Im a PFC in the Army, and i really like a girl, dat happens to be a SGT which is two ranks above me, i can tell she likes me too because we flirt back n forth, should i let rank keep me from her?
2006-12-13 16:08:57 · 11 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i've been in the army about 5 yrs now, so i can tell you that your situation isn't all that uncommon. honestly, you're not likely to have a "meaningful" relationship with your NCO. there are regs on this sort of thing, you know. but if there's a vibe there, go for it. wait for a casual, off-duty setting, preferrably w/ drinks, and just forget about the rank. if anything crosses the line, you'll know it. she's the NCO, remember. keep it low, and its usually never a big deal. if it is, she should let you know.
2006-12-13 16:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by mike h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her and try and get her to talk to her parents... By her talking to them gives her more options on wether or not she wants to keep it or even adoption she has more options now than she will later. Her parents will find out eventually just make sure it's not to late. And be a good friend and try and help/guide her to make the choices she wants and not what anyone "wants" her to do because she am has to deal with it later on in life no matter what she decides... And like the girl before said her parents will grow to the idea and yes there's a chance they'll loose it but the won't hurt her or the baby. So encourage her to make her decisions that will benefit her in the end.
2016-05-23 23:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would advise it just because if she wanted to she could raise holy hell for you. I don't see why you can't find another girl to like i mean come on there are plenty of girls out there that would love an Army guy. My hubby always told me that he never messed with Marine bitches when he was single. It was just a rule. I think you should follow it too. Good luck. Thanks for serving!
2006-12-13 16:13:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless she makes an issue out of it. Almost forgot....thank you for serving our country and God Bless You.
2006-12-13 16:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope , rank is not importanat at this point if she likes you too.
but
in marrige or long term if girls make more money than you , they use it so be aware of that !
2006-12-13 16:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by Soap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like each other then rank shouldn't matter!
2006-12-13 16:12:47 · answer #6 · answered by shortmeanstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her! That's the only way and she knows better!
2006-12-13 16:11:15 · answer #7 · answered by Infinite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't there rules about that?
2006-12-13 16:11:50 · answer #8 · answered by my-kids-mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well shes not little kid, so go for it.
P.S stop hanging around outside highschools.
2006-12-13 16:20:07 · answer #9 · answered by krissy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh dude, it would be awesome if you get her!
2006-12-13 16:11:23 · answer #10 · answered by DeadmanWalks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋