12-14 00:15:57 · answer #7 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋